• Selling Companies and Seeing Kaleidoscopes Zeesh Unplugged
    Oct 10 2024

    In this latest episode of the None of Your Business podcast, hosts Michael and Ushy sit down with Zeesh Mermelstein to explore his remarkable entrepreneurial journey and personal transformation. Initially expected to focus on Zeesh's experiences exiting a company and re-entering the healthcare industry, the conversation took a deeply personal turn. Zeesh opens up about his spiritual growth and unconventional practices that helped him navigate life's challenges, offering unique insights into self-discovery, healing, and facing trauma.

    This episode delves into how his approach to business, relationships, and personal development evolved through these experiences, providing an inspiring narrative on resilience and self-awareness. Whether you're interested in entrepreneurship or personal growth, this candid conversation offers valuable lessons on finding balance, embracing change, and following your inner compass.

    Tune in for an eye-opening discussion that breaks the mold of traditional entrepreneurial stories and dives into the depths of self-realization.

    00:00 Introduction to Zeesh's Journey

    00:09 Unexpected Podcast Direction

    00:37 Ayahuasca and Entrepreneurial Life

    02:55 Podcast Competition and Israel Trip

    04:09 Welcoming Zeesh Mermelstein

    06:47 Lightning Round with Zeesh

    08:57 Diving into Ayahuasca

    15:18 First Psychedelic Experience: DMT

    27:46 Ayahuasca Experience and Reflections

    42:15 Breathwork and Spiritual Practices

    45:09 Selling the Company and Life Changes

    49:35 Reflecting on Past Pain and Growth

    50:55 Morning Rituals and Spiritual Practices

    51:41 Negel Vasser: A Jewish Tradition Explained

    54:15 The Challenge of Letting Go of Revenge

    54:54 Handling Public Confrontations

    01:05:22 The Journey Through Divorce

    01:11:50 Business Ventures and Lessons Learned

    01:18:38 The Struggles and Triumphs of Entrepreneurship

    01:24:53 Building a New Healthcare Venture

    01:37:22 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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    1 hr and 38 mins
  • Addicted to love with Sony Perlman LMSW
    Sep 26 2024

    In this episode of The None of Your Business Podcast, hosts Michael Greenfield and Ushy Schwartz sit down with Sony Perlman, LMSW, a licensed therapist and Clinical Director of Boys Our Place and Our Village Sober Living, where he has spent over two decades helping young men overcome addiction and heal from trauma.

    Sony introduces his unique “Shiva House Rules” approach to recovery, focusing on the transformative power of community, love, and connection in the healing process. He delves into the emotional roots of addiction, discussing how low self-esteem and the need for validation often drive destructive behaviors. Through compelling stories of personal transformation, Sonny emphasizes the importance of building strong support systems to aid in recovery.

    Along the way, the conversation takes a lighter turn as Sony and the hosts debate the role of public displays of affection in relationships, blending humor with insightful discussions on mental health, trauma, and personal growth.

    Whether you're interested in addiction recovery, mental health, or just looking for inspiring real-life stories, this episode is packed with profound insights and light-hearted moments. It’s a must-listen for anyone on a journey of personal or professional growth.

    00:00 Welcome and Introduction

    00:31 Discussing Addictions

    02:48 Sonny Perlman's Background

    03:09 Personal Stories and Experiences

    09:24 The Importance of Public Affection

    22:44 Sonny's Work in Addiction Recovery

    28:58 Understanding Validation Addiction

    29:42 Addiction as a Spectrum

    30:18 The Role of Self-Esteem in Addiction

    31:06 Comfort and External Self-Esteem

    32:25 The Impact of Trauma on Addiction

    35:33 Shiva House Rules and Healing

    41:11 Community Support in Recovery

    45:50 Parenting and Prevention

    58:26 Challenges in Tight-Knit Communities

    01:01:57 Teenage Rebellion and Parental Challenges

    01:02:33 The Importance of Parental Separation

    01:03:13 Parenting Through Rebellion

    01:03:55 Discipline and Sensitivity in Parenting

    01:04:51 Adapting Parenting Styles

    01:05:45 The Evolution of Parenting with Multiple Children

    01:06:51 Realizations and Reflections on Parenting

    01:10:28 Addressing Addiction and Community Support

    01:12:34 The Role of Community in Recovery

    01:13:19 Challenges and Success in Recovery Programs

    01:19:12 Lightning Round: Insights and Reflections

    01:22:03 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans

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    1 hr and 31 mins
  • Messianic Musings with Rabbi Lawrence Hajioff
    Sep 19 2024

    In this engaging episode of the None of Your Business podcast, hosts Michael and Ushy sit down with the esteemed Rabbi Lawrence Hajioff. The trio delves into a variety of topics including the fascinating journey of naming the podcast, Rabbi Hajioff's colorful experiences in comedy, the importance of humor in life, the critical aspects of relationships and marriage, and a deep dive into the concept of Mashiach. Rabbi Hajioff also shares captivating stories about his adventures in pickleball, his passion for Rolex watches, and the significance of dreams in Jewish belief. The episode is full of humor, insightful discussions, and a friendly debate that you won't want to miss.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

