What if we told you fornication is not what we have been traditionally taught?

What if we told you there are more responsible ways to do sexual ethics?

What if we told you to release the shame and guilt of safe and consensual unmarried sex?

As Dr. Delman Coates will share later, "Sex is not a problem to be solved. It is an appetite to be managed."

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Episode Chapters

00:00 - Intro & Highlights

05:01 - The Viral Clip about Fornication

08:49 - Sex & The Greatest Commandment

15:30 - Dr. Delman Coates joins us

23:00 - Black Scholarship Matters

30:39 - Dr. Coates' stance on LGBTQ

37:00 - What should I tell my kids?

48:43 - The interpretation of tongues

57:02 - Unpacking "Lean Not to your own understanding."

1:04:50 - Theologian vs Bible Scholar

1:09:15 - How are you navigating politics?

If you struggle with your identity as a Christian because of what it has come to represent, this episode is for you. Kristian and the crew are joined by D. Danyelle Thomas, the Unfit Christian, to discuss the relationship between spirituality and humanism.

The meaning of Humanism varies depending on who you ask. For the sake of this conversation, humanism is a worldview that suggests humanity is equipped with everything it needs to resolve its own problems without supernatural intervention.

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Episode Chapters

00:00 - Intro and Highlights

06:36 - Close the Doors - Marvin Sapp Recap

09:45 - The One Rule

15:45 - What is Humanism? - The Pastor's Study

21:34 - How were you exposed to Humanism? - Intros

44:40 - Paula White is a Scammer - Reaching for the Stars

56:55 - The ladies read Paula White for filth

1:19:03 - How does Humanism align with Jesus?

1:36:57 - Church Kid Sing Along

In recent years, Christian Nationalist have bee casting a negative light on the concept of empathy. They characterize it as a gateway to approve "sin." In this episode Kristian and the crew unpack how dangerous this teaching is.

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Episode Chapters

00:00 - Intro and Highlights

02:30 - Rich Auntie’s Birthday Recap

05:47 - The First Lady of the Closet

10:10 - Pamela is the man of the house

13:10 - The One Rule

17:52 - What is Empathy - The Couch w/ Pamela

31:13 - Boundaries vs. Control

36:57 - How did you learn empathy?

47:15 - Anxiety vs Empathy

55:01 - What is toxic Empathy? Reaching for the Stars

1:20:15 - The Enticing Sin of Empathy

1:31:30 - You’re Invited!