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Let's take a close look at the book His Needs, Her Needs by Willard Harley! Bethany Jantzi and Ngina Otiende join me to look at some of the things that we find problematic about the book--and explain why evangelicalism needs better resources!

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What happens when church doesn’t seem safe? Or when, in retrospect, you realize it wasn’t, even if you threw yourself into it at the time? Today Dr. Andrew Bauman joins us to talk about his new book Safe Church, and then Rebecca and Sheila read reader’s stories about how the church stole their sex lives—and what we can do about it.

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• Andrew Bauman’s book Safe Church
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• Andrew’s guest post on Safe Church
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• My blog series on sexual recovery
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• Our book She Deserves Better
• Our Good Girl’s/Good Guy’s Guides to Great Sex (great for engaged couples)

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Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

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It's time to walk through some super interesting studies that have recently been published--and see what they say about the intersection of infidelity and beliefs in male hierarchy. Keith joins Sheila to react to the studies!

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Thank you to our sponsor, Zondervan and the book Saving Face. The church needs to get away from harmful tropes, and call us towards true community based on vulnerability and safety. Aimee Byrd points the way!

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LINKS MENTIONED:

• The Marriage You Want
• Study on how affairs aren't linked to sex frequency, and the post about it
• Study on how sexism affects infidelity
• Power to Flirt Study
• Differences in Solitary vs. Dyadic Sexual Desire study
• Study on Heroism by Gender
• The IFS World Map 2019 (abuse stats are on pp. 35&36)
• John Piper on how complementarianism protects women, and Rachel Held Evans' response

OTHER RESEARCH DEEP DIVE PODCASTS:

• Pink and Blue Brains? What the research says about gender and brain differences
• Why Sex Is Like Chef Boyardee
• New Research on Obligation Sex
• New Research on

Join Sheila at Bare Marriage.com!

Check out her books:

• The Great Sex Rescue
• She Deserves Better
• The Good Girl's Guide to Great Sex
• and The Good Guy's Guide to Great Sex

And she has an Orgasm Course and a Libido course too!

Check out all her courses, FREE resources, social media, books, and so much more at Sheila's LinkTree.