Episode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture

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What stops many men moving forward with modern dating… is an exhaustion and resentment with the culture at large.

Hearing so many horror stories, and with hateful attitudes in the air around them, many men are in retreat, predicting that if they put their best foot forward in dating, it won’t be long until they’re knocked down.

The angst of our age has become a forcefield, holding many of us and our desires back.

While we all know that a positive mindset helps create positive outcomes, it is still difficult for so many of us to let go of our grievances; our sense that so much in the world is unfair, or is skewed against us.

In today’s episode, Zan and Jordan dig into the widespread feelings of resentment people feel towards “the culture” at large… and how to work with this issue, spiritually, philosophically, and practically. Not so that we forever resolve what is ‘wrong’ with the world, but so that we find our sense of oasis within it.

There are a few creative ways to deal with a dysfunctional home culture. But once you’re out of the box, it is impossible to ever climb back in.

Or is it?

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Episode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women?

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Neither Zan nor Jordan are strangers to men seeking advice on a very particular predicament: “I’d like to settle down with one beauty, but I feel like I haven’t had all the experiences I wanted to with women, and I don’t want to feel like I forever missed out.”

Depending on your life’s journey, you might feel like what you need now is to settle down with one woman. Understandably so, you might also be afraid that your curiosity for more experiences with women could one day put a wrench in a beautiful relationship. So how do you tame it? Can you?

In today’s episode, Zan and Jordan attempt to give guys in this position an answer.

Here’s something you might find illuminating: you pursue women, but women aren’t actually what you’re looking for.

I see it in myself–using women to make myself feel godly, or pursuing her with the hope of forever basking in the goddess inside of her. But as the guys say in today’s episode, no woman can fulfil this longing of yours forever.

If instead of trying to fill that void within you, you explored it, for what it is–what kind of beauty, artistic expression, and capacity for brand new pursuits could open up?

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Like a dog chasing cars–you wouldn’t really know what to do with one once you caught one! At least, after the honeymoon phase wears off :)

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Abundance in the Land of Women

Episode 17 – How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep?

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Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells when it comes to interacting with women you're attracted to?

Do you know exactly what you want to say, but hold back because you're not sure "how it'll land?"

Or when you see a girl you like, are you completely bombarded with intense thoughts and feelings that you freeze up, staying where you are, never bridging that distance between the two of you, all the while stealing a glance, or two, or three...or more?

Being perceived as a 'creep' is one of the biggest fears that holds men back from interacting with women, and so from the potentiality for much more that lies between them.

How do you communicate sexual desire, without being creepy? At its core, it requires some self-examination into what lies beneath the surface-level desire for her body parts, without forgetting that she is also a fine piece of ass! Listen to today’s conversation for a couple of practical ways that you can start to walk this razor-thin line successfully.

Today's discussion unpacks a reality of the modern dating world that almost no one is talking about, yet is key to a fulfilling interaction between a man and a woman.

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below. Has today's conversation given you new insights into expressing your desire authentically?

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Only a few spots available. Secure yours now: https://arsamorata.com/wwzd-live/

Giddy-up!

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Need a gunslinger? Someone who rides into town, completely solves your problem, then rides off into the sunset. Contact Zan Perrion personally to inquire about his incredibly effective one-on-one Laser Coaching. Find him here: https://arsamorata.com/lifementoring/

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