In this episode, we sit down with Judith Edwards, an experienced child and adolescent psychotherapist, to discuss her latest book, "Grandmotherland." Judith shares her insights on the profound impact of grandparenting, the complexities of familial relationships, and the importance of subjective experiences in understanding our lives. Join us as we explore the intersections of psychoanalysis, culture, and the unique role of grandmothers in shaping family dynamics.

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/0075417X.2024.2358905

Grandmotherland: exploring the myths and realities; by Judith Edwards, London, Karnac, 2023, 176 pp., £18.99 (paperback), ISBN 9781913494773

Judith Edwards is a child and adolescent psychotherapist. She worked for over thirty years at the Tavistock Clinic in London. The Tavistock is the foremost institute for training and for the application of psychological therapies in the UK. Love the Wild Swan: The Selected Works of Judith Edwards was published by Routledge in their World Library of Mental Health series, and her edited book, Psychoanalysis and Other Matters: Where Are We Now? was also published by Routledge. From 1996 to 2000, she was joint editor of the Journal of Child Psychotherapy. Apart from her clinical experience, one of her principal interests is in the links between psychoanalysis, culture, and the arts, as well as making psychoanalytic ideas accessible to a wider audience. She has an international academic publishing record and in 2010 was awarded the Jan Lee memorial prize for the best paper linking psychoanalysis and the arts during that year: ‘Teaching & Learning about Psychoanalysis: Film as a teaching tool’.

Helen Garlick is the author of ‘No Place to Lie’ about family secrets. Formerly a family lawyer, mediator and trainer, she is now continuing to working on her own writing including the power of owning your own story. She has run coastal writing retreats in North Devon and is a true believer in the healing power of blue whether the sea or other bodies of water. She is strongly in favour of busting the shame/silence around family secrets and has a youtube channel called Hello It’s Better to Talk.

She currently lives in Devon with her husband Tim Rice (not that one) and three dogs. Between them they have five adult children.

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Helen Garlick is the author of ‘No Place to Lie’ about family secrets. Formerly a family lawyer, mediator and trainer, she is now continuing to working on her own writing including the power of owning your own story. She has run coastal writing retreats in North Devon and is a true believer in the healing power of blue whether the sea or other bodies of water. She is strongly in favour of busting the shame/silence around family secrets and has a youtube channel called Hello It’s Better to Talk.

She currently lives in Devon with her husband Tim Rice (not that one) and three dogs. Between them they have five adult children.

Twitter @helenpgarlick

Instagram @helenpgarlick

Facebook Helen Garlick

In this detailed conversation, Ari Yampolsky discusses his rewarding work as a lawyer specializing in whistleblower cases in the USA. He finds great fulfillment in hearing clients' stories, gathering evidence, and presenting compelling cases to the government to initiate investigations. Yampolsky emphasizes the importance of self-care, noting that he balances the emotional weight of his work by engaging in exercise, spending time in nature, and being with his family. The dialogue also touches on the complexities of whistleblower regulations in the U.S. compared to the U.K., with Yampolsky highlighting the narrow yet powerful nature of U.S. laws. He explains that whistleblowers can significantly enhance regulatory efficiency by providing insider knowledge that helps target misconduct. However, he acknowledges the adversarial nature of legal processes and the potential for whistleblowers to face retaliation, which can lead to feelings of anger and hurt. Yampolsky plays a crucial role in guiding whistleblowers through the legal landscape, assessing the strength of their information against legal frameworks, and preparing their cases for regulators. He also discusses the challenges whistleblowers face, including the fear of repercussions and the emotional toll of coming forward. Ultimately, Yampolsky's work is centered on advocating for those who expose wrongdoing while navigating the intricate dynamics of law and human experience.

