What if we told you fornication is not what we have been traditionally taught?

What if we told you there are more responsible ways to do sexual ethics?

What if we told you to release the shame and guilt of safe and consensual unmarried sex?

As Dr. Delman Coates will share later, "Sex is not a problem to be solved. It is an appetite to be managed."

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Episode Chapters

00:00 - Intro & Highlights

05:01 - The Viral Clip about Fornication

08:49 - Sex & The Greatest Commandment

15:30 - Dr. Delman Coates joins us

23:00 - Black Scholarship Matters

30:39 - Dr. Coates' stance on LGBTQ

37:00 - What should I tell my kids?

48:43 - The interpretation of tongues

57:02 - Unpacking "Lean Not to your own understanding."

1:04:50 - Theologian vs Bible Scholar

1:09:15 - How are you navigating politics?

If you struggle with your identity as a Christian because of what it has come to represent, this episode is for you. Kristian and the crew are joined by D. Danyelle Thomas, the Unfit Christian, to discuss the relationship between spirituality and humanism.

The meaning of Humanism varies depending on who you ask. For the sake of this conversation, humanism is a worldview that suggests humanity is equipped with everything it needs to resolve its own problems without supernatural intervention.

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Episode Chapters

00:00 - Intro and Highlights

06:36 - Close the Doors - Marvin Sapp Recap

09:45 - The One Rule

15:45 - What is Humanism? - The Pastor's Study

21:34 - How were you exposed to Humanism? - Intros

44:40 - Paula White is a Scammer - Reaching for the Stars

56:55 - The ladies read Paula White for filth

1:19:03 - How does Humanism align with Jesus?

1:36:57 - Church Kid Sing Along

In recent years, Christian Nationalist have bee casting a negative light on the concept of empathy. They characterize it as a gateway to approve "sin." In this episode Kristian and the crew unpack how dangerous this teaching is.

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Episode Chapters

00:00 - Intro and Highlights

02:30 - Rich Auntie’s Birthday Recap

05:47 - The First Lady of the Closet

10:10 - Pamela is the man of the house

13:10 - The One Rule

17:52 - What is Empathy - The Couch w/ Pamela

31:13 - Boundaries vs. Control

36:57 - How did you learn empathy?

47:15 - Anxiety vs Empathy

55:01 - What is toxic Empathy? Reaching for the Stars

1:20:15 - The Enticing Sin of Empathy

1:31:30 - You’re Invited!

In this episode, Kristian and the crew discuss how so much of Fundamentalist Christianity props up the image of white Jesus. This is the symbolism European nations have leveraged to violently colonize most of the known world.

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Video Chapters

00:00 - Intro and Highlights

02:16 - Kristian’s Devil Horns

04:45 - The One Rule

05:49 - A Review of our YouTube haters

14:34 - What are you doing to care for yourself?

27:06 - “Jesus was NOT a Black Man” - Phillip Anthony Mitchell

40:52 - Weaponizing Marxism

46:52 - Evidence of Jesus’ Skin Tone

55:34 - Afterlife Anxiety obstructs Pro-Blackness

58:53 - The problem with Christian Evangelism

The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.

In this episode, Kristian and the crew discuss what it’s like to be single in the Black Church regardless of your gender or sexual orientation. We’ll uncover in this conversation that those factors make a difference. We’re joined by two of our community members, BJ Jackson and Paul Best.

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Video Chapters

00:00 - Intro and Highlights

08:04 - Did not our hearts burn within us? - Part 1 Recap

12:30 - The One Rule

19:09 - Describe your experience as a single person in the Black Church

43:07 - Decentering Heterosexual Relationships

46:32 - Leave me out of your misery - Reaching for the Stars

1:02:10 - Jackie Hill Perry Levels of Repression

1:09:11 - The Masturbation Stigma

1:13:49 - How has Purity Culture impacted your relationships?

1:15:22 - Some single church mothers are closeted lesbians?

The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.

This episode will give you a look inside the mind of a Christian Nationalist. Kristian and the crew are joined by viral comedic content creator and author of "Star Spangled Jesus", April Ajoy.

April was raised in the Christian Nationalist world. Now she has committed her work to dismantling the tradition that raised her for the good of humanity.

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Video Chapters

00:00 - Intro and Highlights

04:55 - Part 1 Recap

07:00 - Star Spangled Jesus

08:44 - The One Rule

10:45 - The definition of Christian Nationalism

13:45 - What aspect of Christian Nationalism is the most concerning?

25:30 - White Women, Welch's and Witchcraft

32:49 - Oscars Prayer Party

37:00 - Christian Nationalist U.S. History

45:55 - All good Christians are Republican

57:40 - White Evangelicals in Black Face

1:03:39 - Seven Mountain Mandate

1:17:07 - Blackness over Christianity

1:20:41 - How to counter Christian Nationalism

The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.

In this Therapy N' Theology episode of the podcast, the preacher and the preacher's wife discuss the implications of respectability politics on Black people in general and Black Christians in particular.

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Video Chapters

00:00 - Intro and Highlights

04:41 - The Therapy N Theology Origin Story

09:10 - The One Rule

10:58 - How is your mood?

17:53 - Doechii, Tyler the Creator, Kamasi Washington

21:32 - Jazz was bump & grind music

22:41 - Is Tripp Fontaine tripping? - Reaching for the Stars

36:36 - Leave Gender Wars in 2024

38:10 - Bonnets and Respectability Politics ft. Christina Brown

47:06 - The Origins of Respectability Politics

54:40 - Ethics vs Etiquette

1:07:02 - The connection between Sin & Respectability

1:18:13 - Count the Cost of your Rebellion

The Faith Community is a groundbreaking, inclusive faith community where the traditional meets the transformational. It exists to challenge harmful religious norms while creating a safe, affirming space for spiritual seekers of all kinds. Through virtual connection, theological interrogation, and an emphasis on love and self-acceptance, TFC helps its audience find abundant life and community without compromising their identity.