In this episode of The Sh*t They Should Have Taught Us in School, Trina dives deep into the topic of people pleasing—what it is, why we do it, and how it holds us back. While it may seem like simply wanting to make others happy, people pleasing runs much deeper, often rooted in a need for love, approval, or acceptance. Trina unpacks the difference between intention and objective, shedding light on how sacrificing your values or boundaries to gain approval disconnects you from your true self.

Through personal insights and actionable strategies, Trina shares how to recognize people-pleasing behaviors, explore their triggers, and begin the journey back to authenticity. If you’ve ever felt lost, unseen, or exhausted from trying to please everyone around you, this episode will help you reclaim your voice, your boundaries, and your self-worth.

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artwork: Katie Larabee

In this episode of The Sh*t They Should Have Taught Us in School, Trina Parnell dives into the traps of perfectionism and overthinking, sharing her journey back to the mic after a year and a half.

She uncovers how pursuing “perfect” can hold us back, leaving us stuck, frustrated, and afraid to take steps forward.

Exploring the connection between perfectionism and shame, Trina offers powerful questions and insights to help you uncover the stories and beliefs holding you back.

This episode will challenge you to let go of limiting beliefs, discover the courage to step forward, and embrace growth beyond the illusion of “perfect.”

It’s no secret that Discipline is required for success.

If you want to lose weight - If you want to make more money - If you want to start your own business … you need the discipline.

In this episode I’m going to be talking about

• my personal relationship with discipline
• why we have such a hard time with it
• and a strategy I use to overcome resisting it

This… is the shit they should have taught us in school

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Shout outs and love to these talented ladies:
Artwork: Katie Larabee
Music: Danielle Pollari