Ari Yampolsky is a lawyer in the United States of America. He is a partner at Whistleblower Partners. He's represented Whistleblowers under every major whistleblower reward law for a decade. In his False Claims Act practice, Ari has successfully represented claimants in lawsuits related to healthcare fraud, procurement fraud and customs fraud. These include groundbreaking state false claims act lawsuits in which Ari represented a whistleblower and dozens of government entities against four wireless carriers. And this resulted in a $138 million dollar settlement and a 40 % share for his whistleblower client. Ari also represents whistleblowers with claims under every reward program run by a federal agency. Ari has helped secure millions of dollars in awards for financial fraud whistleblowers under the SEC's program. Recently he and his colleagues obtained a $24 .3 million reward for a former Hyundai Safety Engineer at the first ever whistleblower award made by the Federal Auto Safety Regulator.

https://whistleblower.law/ari-yampolsky

https://whistleblower.law/

In this detailed conversation, Ari Yampolsky discusses his rewarding work as a lawyer specializing in whistleblower cases in the USA. He finds great fulfillment in hearing clients' stories, gathering evidence, and presenting compelling cases to the government to initiate investigations. Yampolsky emphasizes the importance of self-care, noting that he balances the emotional weight of his work by engaging in exercise, spending time in nature, and being with his family. The dialogue also touches on the complexities of whistleblower regulations in the U.S. compared to the U.K., with Yampolsky highlighting the narrow yet powerful nature of U.S. laws. He explains that whistleblowers can significantly enhance regulatory efficiency by providing insider knowledge that helps target misconduct. However, he acknowledges the adversarial nature of legal processes and the potential for whistleblowers to face retaliation, which can lead to feelings of anger and hurt. Yampolsky plays a crucial role in guiding whistleblowers through the legal landscape, assessing the strength of their information against legal frameworks, and preparing their cases for regulators. He also discusses the challenges whistleblowers face, including the fear of repercussions and the emotional toll of coming forward. Ultimately, Yampolsky's work is centered on advocating for those who expose wrongdoing while navigating the intricate dynamics of law and human experience.

Ari Yampolsky is a lawyer in the United States of America. He is a partner at Whistleblower Partners. He's represented Whistleblowers under every major whistleblower reward law for a decade. In his False Claims Act practice, Ari has successfully represented claimants in lawsuits related to healthcare fraud, procurement fraud and customs fraud. These include groundbreaking state false claims act lawsuits in which Ari represented a whistleblower and dozens of government entities against four wireless carriers. And this resulted in a $138 million dollar settlement and a 40 % share for his whistleblower client. Ari also represents whistleblowers with claims under every reward program run by a federal agency. Ari has helped secure millions of dollars in awards for financial fraud whistleblowers under the SEC's program. Recently he and his colleagues obtained a $24 .3 million reward for a former Hyundai Safety Engineer at the first ever whistleblower award made by the Federal Auto Safety Regulator.

https://whistleblower.law/ari-yampolsky

https://whistleblower.law/

Cath is an author, clinician with children and adults, supervisor, researcher, educator, speaker and mum with a background in the Armed Forces Engineering and Optronics, IT, Gaming and Psychology alongside Functional Health and her other passion of Neuroscience. She is a polymath and pattern recognition nerd.

New book October 2024; https://www.routledge.com/Managing-Your-Gaming-and-Social-Media-Habits-From-Science-to-Solutions/Knibbs/p/book/9781032607597?srsltid=AfmBOorerHCkQT7xJXx1IatOE8aWTU2c6-Q3fxfu9QSuEfocbaBKW2pa

Summary

Catherine Knibbs, a psychotherapist and expert in cyber trauma, discusses her journey into psychotherapy and her expertise in online harm. She shares how her upbringing in a military family and exposure to stories from Wakefield Prison influenced her interest in understanding why people engage in harmful behaviors. Catherine explains how her background in engineering and computing led her to become knowledgeable about cyber trauma and online harm. She highlights the prevalence of cyber criminals and the alarming rates of sextortion and grooming of children online. Catherine also discusses the impact of technology on attachment patterns in children and the need for education and awareness to protect children online. The conversation explores the impact of technology on mental health, particularly in relation to boredom, attention, and online harms. It discusses the need for digital literacy and responsible parenting, rather than a complete ban on smartphones. The conversation also highlights the lack of support for professionals working in the field of online harm. The guest emphasizes the importance of self-care and personal well-being in dealing with the challenges of technology.

