What REALLY kills relationships? We often think it’s huge differences in personality or values that cause break ups, but just as often it’s the small, subtle, repeated behaviours that lead to relationships ending.

From the "Four Horsemen" of relationship conflict to the resentments that go unspoken until it’s too late, Matthew, Stephen and Audrey explore how these silent killers show up—and how to catch and heal them before they do lasting damage.

Topics include

• A deep dive into criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling (and how they sabotage love)
  
  

• Why “repair” matters more than perfection in long-term relationships
  
  

• The unconscious reasons some people can't say sorry and how to deal with it
  
  

• How resentment builds when we don’t feel seen, appreciated, or included
  
  

• The importance of creating a relationship culture where nothing is off-limits to talk about
  
  

• A listener question about red flags before marriage
  
  

• The difference between expecting love to be perfect vs. building a love that lasts
  
  

Links mentioned:

• 🎥 Watch the Dating Made Simple Replay (available until May 30th): https://www.LoveLifeReplay.com
  
  

• 💬 Try Matthew AI and ask your first questions for free: https://www.askMH.com
  
  

• 🎟️ Join us at the Miami Retreat (October 18–19): https://www.MHRetreat.com
  
  

• 💞 Become a Love Life Member and join future live events: https://www.JoinLoveLife.com
  
  

📧 Have a story, question, or want to share your favorite podcast moment? Email us at: podcast@matthewhussey.com

What does emotionally available love really look like? In this new video, I break down six key signs of emotional availability so you can spot the difference between fleeting attention and real intention.

If you’re tired of wasting time on people who aren’t serious, I also share how to recognize emotional availability early on . . . without coming across as too intense. Plus I reveal the subtle behaviors that separate healthy connection from love bombing, so you can protect your heart and invest in the right person.

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In today’s Rewind episode, I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting.

If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (which doesn’t feel good, don’t get me wrong) you can usually assume they just weren’t feeling the chemistry . . .

But what does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time?

In this episode, I give you three reasons why someone might do this, what you should do when it happens, and the strange reason why they may choose to ghost but leave the door open. You can’t miss this topic!

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