Episodios

  • Lifting The Lid - Episode 132 - Wrappers around our work - The one with the sweeties

    Lifting The Lid - Episode 132 - Wrappers around our work - The one with the sweeties
    May 20 2025
    Coaching is more than just the session itself. It’s also about the wrap-arounds that create the container – and as is often the case, Steve and Clare find a metaphor that’s useful to their own understanding, that of a boiled sweet (the coaching or supervision itself) with a wrapper that has twisted ends.

    There are so many aspects to creating this wrapper – the contract being one, but also the work of the coaching custodian before coach and thinker even get to talk to each other, then there’s the preparatory work that we might ask the thinker to think through and the analysis afterwards. And all of this applies to us when we go into supervision too.
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    37 m
  • Lifting The Lid - Episode 131 - Changing world order - the one where we "slough it off"

    Lifting The Lid - Episode 131 - Changing world order - the one where we "slough it off"
    Apr 15 2025
    In this episode, Clare and Steve talk about the impact of economic decisions (whether by our own UK government by the US presidency or elsewhere in the world). This conversation was triggered by a communication from a coaching platform to its coaches, but it became much more wide-ranging, as we talked about ripple effects in all areas of our work. We ask the question “Who tells coaches what we can and cannot do?” and then we meander into other arenas, including a reflection about the confidentiality and data protection of our virtual software platforms and other coach tech.

    As they say after potentially triggering TV shows, “If you are affected by the content of this programme, you can get help by…” talking with your supervisor. You do not need to face this alone.

    Get in touch if you need to talk:
    Clare Norman clare@clarenormancoachingassociates.com
    Steve Ridgley steve@illuminateddandelion.co.uk
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    43 m
  • Lifting The Lid - Episode 130 - Mental Health Expertise - The one with the moment of self doubt

    Lifting The Lid - Episode 130 - Mental Health Expertise - The one with the moment of self doubt
    Mar 18 2025
    Clare and Steve explore what we as coaches might be expected to know, or do, when starting work with a client who has a diagnosed mental health condition.

    Even without clinical knowledge, is it possible to contract and move forward in a coaching relationship? How can supervision support you? What if your client has said nothing, but you have a suspicion that there might be a mental health condition present?

    If you yourself have a diagnosable mental health condition as a coach, what might you expect from a supervisor?
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    35 m
  • Lifting The Lid - Episode 129 - Platforms and Associateships

    Lifting The Lid - Episode 129 - Platforms and Associateships
    Feb 18 2025
    In this episode, Clare and Steve are joined by Ginny Baillie who has much to say about associate work whether that is via a coaching platform or through an associate coaching company.

    We talk about the need for thinkers to have awareness, willingness and responsibility for the coaching to make an impact, and how current models of associate work may not be setting thinkers up for success against these criteria.

    Relationship building is top of Ginny’s top tips for associate work.

    She mentions two useful books:

    The Prosperous Coach https://amzn.eu/d/070wFzOs

    and

    The Journey of a Prosperous Coach https://amzn.eu/d/06r7fxFq

    You can find out more about Ginny at HOME | Ginny Baillie coaching
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    46 m
  • Lifting The Lid - Episode 128 - Three way contract - The one where the rider is chocolate

    Lifting The Lid - Episode 128 - Three way contract - The one where the rider is chocolate
    Jan 21 2025
    In today’s episode, Steve and Clare ask the question ‘who is the customer’ when the organisation is paying for coaching. The discussion meanders (as always) through
    • the coach’s obligations in the three-way contract
    • the data (source unknown) suggests that 91% of clients change what they want from coaching part-way through the coaching
    • going with the flow
    • the coach understanding the leadership development strategy of the organisation by way of context for the coaching
    • the coaching custodian’s role in all of this. A term coined by Clare and Sam Humphrey in Clare's new book, Cultivating Coachability
    • the influence that the coach can have on said coaching custodians, once the coach has figured out their own guiding principles
    Enjoy dear listeners!


