Host: Dr. Allen Lycka

Guest: Jessica Weaver, CEO of Women's Wealth Boutique, Best-Selling Author

Dr. Allen Lycka welcomes Jessica Weaver, a woman wealth advisor, CEO of Women's Wealth Boutique, best-selling author, and founder of the empowering women's community, #PinkFix. Jessica's books, such as Confessions of a Money Queen and Time to Refine: A Strong Women's Guide to Retiring on Her Own Terms, provide invaluable insight into wealth management for women.

Growing Up in the Financial Industry

• Early Exposure: Jessica shares how she was introduced to the financial world through her father, a financial advisor.
• Career Start: After working summers at her father's office, Jessica earned her securities license during college and became a Certified Financial Planner (CFP).
• The Gender Gap: Jessica highlights the lack of financial education for women and the myth that women are not good at math.

The Need for Women's Wealth Education

• Challenges for Women: Women often face significant gaps in financial literacy. The industry is predominantly male, with only 18% of financial advisors being women.
• Jessica’s Mission: Through her wealth boutique and productions company, she aims to fill the education gap, offering financial tools and information specifically for women.

The Importance of Smart Investment Strategies

• Warren Buffett's Influence: Dr. Lycka shares how Warren Buffett's buy-and-hold strategy has influenced his own investments, with Jessica emphasizing the importance of understanding investment costs and value.
• Compound Interest & Early Investing: Both Jessica and Dr. Lycka discuss the magic of compound interest and the need for early investments to build wealth over time.
• Reallocating Investments: Jessica explains her firm’s strategy of reallocating investments to protect gains during market highs and buy in during market lows.

The Psychology of the Market

• Investor Emotion: Jessica describes how fear and greed drive market fluctuations and investors' often emotional decision-making.
• Dollar-Cost Averaging: She explains the benefits of dollar-cost averaging, a strategy many use unknowingly through contributions to 401(k)s.

Estate Planning and Wealth Preservation

• The Importance of Planning: Jessica stresses the need for effective estate planning, citing that 70% of wealth is lost from one generation to the next without proper planning.
• Tax Changes: The estate tax threshold is expected to decrease significantly by 2025, meaning more people will need to plan carefully to avoid hefty tax bills.

Empowering Women in Wealth Management

• Changing the Industry: Jessica shares how she is leading the charge to bring more women into financial services through books, scholarships, and retreats for female advisors.
• Collaboration over Competition: Jessica’s mission is to foster collaboration among female advisors to elevate each other and the industry as a whole.

A Fantastic Life: Balancing Passion and Personal Life

• Work-Life Balance: Jessica reflects on how she balances her career with her family life, teaching her children the value of passion for work and financial independence.
• Legacy Building: Through #PinkFix, Jessica is creating a legacy by involving her children in her businesses, ensuring that wealth and knowledge are passed on to future generations.

BIO

Jessica Weaver, CFP, CDFA, CFS is a Wealth Advisor, Best Selling Author, and author of the blog: Not Your Father's Advisor. She is the founder of #pinkfix, a powerhouse community of women to grow their career, build wealth, and form lasting relationships. Her #1 bestselling books include, "Confessions of a Money Queen", "Strong Woman Stronger Assets" and "Time to Refine: a strong woman's guide to retiring on her own terms."

Social Media

Instagram.com/pinkfixmymoney

Facebook.com/pinkfixmymoney

Facebook.com/groups/themoneylounge

Facebook.com/WWBPartners

Dr. Melissa Robinson Winemiller - Turning Setbacks into Superpowers Through Empathy and Leadership

Introduction: Turning Setbacks into Superpowers

In this episode, Dr. Allen Lycka welcomes Dr. Melissa Robinson Winemiller, a thought leader in emotional intelligence (EQ) and empathy-driven leadership. After losing her music career due to systemic failures in leadership, Dr. Winemiller transformed her personal adversity into expertise in empathy and emotional intelligence. With over 30 years of experience in leadership across academia, non-profits, and businesses, she now empowers others to boost productivity and innovation by leading with empathy.

From Music Career to Empathy Leadership Expert

Dr. Winemiller shares the devastating experience of losing her long-cultivated music career after being ignored by leadership following an assault at work. She explains the emotional and psychological impact of that time, the identity crisis that followed, and how she rebuilt herself by rethinking leadership. Her journey highlights how resilience and empathy became her greatest strengths.

Key Quote:

"For it to suddenly be gone, I didn’t know who or what I was. It took years for me to figure it out." – Dr. Melissa Robinson Winemiller

Emotional Intelligence: A Foundation for Leadership

Dr. Winemiller dives deep into emotional intelligence (EQ), emphasizing that empathy is foundational to EQ. Traditionally, empathy was included as one of many soft skills, but she argues it must come first in leadership and human connection. By truly understanding others, leaders can better communicate, manage emotions, and cultivate healthier, more effective teams.

