When we first date someone, we can’t keep our hands off them. All we want to do is take them home and spend all night in bed together. But what about when the infatuation stage is over? Can you still keep up the chase even though you’re both in a stable and comfortable relationship?

In this week’s episode of Love Life, I explain the psychology behind why so many couples get lazy and lose attraction over time, and show how you can avoid that by taking on a few key behaviors to boost the DESIRE in your relationship so that you and your partner always feel irresistibly attracted to each another.

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In today’s episode, Matthew is joined by bestselling author Sahil Bloom, whose book The Five Types of Wealth challenges everything we think we know about success. Together they dive into the tension between chasing money and cultivating a deeply fulfilling life—especially in the age of comparison and social media.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything “right” but still feel behind or empty, this conversation is a must-listen.

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• The 5 types of wealth: time, health, relationships, purpose, and money
  
  

• Why money is only valuable as a tool—not a destination
  
  

• The myth of “falling” in love vs. growing in love
  
  

• Why you feel behind in life (and how to reframe it)
  
  

• Navigating loneliness and starting over at any age
  
  

• The power of environment to shape your reality
  
  

• When to let go of old friendships and toxic safety habits
  
  

• How to shift from burnout to balance without losing your ambition
  
  

• Why anything above zero compounds
  
  

• Small habits that build deep relationships
  
  

• How to trust again after betrayal or rejection
  
  

• Register for the 30-Day Confidence Challenge (Free): MHChallenge.com
  
  

• Try Matthew AI for personalized dating and relationship advice: AskMH.com
  
  

• Get Sahil Bloom’s book The Five Types of Wealth

If you’ve ever been ghosted, you know how brutal it feels. It’s like the floor suddenly dropped out from under you. But here’s the truth: Ghosting isn’t about you—it’s usually about the other person’s immaturity or inability to have a hard conversation.

In this episode, I’ll explain why people ghost in modern dating, and show you how to stop getting stuck on people who flake and disappear, so you focus on people who truly value you. Life is too short to waste on people who don’t show up.

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In this week's episode of Love Life, I speak with Sarah who had just started dating her "dream guy" before things took a turn for the worst when she left for a week. With his attention lost, we discuss the subtle ways she can regain it.

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In this episode, Matthew sits down with Dr. Morgan Cutlip (@drmorgancutlip) to explore the real work of modern relationships. Whether you’re dating, married, or somewhere in between, this is a must-listen for anyone who wants to learn how to communicate their needs, set boundaries, and grow closer to their partner without losing themselves in the process.

Topics Covered:

• What actually changes when you become parents, and how to prepare for it.
  
  

• Why resentment builds when your needs go unspoken.
  
  

• Dr. Cutlip’s “Ultimate Compliment Formula” for deeper emotional connection.
  
  

• How to love someone in the way they need to be loved (even if it doesn’t come naturally).
  
  

• What the “mental load” is and why it’s a hidden relationship-killer.
  
  

• How to talk about imbalance in a relationship without triggering defensiveness.
  
  

• The difference between compromise and losing yourself in a relationship.
  
  

• How to bring up your needs without guilt.
  
  

• What makes someone “relationship ready” in dating.
  
  

• How individualism is quietly undermining commitment culture.
  
  

Resources Mentioned:

• Dr. Morgan Cutlip’s book: A Better Share – Buy your copy here
  
  

• Join Matthew’s 30-Day Confidence Challenge – MHChallenge.com
  
  

• Try Matthew AI (ask any relationship question) – AskMH.com
  
  

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In my 30s, I realized some truths about relationships that took me years to really learn. I used to believe in a lot of romantic myths. But in this week’s new episode, I share the hard-earned truth that certainty in love isn’t something you find on day one—it’s something you have to decide to build and invest in.

You’ll also learn the difference between “settling for” and “settling on” someone, and why the latter is the key to creating a love that lasts.

If you’ve ever felt paralyzed by the fear of choosing the wrong person, or overwhelmed by your search for “the one,” this is the mindset shift you need.

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Few things can match the heady exhilaration of dating someone and building momentum through regular texting and a sense of closeness.

But what about when the texting on their end is . . . kind of slow and intermittent . . . where there are big gaps in your text exchanges that leave you feeling unsure as to where, exactly, you stand with that person?

Feeling this way might even lead you to start analyzing their relationship with their phone the next time you’re with them, looking for clues as to whether their sporadic phone usage is consistent in their life or reserved just for you.

At some point, they might’ve even shared a generic line with you like, “I’m so rubbish with my phone,” or “I’m really bad at replying to people!” But is this really true?

In this week’s episode, I not only answer these questions, but I dig into a really common mistake people make in this area.

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Do you feel like time is running out to find love? Whether you’re worried about starting a family, comparing yourself to friends who are coupled up, or just feeling urgent pressure to “catch up” in your dating life, this episode is for you.

Matthew, Stephen, and Audrey explore how to handle dating confidently when the stakes feel high, and how to avoid letting fear and anxiety sabotage your decisions. If you’ve ever felt behind—unsure whether to stay hopeful or make a bold change—this episode will give you the tools to find love and ease the pressure others try to put on you.

In this episode we cover:

• Why the fear of “running out of time” is so common in dating today.
  
  

• How to create urgency without falling into panic mode.
  
  

• The illusion of progress: How “distraction relationships” can quietly steal years of your life.
  
  

• Real stats on women having children after 35.
  
  

• How to stop comparing your timeline to everyone else’s.
  
  

• Reframing societal pressure and internal anxiety.
  
  

• Dating intentionally vs. dating reactively.
  
  

• How to bring up having kids in early dating conversations.
  
  

• The importance of a backup plan—and how it can actually help your love life.
  
  

Links:

– Try Matthew AI for free: AskMH.com
– Join the Love Life Club with exclusive courses and live events: JoinLoveLife.com
– Get your ticket to the Matthew Hussey Retreat: MHretreat.com
– Watch the free masterclass: Casual to Committed: GetCommitment.com
– Send us your stories or questions: podcast@matthewhussey.com