In this episode of the Miles with Moms podcast, we address a question we have been asked about a lot: what to look for in a running coach & how to find the right running coach for you? We all have had different experiences with running coaches and share what to look for based on your needs, goals, and life stage. Like with most things as a mother runner, you may need a different running coach based on the season you are in. And, in some seasons, you may not want a running coach.

We share some running coaches we have worked with and cautionary tales. We also talk about how to “break up” with a running coach and what are red flags. Our conversation emphasizes the need for effective communication, setting realistic goals, and finding a coaching style that aligns with your individual needs. Ultimately, we encourage runners to take their time in choosing a coach and to prioritize their own well-being and performance.

Chapters

03:00 The Pressure of Time Management

05:53 The Birth of the Podcast

10:00 Choosing the Right Running Coach

15:12 Experiences with Different Coaches

23:57 The Challenge of Coaching and Self-Management

25:23 Finding the Right Coach: Personal Connections Matter

35:50 Breaking Up with a Coach: A Difficult Decision

50:40 Adapting Coaching to Life Changes

01:04:03 The Value of Personalized Coaching

podcast, running, coaching, multitasking, time management, emotional support, motherhood, fitness, personal growth, community, coaching, running, flexibility, training, athlete, communication, goals, relationship, performance, support

About your hosts:

• Whitney Heins is a mom of 2 kids, a VDOT-certified running coach for moms who run, and founder of the resource, themotherrunners.com. Coming out of a 5-year injury cycle which included a 2:54 marathon and 1:20 half marathon, she is training to run faster as a master’s athlete. IG: @themotherrunners.
• Shanna Birchett is a mom of 6 kids under 8, including twins. She returned to running in 2021 after an 11-year break, running most recently a 2:44 marathon in the summer of 2024. She is the co-founder of Endure 365 running, endure365.com, which offers heart rate-based training plans. IG: @motherhood_running.
• Tricia DeNardis is a mom to 3 young kids and a physical therapist specializing in the pelvic floor, pregnancy and postpartum rehabilitation. After running 10 marathons, Tricia completed her first 50k in the fall of 2024, and is now hooked! IG: @burpeesandburpcloths.
• Olivia Garcia is a mom of 2 young kids, who used to work as a paramedic. She fell in love with running in 2019, despite surviving a marathon that didn’t go according to plan. She’s since cut more than an hour off her marathon time and gunning to break 3 hours. IG: ...

In this episode of the Miles with Moms podcast, we are talking about how to choose the right goals for your mom life—as we all have unique demands placed upon us and a limited amount of time and energy. All of our approach setting goals in a different way as we all have different mom lives—but there is a common theme with an emphasis on discipline plus flexibility—and making sure you choose the right goal for YOU and do it for YOU.

We share personal experiences about balancing family life with training and we delve into the challenges of maintaining a healthy lifestyle while managing the demands of motherhood, and the importance of self-care and support from loved ones. We explore the evolving mindset of runners, particularly mothers, as they navigate their training journeys. Our conversation emphasizes the significance of consistency over perfection, the value of personal goals, and the need to redefine high mileage in the context of individual circumstances.

Of course, we talk about inappropriate things as well—and hope you laugh out loud at least once during this episode! Happy new year!

Chapters

12:30 Lighthearted Banter

15:29 Shout Outs and Community Engagement

16:34 Goal Setting and Decision Making

21:15 Finding Time for Training

29:52 Flexibility in Training and Family Involvement

33:57 Balancing Discipline and Flexibility in Training

39:56 Navigating Comparison and Setting Realistic Goals

45:57 Finding Purpose and Joy in Running

53:00 Balancing Mileage and Quality

58:51 Redefining Success in Running

01:00:53 The Pressure of High Mileage

01:06:57 Encouragement for New Runners

01:09:19 The Importance of Personal Goals

01:11:55 Closing Thoughts and Community Engagement

Keywords

running, motherhood, goal setting, balance, flexibility, fitness, New Year, training, podcast, mom life, running, training, flexibility, consistency, personal goals, social media, high mileage, motherhood, ultra running, marathon training

About your hosts:

• Whitney Heins is a mom of 2 kids, a VDOT-certified running coach for moms who run, and founder of the resource, themotherrunners.com. Coming out of a 5-year injury cycle which included a 2:54 marathon and 1:20 half marathon, she is training to run faster as a master’s athlete. IG: @themotherrunners.
• Shanna Birchett is a mom of 6 kids under 8, including twins. She returned to running in 2021 after an 11-year break, running most recently a 2:44 marathon in the summer of 2024. She is the co-founder of Endure 365 running, endure365.com, which offers heart rate-based training plans. IG: @motherhood_running.
• Tricia DeNardis is a mom to 3 young kids and a physical therapist specializing in the pelvic floor, pregnancy and postpartum rehabilitation. After running 10 marathons, Tricia completed her first 50k in the fall of 2024, and is now hooked! IG: @burpeesandburpcloths.
• Olivia Garcia is a mom of 2 young kids, who used to work as a paramedic. She fell in love with running in 2019, despite surviving a marathon that didn’t go according to plan. With a 2:57 PR, she's cut more than an hour off her marathon time. IG: ...

In this episode of the Miles with Moms podcast, we reflect on their experiences over the past year, discussing personal goals, challenges, and the impact of loss (yes, another one of us cries—but there is much more laughing!) WE share insights on adjusting to new environments and the importance of community and friendships in motherhood. In this conversation, the participants discuss their experiences with holiday isolation, the challenges of motherhood, and the importance of community support. We also reflect on our goals for 2025, including personal growth, running aspirations, and the significance of setting smaller, manageable goals. The discussion emphasizes the need for connection, self-care, and the value of friendships as they navigate their journeys into the new year.

Happy new year, mother runners!

Chapters

00:00 Introduction and New Year Reflections
02:59 Personal Goals and Challenges for 2024
05:58 Dealing with Loss and Grief
09:04 Adjusting to Change and New Environments
12:03 Friendship Dynamics and Community Building
16:41 Navigating Holiday Isolation
20:06 Setting Goals for 2025
22:30 Running Aspirations and Personal Growth
24:40 Reflections on 2024 and Future Goals
34:16 Embracing Smaller Goals for the New Year

Keywords

podcast, motherhood, running, personal growth, grief, community, New Year, goals, change, friendship, holiday isolation, 2025 goals, running aspirations, personal growth, reflections on 2024, smaller goals, motherhood, friendships, self-care, community support

About your hosts:

• Whitney Heins is a mom of 2 kids, a VDOT-certified running coach for moms who run, and founder of the resource, themotherrunners.com. Coming out of a 5-year injury cycle which included a 2:54 marathon and 1:20 half marathon, she is training to run faster as a master’s athlete. IG: @themotherrunners.
• Shanna Birchett is a mom of 6 kids under 8, including twins. She returned to running in 2021 after an 11-year break, running most recently a 2:44 marathon in the summer of 2024. She is the co-founder of Endure 365 running, endure365.com, which offers heart rate-based training plans. IG: @motherhood_running.
• Tricia DeNardis is a mom to 3 young kids and a physical therapist specializing in the pelvic floor, pregnancy and postpartum rehabilitation. After running 10 marathons, Tricia completed her first 50k in the fall of 2024, and is now hooked! IG: @burpeesandburpcloths.
• Olivia Garcia is a mom of 2 young kids, who used to work as a paramedic. She fell in love with running in 2019, despite surviving a marathon that didn’t go according to plan. With a 2:57 PR, she's cut more than an hour off her marathon time. IG: ...