Key Takeaways:

• Empathy enables better understanding of others and self.
• Emotional intelligence is essential for leadership, but empathy must be the first step.
• Leading with empathy improves workplace productivity, profit, and innovation.

The Importance of Self-Reflection in Leadership

A recurring theme in the discussion is self-reflection. Dr. Winemiller highlights that leaders need to understand themselves before they can effectively lead others. Taking time for introspection, acknowledging personal strengths and weaknesses, and continually working on self-improvement are crucial practices for emotional intelligence and leadership growth.

Key Quote:

"Before you can begin to understand other people, you really need to take the time to understand yourself." – Dr. Melissa Robinson Winemiller

Leadership and Communication: The Empathy Connection

Dr. Winemiller explains how empathy can transform communication in leadership. By connecting with employees and understanding their perspectives, leaders can communicate more effectively, enhancing trust and fostering a more collaborative environment. Inadequate communication and a lack of empathy in leadership are often the primary reasons change management initiatives fail.

Key Takeaway:

Effective communication, driven by empathy, can reshape entire organizations.

Pre-orders for the book are available on her website, and those who pre-order will receive an autographed copy.

Life Lessons: How to Live a Fantastic Life

Reflecting on how she has learned to live a fantastic life, Dr. Winemiller emphasizes the power of self-reflection. She believes that the hard work of looking inward, figuring out who she truly is, and aligning with her values has allowed her to thrive, despite adversity.

1. Social Media Links:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-melissa-a-robinson-winemiller-mba-prosci-cp/

https://www.instagram.com/empathyqueen.eq/

https://www.youtube.com/@The.Empathic.Leader

These are the preorder link for my book and my website:

https://stan.store/empathicleader

https://eqviaempathy.com/

Guest: Peter Ticktin, attorney, author, and advocate for the "little guy."

Dr. Allen Lycka introduces Peter Ticktin, an attorney known for his high-profile cases, such as AIDS litigation and the $30 billion mortgage foreclosure settlement. Peter has also defended Donald Trump and authored a book titled What Makes Trump Tick, based on his time with Trump at the New York Military Academy.

Early Life and Military Academy

Peter's Time at New York Military Academy (NYMA)

Peter reflects on attending NYMA with Donald Trump. He describes how the experience shaped both, teaching them discipline and courage. Peter attributes some of Trump's decisions as president, like moving the U.S. Embassy to Jerusalem, to the lessons learned at NYMA.

Law School and Career Transition

From Medicine to Law

Initially pursuing a career in medicine, Peter talks about his struggles in school due to learning difficulties. Despite early setbacks, he managed to overcome academic challenges, which eventually led him to law after briefly attending medical school.

Career Highlights

Practicing Law in Florida

Peter moved to Florida in 1985 to practice law, having already built a successful career as a criminal lawyer in Ontario. He reflects on taking a break to focus on survival skills like growing food and rebuilding engines before returning to law and resuming his fight for justice, often representing "the little guy."

High-Profile and Impactful Cases

A Notable Case on Organ Harvesting

Peter recalls a heartbreaking case involving a 7-year-old Haitian child whose organs were harvested without consent. The case, televised on Court TV, was one of his most emotionally charged.

HIV/AIDS Litigation

Peter discusses representing HIV/AIDS patients when other lawyers refused due to fear of the disease. His cases helped address the stigma and fight for the rights of those affected during the early days of the HIV/AIDS epidemic.

Media Involvement and Celebrities

Representing High-Profile Clients

Peter shares his experience working with celebrities, including Brian Littrell of the Backstreet Boys. He enjoys representing honest people, regardless of their fame, and stands by his belief in helping those who are decent and clean in character.

Libel and Defamation Cases

Defamation and Falsehoods

Peter explains his involvement in libel cases and related issues, including Donald Trump's lawsuit against Hillary Clinton over the Russian collusion allegations. He expresses a passion for revealing the truth in defamation cases and letting the facts speak for themselves.

BIO:

Attorney Peter Ticktin has made a significant impact through high-profile cases, such as HIV Litigation in the 90s and the $30 billion mortgage foreclosure settlement. Known for defending the 'little guy,' he has fought discrimination and handled diverse cases in personal injury, employment, entertainment, family, and business law. Notable cases include Donald Trump's lawsuit against Hillary Clinton and Samantha Markle's suit against Meghan Markle.

Ticktin also writes books, including "What Makes Trump Tick," about his time with Donald Trump at the New York Military Academy.