    00:54 The Origin of the Podcast Name

    01:40 Rabbi Lawrence's Comedy Beginnings

    03:41 The Art of Public Speaking

    06:27 Community Building Stories

    10:46 Pickleball and Personal Interests

    14:31 Rolex Rabbi: A Watch Enthusiast

    21:46 Marriage and Relationships

    33:10 Dreams and Their Meanings

    36:02 The Power of Dreams

    36:38 Interpreting Dreams: Ancient and Modern Perspectives

    36:51 Personal Dream Experiences

    38:36 The Reality of Dreams vs. Reality

    39:32 Exploring the Concept of Moshiach

    42:01 Debating the Nature of Moshiach

    44:06 The Role of Moshiach in Judaism

    47:46 The Process of Moshiach's Arrival

    55:40 Modern-Day Claims of Moshiach

    59:05 Closing Thoughts and Reflections

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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Guns N' Legal Roses: Navigating Gun Laws and Safety with Peter Tilem
    Sep 12 2024

    From stories of courtroom battles to the intricacies of gun permits and constitutional rights, this episode dives deep into what it really means to protect yourself and your family in today's world. In this gripping episode of None of Your Business, we sit down with renowned criminal defense attorney and former prosecutor Peter Tilem to explore the complex and evolving world of gun ownership and self-defense.

    As gun laws change and the demand for personal safety increases, Peter explains the legal responsibilities that come with concealed carry, the challenges of navigating gun laws in places like New York, and the real-life consequences of self-defense incidents.

    Whether you're a gun owner or simply curious about the legalities surrounding personal defense, this episode is a must-listen. Tune in to hear Peter's expert insights on the state of public safety, the role of government, and the future of gun ownership in America.

    00:00 Introduction and Welcoming Peter

    00:14 Discussing Safety in Public Spaces

    00:53 Personal Experiences with Guns

    01:53 Legalities and Responsibilities of Carrying a Weapon

    02:34 Changing Attitudes Towards Gun Ownership

    03:50 Personal Journey to Getting a Concealed Carry Permit

    06:27 Historical Context and Founding Principles

    08:36 Experiences Growing Up in Dangerous Neighborhoods

    13:40 The State of Crime and Law Enforcement

    19:11 Challenges in New York City

    29:40 Gun Control Debate

    34:00 Real-Life Scenarios and Legal Implications

    34:54 Arrest at the Police Station

    35:25 Gun Laws and Concealed Carry

    35:42 New York's Legal Challenges

    37:03 Real-Life Self-Defense Cases

    39:51 Legal System and Rights

    47:59 Gun Control in Different States

    52:58 Firearm Owners Protection Act

    59:34 Community Security and Personal Life

    01:01:30 TV Shows and Legal Accuracy

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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Hasidic Roots to Healthcare Heights with Faygee Morgenshtern
    Sep 5 2024

    In this empowering episode of None of Your Business, we sit down with Faygee Morgenshtern to explore her incredible journey from growing up in a Hasidic community to becoming a successful entrepreneur and leader in the healthcare industry. Faygee shares how her personal transformation shaped her professional success, revealing how she overcame societal expectations, divorce, and the challenges of being a woman in business.

    Listen as Faygee discusses the power of building relationships, navigating the healthcare staffing industry, and the importance of staying true to oneself in the face of adversity. With humor, honesty, and resilience, Faygee’s story is an inspiration for anyone looking to break free from limitations and take charge of their own destiny.

    Tune in for an episode filled with candid conversations about empowerment, family, and the journey of self-discovery.

    00:00 Introduction and Rainy Day Musings

    00:44 Special Guest Introduction: Fagy Morgenshtern

    01:22 Trade Shows and PPE Memories

    03:40 COVID-19: Challenges and Opportunities

    14:56 Personal Reflections and Family Life

    16:41 Growing Up Hasidic

    22:36 Career Growth and Financial Independence

    30:28 The Importance of Birthdays

    35:21 Women in the Workplace

    41:36 Chicago Lockdown and Staffing Challenges

    42:27 Leveraging Relationships to Stop the Strike

    44:19 The Importance of Building Relationships

    46:44 Navigating Family Expectations and Personal Choices

    48:51 Balancing Respect and Personal Identity

    55:07 The Impact of Financial Status on Social Dynamics

    01:01:55 The Amish Rumspringa and Finding Balance

    01:06:44 Choosing Happiness and Positivity

    01:11:34 Fun and Games: Poker and Personal Insights

    01:18:50 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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    1 hr and 23 mins
  • Ordinary People, Extraordinary Missions-Hatzolah Air & Eli Rowe
    Aug 29 2024

    In this high-flying episode of None of Your Business, we sit down with Eli Rowe, the visionary behind Hatzolah Air, to uncover the incredible stories of life-saving missions that defy the odds. Similar to other extraordinary charitable organizations like Chaverim and Tomchei Shabbos, Hatzolah Air relies on the unwavering support and dedication of its amazing volunteers. From emergency heart transplants to daring rescue operations in remote locations, Eli shares how his team navigates the skies to bring hope and help where it’s needed most.

