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Dr. Meyleen Velasquez, an inspiring Latina clinician, joins us to share her profound journey in mental health, shaped by her own life with vitiligo and her dedication to working with perinatal and early relational health. Embarking on this path in Miami, she was one of the few Spanish-speaking clinicians, leading her to specialize in play therapy. We explore her newly published book, "What Therapists Need to Know About Perinatal and Early Relational Health," which provides an anti-oppressive framework for supporting pregnant individuals and families with young children. Listen as Dr. Velasquez emphasizes the importance of recognizing caregivers as whole individuals beyond their parenting roles and how this perspective enriches family dynamics and therapeutic outcomes.

Reflective practice takes center stage as we discuss its critical role in infant mental health, highlighting the significance of reflective supervision and consultation in challenging embedded ableism within mental health fields. Dr. Velasquez encourages us to question dominant parenting style narratives and embrace cultural sensitivity by understanding family dynamics within their unique contexts. Together, we advocate for an inclusive approach that acknowledges diverse family structures, from multi-generational households to LGBTQ+ families. We also address the limitations of traditional theories and academia in adapting to these evolving dynamics, underscoring the need for heart-centered practices to build meaningful connections within the therapeutic community. Join us as we aim to transform the landscape of family mental health with openness and curiosity.

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Unlock the secrets of intergenerational trauma with Milagros "Mili" Sarmiento Shoemaker, a distinguished therapist who bridges cultures from Argentina to the United States. Have you ever wondered how the experiences of your ancestors shape your life today? This episode promises insights into understanding trauma as a survival mechanism that transcends generations, using historical contexts, like wars and migrations, to illustrate the invisible threads connecting us to our past.

Our conversation with Mili dives deep into the layers of generational healing, where we explore the unique privilege and responsibility our generation holds in addressing and integrating the unresolved issues of our ancestors. By embracing the complex dynamics between victims and perpetrators in our family histories, we underscore the importance of empathy and grace in understanding where we come from. This episode sheds light on how acknowledging these inherited patterns paves the way for future generations to face new challenges unencumbered by the weight of the past.

We conclude with an exploration of how therapists can harness the power of communication and resource-sharing to unravel their clients' intergenerational trauma. Mili shares poignant examples that highlight the significant impact of incorporating family systems into therapeutic practices. Not only do we discuss how these insights can prevent children from being unfairly pathologized, but we also reflect on the mutual growth experienced by both therapists and clients. Join us in this enlightening journey that promises to break the cycle of unspoken trauma and foster a deeper understanding of our shared human experience.

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Join us for a compelling conversation with Sybil Cummin, a licensed professional counselor whose expertise in domestic violence sheds light on a topic often misunderstood. Sybil takes us beyond the physical aspects of abuse, highlighting the more subtle yet equally damaging forms of control and manipulation that can infiltrate relationships. From financial manipulation to spiritual abuse, Sybil unpacks the various ways one partner can exert power over another, urging us to recognize these signs early on.

We challenge societal stereotypes and cultural misconceptions that simplify domestic abuse to mere physical violence between heterosexual partners. Sybil and I delve into the complexities of how abuse can cross all boundaries of gender and demographics, bringing to light issues like immigration status being used as a tool for control. We also confront the damaging effects of victim blaming, particularly the insidious question of "why didn't you leave?" and explore the ongoing struggles faced by survivors, especially those with children.

For mental health professionals, this episode is a call to action. Sybil stresses the necessity of proper training and preparation when working with victims of domestic violence. We discuss the often-overlooked connection between domestic violence and other mental health issues, drawing parallels with the manipulative tactics of cults. This episode urges therapists to seek additional resources and training, equipping themselves to understand better and address the complexities of domestic violence within the broader context of societal structures.

A Hero's Welcome Podcast © Maria Laquerre-Diego & Liliana Baylon