The Ticktin Law Group: Founded by Peter Ticktin in 2008, The Ticktin Law Group (www.LegalBrains.com) consists of experienced strategists and trial lawyers. They focus on creativity, cost-effectiveness, and communication to provide superior legal solutions.

Social Media:

Website: https://legalbrains.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/peterticktin/recent-activity/posts/

Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/PTicktin/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/peterticktin?s=21&t=SVQPPLJiKYdunpVz8Yx4Fw

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/peter_ticktin/?hl=en

From Dyslexia to Emmy Success: The Journey of Tabatha Starcher

Episode Description:

In this inspiring episode, Dr. Allen Lycka interviews Tabatha Starcher, Emmy Award winner and Head of Business Development at the National Academy of Television Arts & Sciences. Tabatha shares her incredible journey from overcoming dyslexia to becoming a powerhouse in television, corporate strategy, and advocacy. Discover her creative process, the challenges she faced in her career, and her advice for living a fantastic life.

Key Discussion Points:

1. Tabatha's Career Journey

• Tabatha’s early struggles with dyslexia and overcoming societal stigmas.
• How her passion for storytelling and highlighting meaningful causes led her to television and brand development.
• Current role as Head of Business Development at the Emmy Academy.

2. Spotlighting Good in Media

• Tabatha’s commitment to using the Emmy brand to uplift small businesses, nonprofits, and minority-owned organizations.
• The importance of creating opportunities through initiatives like gifting programs and grants.

3. Behind the Scenes at the Emmys

• Overview of the eight Emmy Award shows annually, including highlights like the Children’s and Family Emmys, Sports Emmys, and Daytime Emmys.
• Details on how to stream Emmy events through the platform Watch.theme.tv.

4. Overcoming Dyslexia and Achieving Success

• Tabatha’s reflections on overcoming self-doubt and societal expectations tied to her learning challenges.
• Her proudest moment: winning an Emmy and the realization of her resilience and determination.

5. The Creative Process and Business Strategy

• Advice on reading the room, understanding your audience, and fostering collaboration in creative projects.
• The importance of flexibility in business and creating win-win scenarios for all stakeholders.

6. Challenges in the Industry

• Struggles with funding as an independent producer and lessons learned in brand strategy.
• Using the Emmy platform to provide scholarships, grants, and opportunities to underrepresented communities.

7. Living a Fantastic Life

• Tabatha’s philosophy on self-care and creating a nurturing daily routine.
• Investing in long-term self-love practices to enhance well-being.

Memorable Quotes:

• "The person that remains the most flexible remains in control." – Tabatha Starcher
• "I had to overcome dyslexia, but more importantly, I overcame the stigma and self-doubt that came with it." – Tabatha Starcher

Resources and Links:

• Tabatha Starcher on Instagram: @TabathaStarcher
• National Academy of Television Arts & Sciences: Emmy Awards Website
• Stream Emmy Events: Watch.theme.tv
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Introduction

• Guest: Phil Jewell, a Sanders graduate and seasoned leader in the British, Canadian, and US armies.
• Overview: Phil discusses his approach to leadership, focusing on mindset, character, integrity, and resilience over technical skills. His emphasis is on simplifying leadership and creating impact through the basics.

Leadership and Energy

• Phil Jewell: Importance of energy and enthusiasm in leadership.
• Magnifying Glass Effect: Leaders' actions are amplified, and authenticity is key.
• Authenticity in Leadership: People crave authentic leaders who show vulnerability but still inspire resilience.

The Power of Purpose

• Mail in Afghanistan: Phil shares a powerful story from Helmand Province, Afghanistan, where soldiers' morale was tied to receiving mail. The team realized they were not just delivering letters, but "delivering hope."
• Attaching Meaning to Work: Phil emphasizes the importance of connecting mundane tasks to a bigger purpose, applicable in any industry.

Unique Selling Proposition (USP) vs. Unique Educational Proposition (UEP)

• Dr. Lycka: Shares insights from his experience as a cosmetic surgeon, highlighting the importance of having a clear, unique statement to differentiate oneself from the competition.
• Phil Jewell: Focuses on solving human-centered problems rather than simply offering services, as this creates a deeper connection with clients.

Storytelling and Leadership

• Importance of Storytelling: Both Dr. Lycka and Phil stress the importance of storytelling in business and leadership. Phil emphasizes that businesses should tell stories about how they solve problems, not just their technical skills or years of experience.

Sandhurst and Leadership Growth

• Phil's Journey to Sandhurst: He shares his experience growing up with a desire for adventure and service, which led him to Sandhurst, where the motto is "Serve to Lead."
• Mindset Over Skillset: Phil discusses the importance of having a growth mindset and overcoming imposter syndrome, drawing parallels to public figures like Oprah Winfrey and LeBron James.