    Join us as we explore the origins of Hatzalah Air, the extraordinary logistics behind each mission, and the community and faith that fuel these lifesaving endeavors. Eli also details an incredible search and rescue mission in collaboration with Chaverim, where teamwork and determination led to the successful recovery of a missing child. Along the way, we learn valuable lessons on how each one of us can make a difference and have a lasting impact on the lives of others.

    Whether it’s securing fuel in the middle of the night or coordinating complex international medical transports, Eli’s stories are a testament to the power of perseverance and the miracle of volunteerism. Tune in to discover what it takes to run a volunteer-driven air rescue operation and why ordinary people can achieve extraordinary things when driven by passion and purpose. This is an episode that soars above the rest—don’t miss it.

    00:00 Introduction and Setting the Scene

    01:51 A Personal Story of Hatzolah's Impact

    03:55 The Role of Hatzolah Volunteers

    04:32 A Rescue Mission in Ecuador

    11:45 The Arizona Search and Rescue

    13:19 Challenges and Miracles in Rescue Operations

    27:58 The Origins of Hatzolah

    33:31 The Vision and Growth of Hatzolah Air

    44:59 The Brotherhood of Hatzolah

    45:48 The Familiarity of Hatzolah

    47:27 Challenges in Standardizing Hatzolah

    48:40 The Power of Volunteerism

    53:04 Hatzolah Air: A Unique Operation

    01:06:23 Funding and Financial Challenges

    01:22:34 The Importance of Community Support

    01:31:33 A Blessing to Be a Giver

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    1 hr and 34 mins
  • Pedaling through life | Rabbi Spivak , Part 2
    Aug 22 2024

    In part 2 of our conversation with Rabbi Spivak, we delve into the intersection of personal growth and professional success, highlighting the vital role of effective community leadership. We discuss the delicate balance between board decisions and spiritual guidance, and the importance of personal accountability in one's religious journey. Rabbi Spivak also shares his late-blooming passion for cycling, particularly his involvement in Bike for Chai, a well-known fundraiser for children with cancer, and the holistic benefits it brings to his life. The episode touches on the spiritual nourishment he finds in nature and explores how spiritual leaders can transform company culture, drawing from his experiences. Filled with insightful anecdotes, practical wisdom, and a touch of humor, this episode promises to leave you inspired and enlightened on your journey toward personal and professional growth.

    00:00 Welcome Back and Introduction

    00:21 The Role of Listening in Therapy

    00:40 Sponsorship and Community Support

    00:59 Rabbi's Journey and Shul Experiences

    01:36 The Role of the Announcer in Shul

    02:50 Controversial Announcements and Community Reactions

    05:14 Board-Run Shuls vs. Rabbi-Run Shuls

    06:24 The Rabbi's Role and Authority

    10:13 Personal Reflections on Rabbi's Influence

    17:25 The Importance of Trust in a Rabbi

    24:41 The Dynamics of Rabbi-Board Relationships

    31:06 Rabbi Jokes and Pet Peeves

    35:53 Gift Presentation and Book Recommendation

    37:21 Discussing 'The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People'

    38:16 The Parable of Sharpening the Saw

    40:05 Personal Practices for Efficiency

    42:24 Cycling as a Lifestyle

    51:40 Learning to Ride a Bike as an Adult

    01:02:46 The Importance of Company Culture

    01:05:27 Final Thoughts and Reflections

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • The Therapist Who Graduated 5th Grade! Rabbi Spivak, MHC-Part 1
    Aug 15 2024

    Join us on the None of Your Business podcast as we delve into an engaging conversation with Rabbi Aaron Spivak, an author, former elementary school teacher, and Licensed Mental Health Counselor. In this first part of a two-part series, Rabbi Spivak recounts his transition from being a fifth-grade Rebbe to becoming a therapist. The discussion navigates the complexities of Jewish education, personal values, mental health, and the educational challenges within Hasidic and ultra-Orthodox communities. Key topics include guilt, self-worth, the balance of religious and secular studies, and the necessity of modern educational approaches.

    00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome

    00:36 Getting to Know Rabbi Spivak

    01:10 Rabbi Spivak's Teaching Journey

    03:46 Transitioning from Teaching to Therapy

    06:11 Challenges in the Education System

    07:57 Career Guidance for Rabbaim

    15:12 Ethical Dilemmas in Career Transitions

    30:52 Personal Reflections and Jewish Guilt

    32:29 Understanding Jewish Guilt

    33:02 Therapeutic Approaches to Guilt

    34:14 The Impact of Guilt on Daily Life

    37:04 Creating a Guilt-Free Environment

    39:42 Personal Reflections on Guilt

    43:05 The Role of Therapy in Overcoming Guilt

    55:23 Educational Challenges in Orthodox Communities

    01:07:53 Concluding Thoughts and Future Discussions

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    1 hr and 9 mins