• Why Scolding, Shaming, or Punishment Fails to Improve Behaviour

  • Oct 29 2024
  • Length: 11 mins
  • Podcast

Why Scolding, Shaming, or Punishment Fails to Improve Behaviour

  • Summary

  • Have you ever wondered why traditional tactics like scolding, shaming, or punishment are ineffective in improving your child’s behaviour?
    In this Episode, parenting coach Camilla McGill emphasises the importance of nurturing emotional intelligence and setting compassionate boundaries.
    Camilla delves into how these punitive methods can harm self-esteem, create fear rather than respect, and weaken the parent-child connection.
    Instead, she advocates for guiding children with empathy, understanding, and encouragement to foster intrinsic motivation and better behavioural outcomes.
    The episode also offers practical advice on addressing children's behaviour, discussing the impact of their actions, and promoting positive practices like apologies and making amends.
    Camilla emphasises that every step towards positive parenting makes a significant impact.

    Book Camilla for a free discovery calls for personalised support. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call


    00:00 Introduction: The Struggles of Parenting
    00:23 The Impact of Scolding and Shaming
    01:18 Developing Emotional Intelligence in Children
    01:47 The Negative Effects of Punishment
    02:21 Three Reasons to Avoid Scolding and Shaming
    02:54 Reason 1: Damaging Self-Esteem
    04:13 Reason 2: Creating Fear, Not Respect
    05:10 Learning from Mistakes
    05:41 Reason 3 The Importance of Connection in Parenting
    06:15 Understanding Child Impulsivity
    06:48 Effective Discipline Strategies
    07:59 Shifting from Punishment to Teaching
    08:36 Handling Specific Situations with Empathy
    09:36 Encouraging Responsibility and Making Amends
    10:11 Support and Resources for Positive Parenting
    10:36 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    When you're ready here are 3 ways that Camilla could help you further:
    Tired of feeling like you go round in circles with your child and never seem to get anywhere?
    Wish your child came with a manual as they have you floored?
    1. Go to Camilla's instagram for further tips and inspiration https://www.instagram.com/myparentingsolutions/

    2. For blogs, free downloadable guides and other information go to https://www.myparentingsolutions.com

    3. Book a FREE Discovery Call to talk to Camilla about how she can help you personally to transform your family life. https://calendly.com/myparentingsolutions/discovery-call

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