    This podcast series is supported by Trusted Coach Directory
    In an unregulated industry, where anyone can call themselves a coach, the Trusted Coach Directory exists to raise the profile, credibility and standard of professional coaches and supervisors. Visit TrustedCoachDirectory.com
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    40 m
  • Lifting The Lid - Episode 127 - The client wants to do what? - The one with the inner imp

    Lifting The Lid - Episode 127 - The client wants to do what? - The one with the inner imp
    Dec 17 2024
    "What if you, the coach, think the learner/client's idea is 'bonkers', do you stick to a coaching frame or not?" - this was a question a coach brought to supervision recently. Clare and Steve explore this idea, confessing that we might all have guilty imps where we might deviate from the formal 'proper' coaching path. What strategies might you take when your inner imp says "You know this approach isn't proper, but go on, do it ...."
    This leads the conversation to the benefits of bringing the seemingly insignificant to supervision; also bringing our blindspots - confessing our in-the-moment self-realisation, inspired through the thoughts, approaches and comments other coaches bring to group supervision - being vulnerable enough to admit that we too have a guilty secret.

    The conversation turns to the power within bringing simple, small items to supervision - Less is more often when we come to supervision. The conversation meanders to right and wrong paths, right and wrong questions and the unconscious bias in our unintentional leading of our clients, which leads to an 'ouch' moment... and a listener award.


    This podcast series is supported by Trusted Coach Directory
    In an unregulated industry, where anyone can call themselves a coach, the Trusted Coach Directory exists to raise the profile, credibility and standard of professional coaches and supervisors. Visit TrustedCoachDirectory.com
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    35 m
  • Lifting The Lid - Episode 126 - "I'm not good enough" - The one where we talk about right-sizing yourself as a coach

    Lifting The Lid - Episode 126 - "I'm not good enough" - The one where we talk about right-sizing yourself as a coach
    Nov 19 2024
    Clare and Steve discuss some common challenges for coaches, beginning with feeling inadequate or "not good enough," often stemming from a lack of external feedback after completing coach training. They note this "playing small" mindset typically evolves over time into a desire to "play bigger" and have more impact. And yet, even experienced coaches can doubt themselves. Also, if we play too big we risk reducing the 'size' of our clients or our fellow coaches in group supervision. Right-sizing ourselves is a never-ending quest.

    Contrary to this idea of a quest though, the conversation touches both Clare and Steve in the profound realisation that acknowledgement is the key to supervision. Acknowledging who you are, where you are, and what you are feeling no matter whether you think this is “big enough” to bring to supervision. In doing so, the paradoxical nature of change will enable your growth without the need to strive. We are all good enough!

    This podcast series is supported by Trusted Coach Directory
    In an unregulated industry, where anyone can call themselves a coach, the Trusted Coach Directory exists to raise the profile, credibility and standard of professional coaches and supervisors. Visit TrustedCoachDirectory.com
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    34 m
  • Lifting The Lid - Episode 125 - The fuzzy space between coaching and therapy

    Lifting The Lid - Episode 125 - The fuzzy space between coaching and therapy
    Oct 15 2024
    Clare and Steve are joined in conversation by Angela Jopling. Angela describes herself as a coach of 26 years, a Supervisor of 15 years, psychotherapy trained who operates in the fuzzy space. We have all noticed how the space between coaching and therapy is blurring. 20 years ago Angela wrote a thesis on this fuzzy space whilst doing her master's degree in psychotherapy.

    Often coaches are cautious about the counselling or therapy space, but as Angela points out, the core of both these disciplines is presence, listening and holding the space. As coaches, we are often comfortable with TA tools such as ego states, drama triangle, parent adult, child.

    Also with Gestalt techniques such as chair work, NLP techniques and behavioural change from CBT - much of this emanates from the world of therapy. We explore how coaches might find their own way to navigate the fuzzy space whilst recognising how to 'hand off' a client to another specialist if required. As ever, it's about doing your own work on yourself, to determine where your fuzzy space starts and ends.

    Angela is starting a theraputic coaching supervision group. Find out more here https://www.dropbox.com/scl/fi/281yr2ry3yh6wz7etskae/Therapeutic-Coaching-Supervision-Group.pdf?rlkey=ud4zirr0dunah6swdewqmtpwr&st=31rbe2c2&dl=0

    This podcast series is supported by Trusted Coach Directory
    In an unregulated industry, where anyone can call themselves a coach, the Trusted Coach Directory exists to raise the profile, credibility and standard of professional coaches and supervisors. Visit TrustedCoachDirectory.com
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    51 m
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