Wife On The Rocks I Alcoholic Husband, Christian Marriage, High Functioning Alcoholism, Gaslighting, Hope

By: Christian Alcoholism Relationship Coach Crisis Parenting Coach
  • Summary

  • Did you marry the man of your dreams, only to now find alcohol seeping into every part of your family? As a woman of faith, committed to your vows, do you struggle to walk out your convictions amidst the chaos and confusion that has devastated your marriage? Do you wish you had someone to confide in without judgment, consequences later or let’s be honest, hearing the worst advice EVER from well meaning people? Despite your relentless efforts, do you feel betrayed, stuck in a cycle, praying for a breakthrough and wondering if things really will be ok? Same. In this podcast you will find hope regardless of your current situation. As you tune in each week your spirit will be lifted as you recognize that you are NOT in this battle alone. You will come to know that only through Him can you learn to model a much needed peaceful presence to your children, whose little hearts are also wondering if things will be ok. My mission is to share my experience, strength and hope with women like me who are praying for breakthrough. The Lord’s light shines even in the darkness of addiction, and the darkness cannot overcome it. I am a wife, a homeschooling momma, and a woman who has learned that nothing is impossible for God. I sometimes wish that I hadn’t had to learn all of this while withstanding circumstances that I would rather not have had to go through, but then would my faith be this strong without the trials? I laugh thinking that while you listen you could mistakenly assume that I have it “all figured out”, because if I am honest I still can’t figure out how to keep track of my phone most days. However, I , without a doubt, have found a peace that surpasses understanding and I want to share everything God has taught me with you as you navigate this road as well. I have found that applying the Bible to my situation allows me to shift my eyes off the problem and to refocus on my God who can redeem and restore otherwise hopeless situations. Psalms 55:22 tells us, “Cast your burdens on the Lord and he will sustain you. He will not permit the righteous to be moved”. In the eye of the storm it is hard to have a right perspective when everyday you are walking on eggshells trying to keep your family together! I have a suspicion that I am not alone here and if you can relate with anything I have said, then this podcast is for you. Nothing changes if nothing changes, right? :) So, if you are ready to experience some breakthrough, listen up. You do not have to do this alone and you didn’t find this podcast by accident. Take a deep breath even when it seems impossible. Be willing to trust that God can do more than you even imagine.....right where you are today which is so far from where you wanted to be. I know you are running everywhere and doing everything for everyone, but THIS moment of rest is for you! Allow me to serve you a little peace on the rocks.
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Episodes
  • Ep 8: Needing Consistent Support? Feeling Defeated? 3 Resources for Support and Community for Christian Wives
    Jan 14 2025

    Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com

    QUESTIONS? Submit your question to the email above and listen for a response on the show.

    Do you attend meetings already? If not, why? What options are even out there? What are the barriers you face? There are so many resources for us wives and I want to share a few with you today! Do not walk this journey alone! Alcoholism in the home is defeating and exhausting. I have found so much hope and strength in relating with others whose families also are walking out an addiction and/or recovery path!

    Celebrate Recovery: Online and In-person

    https://celebraterecovery.com/find-help-2/

    Alanon:

    In person https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/find-an-al-anon-meeting/

    Online Alanon Meetings: (No Zoom or anything required)

    https://meetings.al-anon.org/electronic-meeting-page/

    Want to work with me? Book a session. https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession or email me at hello@wifeontherocks.com

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    17 mins
  • Ep 07: PART 6 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Praying Your Husband Will Choose Recovery This Year? Tips To Support the Pre-Recovery Stage!
    Jan 7 2025

    How to support ideas of Recovery in the New Year! Did your husband mention a New Years Resolution to cut back drinking? Are you praying he will walk into REVOVERY this Year? Do you wish he would make some kind of a commitment for change? Anything would give you hope at this point!! Tune in to hear how you can support recovery and future conversations. It isn't easy to offer support to him when things are already so painful, but this conversation will hopefully give you some perspective on things that you can do right NOW.

    This episode was approved by my husband as a very helpful perspective on what helped him and addresses a few of the things that were not helpful.

    https://youtu.be/-4EDhdAHrOg?si=1XbELB_GHLm36ow5

    Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com

    Want to work with me? Book a session. https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession

    Holiday Survival Guide for Wives: 6 Episodes

    Check out the full series as it becomes available

    EP 02 : PART 1 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Parenting With an Alcoholic Husband This Season? Tips for Peace & Joy with Kids.

    EP 03: PART 2 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Surviving the Holiday Drinking Culture: Are Your BOUNDARIES Ready?

    Ep 04 : PART 3 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Safety 101 : Do You LOVE an Alcoholic? 4 Steps to Guard Your Heart and Home This Christmas.

    Ep 05: PART 4 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Lonely? Hopeless? Stressed? A Christmas Gift just for Christian Wives <3

    Ep 06: PART 5 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Exhausted and Burnt Out? 3 Tips for Biblical Rest and Renewal in Alcoholic Marriages.

    Ep 07: PART 6 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // What is ONE thing you can do to Support RECOVERY in the New Year?

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    17 mins
  • Ep 06: PART 5 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Exhausted and Burnt Out? 3 Tips for Biblical Rest and Renewal in Alcoholic Marriages.
    Dec 30 2024

    Are you exhausted after Christmas? The fallout can be immense. I believe we experience this at a higher and deeper level in marriages struggling with addiction and it's impact on our families! Join me for some tips to get the rest and renewal you need in impossible situations. What can Biblical rest and renewal look like in a family wrestling through alcoholism?

    Connect with me at hello@wifeontherocks.com

    Questions? Send your question to the show!! hello@wifeontherocks.com

    Want to work with me? Book a session. https://calendly.com/wifeontherocks/1hrcoachingsession

    Holiday Survival Guide for Wives: 6 Episodes

    Check out the full series as it becomes available

    EP 02 : PART 1 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Parenting With an Alcoholic Husband This Season? Tips for Peace & Joy with Kids.

    EP 03: PART 2 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Surviving the Holiday Drinking Culture: Are Your BOUNDARIES Ready?

    Ep 04 : PART 3 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Safety 101 : Do You LOVE an Alcoholic? 4 Steps to Guard Your Heart and Home This Christmas.

    Ep 05: PART 4 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Lonely? Hopeless? Stressed? A Christmas Gift just for Christian Wives <3

    Ep 06: PART 5 HOLIDAY SURVIVAL GUIDE SERIES // Exhausted and Burnt Out? 3 Tips for Biblical Rest and Renewal in Alcoholic Marriages.

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    24 mins

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