Website; https://www.childrenandtech.co.uk/

Takeaways

• Catherine's upbringing in a military family and exposure to stories from Wakefield Prison sparked her interest in understanding harmful behaviors.
• Her background in engineering and computing led her to become knowledgeable about cyber trauma and online harm.
• There is a prevalence of cyber criminals who engage in sextortion and grooming of children online.
• Technology has a significant impact on attachment patterns in children, and there is a need for education and awareness to protect children online. Technology can be both a tool and a medium, and its impact on mental health is complex.
• Boredom and attention are affected by technology, but it's not just about eliminating boredom; it's about recognizing internal processes.
• Banning smartphones is not the solution; digital literacy and responsible parenting are crucial.
• Professionals working in the field of online harm need more support and resources.
• Self-care and personal well-being are essential in navigating the challenges of technology.

Cath is an author, clinician with children and adults, supervisor, researcher, educator, speaker and mum with a background in the Armed Forces Engineering and Optronics, IT, Gaming and Psychology alongside Functional Health and her other passion of Neuroscience. She is a polymath and pattern recognition nerd.

New book out October 2024

https://www.routledge.com/Managing-Your-Gaming-and-Social-Media-Habits-From-Science-to-Solutions/Knibbs/p/book/9781032607597?srsltid=AfmBOorerHCkQT7xJXx1IatOE8aWTU2c6-Q3fxfu9QSuEfocbaBKW2pa

Summary

Catherine Knibbs, a psychotherapist and expert in cyber trauma, discusses her journey into psychotherapy and her expertise in online harm. She shares how her upbringing in a military family and exposure to stories from Wakefield Prison influenced her interest in understanding why people engage in harmful behaviors. Catherine explains how her background in engineering and computing led her to become knowledgeable about cyber trauma and online harm. She highlights the prevalence of cyber criminals and the alarming rates of sextortion and grooming of children online. Catherine also discusses the impact of technology on attachment patterns in children and the need for education and awareness to protect children online. The conversation explores the impact of technology on mental health, particularly in relation to boredom, attention, and online harms. It discusses the need for digital literacy and responsible parenting, rather than a complete ban on smartphones. The conversation also highlights the lack of support for professionals working in the field of online harm. The guest emphasizes the importance of self-care and personal well-being in dealing with the challenges of technology.

Website; https://www.childrenandtech.co.uk/

Takeaways

• Catherine's upbringing in a military family and exposure to stories from Wakefield Prison sparked her interest in understanding harmful behaviors.
• Her background in engineering and computing led her to become knowledgeable about cyber trauma and online harm.
• There is a prevalence of cyber criminals who engage in sextortion and grooming of children online.
• Technology has a significant impact on attachment patterns in children, and there is a need for education and awareness to protect children online. Technology can be both a tool and a medium, and its impact on mental health is complex.
• Boredom and attention are affected by technology, but it's not just about eliminating boredom; it's about recognizing internal processes.
• Banning smartphones is not the solution; digital literacy and responsible parenting are crucial.
• Professionals working in the field of online harm need more support and resources.
• Self-care and personal well-being are essential in navigating the challenges of technology.

Summary

In this conversation, Alex South, a former prison officer with nearly a decade of experience, shares her journey through the prison system, discussing the challenges, culture, and dynamics of working in prisons. She reflects on her training, the impact of staffing shortages, and the mental health challenges faced by both staff and inmates. She also speaks of the deep bonds of trust which develop with colleagues and, in the right circumstances, with some convicted people. Alex also highlights the changes in prison culture over the years and the importance of advocating for better conditions and support for prison officers. Her insights are drawn from personal experiences and her memoir, 'Behind these Doors', which aims to shed light on the realities of prison life and the potential for change.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Behind-these-Doors-Strength-Suffering/dp/1399707558

Takeaways

• Alex South worked as a prison officer for almost 10 years.
• The prison environment is unique and requires strong interpersonal skills.
• Training for prison officers is often insufficient for real-life challenges.
• Prison culture varies significantly based on demographics and management.
• Staff welfare is crucial for effective prison management.
• The role of a prison officer has changed dramatically over the years.
• Mental health support for staff is often lacking in the prison system.
• International examples show better staff welfare practices in prisons.
• Alex's decision to leave was influenced by burnout and stress.
• Writing and advocacy are important for raising awareness about prison issues.