Lessons from Failure

• Learning from Failure: Phil emphasizes that real champions learn from failure. Leaders should reflect on how their teams perform without them to gauge their effectiveness.
• Examples from Sports: Dr. Lycka shares examples from the Stanley Cup playoffs and how leaders, like Connor McDavid, lead by enabling their team members to succeed.

The Irrelevant Leader

• Delegation and Empowerment: Phil introduces the concept of the "irrelevant leader," where a leader’s goal should be to empower their team to succeed independently.
• Leadership Success: A true leader's effectiveness is measured by how well the team performs in their absence.

Living a Fantastic Life

• Balancing Work and Life: Phil discusses how he balances his passion for leadership with his family life. He highlights the importance of understanding one’s non-negotiables and following a purpose-driven life.

Leadership in Business

• Leadership as a Profession: Phil stresses that leadership should be treated as a profession, and training should be provided, especially to emerging leaders.
• Promoting Leaders: Businesses often promote their best technical staff without leadership training, which can be like asking someone to fly a plane without instruction.

BIO:

Phil Jewell, a Sandhurst graduate, and seasoned leader in the British, Canadian, and US Armies, brings a global perspective to leadership. Like a high-performance coach, he emphasizes character and mindset over technical skills, advocating for integrity and resilience in leadership. Passionate about simplifying and enhancing leadership practices, Phil champions the basics to achieve excellence.

Social Media:

Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mrphiljewell/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/philjewell_leadership/

Lindsey & Leslie Glass: Healing Through Recovery and Wellness

Introduction:

Dr. Allen Lycka introduces the dynamic mother-daughter duo, Lindsey and Leslie Glass, both prominent figures in recovery and wellness advocacy. Lindsey, with degrees from Johns Hopkins and NYU, co-founded Reach Out Recovery and has produced award-winning documentaries. Leslie is a best-selling novelist and journalist, known for her acclaimed documentaries and extensive work in publishing and recovery advocacy.

The Mother-Daughter Dynamic:

• Initial Thoughts on Conflict: Lindsey reflects on why mother-daughter relationships are often fraught with conflict, emphasizing control, independence, and personality differences. Leslie elaborates on the struggles of parenting a teen, describing her role in trying to guide Lindsey during her rebellious years.
• Personal Conflicts: Lindsey shares their family’s struggle with communication and unhealthy patterns of fighting, rooted in control and her own battle with substance abuse during high school. Leslie speaks about her difficulty understanding Lindsey’s behavior, especially as her career took off, leaving her unsure how to manage the growing issues.

From Conflict to Reconciliation:

• The Breaking Point: Lindsey had to drop out of college to attend rehab, which became the first step in their path to understanding each other. However, even after starting the recovery journey, their personal relationship remained strained, leading to a four-year estrangement.
• Rebuilding the Relationship: Lindsey discusses the importance of personal healing. Both she and Leslie sought therapy and recovery programs, which helped them understand their own roles in the dysfunction. This time apart was essential for both to reflect and find clarity.

Leslie acknowledges that through her recovery process, Lindsey became her mentor, helping her navigate their reconciliation.

The Power of Writing in Healing:

• Writing as a Tool for Healing: Leslie believes that writing can cure almost anything. It allows for self-reflection and opens the mind to solutions. She explains how writing helped her process emotions and find answers to difficult questions.

Lindsey adds that writing during recovery programs, specifically doing a moral inventory, allowed her to see her part in the dysfunction and to understand how her actions had impacted others, especially her mother.

Shifting Perspectives:

• Empathy and Understanding: Lindsey emphasizes how writing the book with her mother helped her gain a new perspective on Leslie’s challenges as a young mother. She realized how her mother’s own traumas and experiences shaped her actions.

Leslie reflects on how she viewed herself as a good person during those years, but the recovery process helped her see the controlling behaviors that contributed to the conflict.

BIO:

Lindsey and Leslie Glass are a dynamic mother-daughter team in recovery and wellness. Lindsey, with degrees from Johns Hopkins and NYU, co-founded Reach Out Recovery and co-produced award-winning documentaries. She’s a screenwriter, author, and advocate in Los Angeles.

Leslie, a bestselling novelist and journalist, co-edits Reach Out Recovery. She’s known for her acclaimed documentaries and extensive work in publishing and advocacy from Sarasota, Florida.

Together, they inspire change and champion recovery and wellness.

Social Media:

@lindseyglassauthor (insta)

@lindseyglassauthor (TikTok)

Lindsey Glass (Facebook)

Leslie Glass (Facebook)

Reach Out Recovery (Facebook - 123,000+ followers)

@ReachOutRecovery (Instagram - 14K followers)

@ReachOutRecovery (TikTok)

Lindsey Glass (linkedIn)

Leslie Glass (linkedIn)