Episode 19 — Overcoming the Resentment of Modern Culture

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What stops many men moving forward with modern dating… is an exhaustion and resentment with the culture at large.

Hearing so many horror stories, and with hateful attitudes in the air around them, many men are in retreat, predicting that if they put their best foot forward in dating, it won’t be long until they’re knocked down.

The angst of our age has become a forcefield, holding many of us and our desires back.

While we all know that a positive mindset helps create positive outcomes, it is still difficult for so many of us to let go of our grievances; our sense that so much in the world is unfair, or is skewed against us.

In today’s episode, Zan and Jordan dig into the widespread feelings of resentment people feel towards “the culture” at large… and how to work with this issue, spiritually, philosophically, and practically. Not so that we forever resolve what is ‘wrong’ with the world, but so that we find our sense of oasis within it.

There are a few creative ways to deal with a dysfunctional home culture. But once you’re out of the box, it is impossible to ever climb back in.

Or is it?

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Episode 18 — Initiation: When Do You Know You’ve Done Enough in the World of Women?

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Neither Zan nor Jordan are strangers to men seeking advice on a very particular predicament: “I’d like to settle down with one beauty, but I feel like I haven’t had all the experiences I wanted to with women, and I don’t want to feel like I forever missed out.”

Depending on your life’s journey, you might feel like what you need now is to settle down with one woman. Understandably so, you might also be afraid that your curiosity for more experiences with women could one day put a wrench in a beautiful relationship. So how do you tame it? Can you?

In today’s episode, Zan and Jordan attempt to give guys in this position an answer.

Here’s something you might find illuminating: you pursue women, but women aren’t actually what you’re looking for.

I see it in myself–using women to make myself feel godly, or pursuing her with the hope of forever basking in the goddess inside of her. But as the guys say in today’s episode, no woman can fulfil this longing of yours forever.

If instead of trying to fill that void within you, you explored it, for what it is–what kind of beauty, artistic expression, and capacity for brand new pursuits could open up?

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Like a dog chasing cars–you wouldn’t really know what to do with one once you caught one! At least, after the honeymoon phase wears off :)

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Abundance in the Land of Women

Episode 17 – How To Be Sexual, Without Being a Creep?

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Do you feel like you're walking on eggshells when it comes to interacting with women you're attracted to?

Do you know exactly what you want to say, but hold back because you're not sure "how it'll land?"

Or when you see a girl you like, are you completely bombarded with intense thoughts and feelings that you freeze up, staying where you are, never bridging that distance between the two of you, all the while stealing a glance, or two, or three...or more?

Being perceived as a 'creep' is one of the biggest fears that holds men back from interacting with women, and so from the potentiality for much more that lies between them.

How do you communicate sexual desire, without being creepy? At its core, it requires some self-examination into what lies beneath the surface-level desire for her body parts, without forgetting that she is also a fine piece of ass! Listen to today’s conversation for a couple of practical ways that you can start to walk this razor-thin line successfully.

Today's discussion unpacks a reality of the modern dating world that almost no one is talking about, yet is key to a fulfilling interaction between a man and a woman.

Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments section below. Has today's conversation given you new insights into expressing your desire authentically?

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Abundance in the Land of Women

Episode 16 – Beautiful Women are Secretly Lonely

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If you’re reading this, then like Zan and Jordan, you’re probably a seeker of the finest treasures in life–of freedom, truth, love, connection and grace.

And if you’re reading this, then I imagine that sometimes, you feel secretly lonely.

This is reality for beautiful people. The qualities that you seek–that make you stand apart from all other men–these are the same qualities that make women truly beautiful…and therefore…secretly lonely, subtly outcast by other women en masse.

Zan and Jordan share an exploration of this condition in today’s episode. In it, Jordan asks the question, “How does a man get to know a truly beautiful woman?” The answer is to free yourself of judgement and to express the plain truth of who you are, where you came from and where you’re going.

The true beauties will self-select in along the way.

Let us know what you think of today’s discussion in the comments section. Do you see how beautiful, inquisitive, generous and loving women, just like men, are secretly lonely (and yearning for men of the same quality to share their world with)? We hope this conversation inspires you to connect with some truly beautiful women.

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Episode 15 – How Quickly To Make Things Intimate With A Woman?

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One astute viewer of the podcast recently commented on a difference he noticed in Zan and Jordan’s overall styles when it comes to engaging with women.

The crux of Zan’s approach lies in honouring the immediate connection he feels with a woman and allowing it to flourish unrestrained. As he famously wrote in The Alabaster Girl, "In every single one of the long-term, loving relationships I have experienced, we were intimate on the very first night." For Zan, there’s not even a hint of hanging around in the ‘maybe zone'.

Jordan finds equal richness in the gradual unfolding of connection. He sees each phase of getting to know a woman as containing its own particular magic and opportunity for growth.

Listen to today’s discussion and see which of these spirits resonates most with you. Is there wisdom in both?

Ultimately, what we’re talking about here is having life-giving brushes with beauty in their purest form–opportunities for your core existence as a man to be permanently transformed.

It’s all described in much more detail inside.

Share your thoughts and experiences of the like with women, in the comments. Has today's discussion sparked new questions about your own journey with women? We're listening and may address your insights in a future episode!

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Episode 14 – Stop Being So Serious: how to let go and enjoy the dance with women

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“How do I stop being so serious and become genuinely more playful?”

I find it fascinating that it took 14 episodes of Abundance in the Land Of Women for this question to come up–but I’m not surprised. You see, while the man who asks himself what he’d like his life to look like and strives to create it is already a rare breed, it’s even rarer for a man to go about his lifetime adventure with a sense of gratitude, humour and ease through the highs and lows.

No matter how much, or little playfulness you think you embody right now, the truth is that we all like fun. Women are no different. And, while contemplating your future, designing your life and being integral all make you an attractive man, accepting that life is short, laughing at your shortcomings and choosing to make good memories is sure to make you stand out, high and above, in her eyes.

How to bring out that sense of playfulness from within you is the subject of Zan and Jordan’s conversation today.

Let us know what you think in the comments section. When you’re faced with a decision, do you know what motivates your choice? Our lives are the sum of the choices we make. Will you choose to enjoy yourself?

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Episode 13 – Create Your Myth And Stand Apart With Women

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The realization of ‘the power of now’ and truly ‘being in the present moment’ are incredibly useful tools that a man can use to get much more out of life, and access an entirely hidden realm of the Land of Women.

Indeed, ‘getting present’ is often an important–and necessary–milestone in one’s journey of personal growth. If you feel you’ve arrived at this place, I congratulate you...and…I ask you to consider how well presence alone is helping you be the kind of man who has the experiences with women he dreams of.

As Zan and Jordan discuss today, while an ‘ultra-present’ man can certainly charm, seduce and create a real tasty conspiracy with a woman, there’s something about a man who chooses to see his life as a story, with a past he’s decided to love and a future he chooses–every day–to move towards that might make a woman actually want to stick around.

Just how can you love your past when it was so riddled with pain, trauma and suffering? How can you move forward with purpose when the future is so inherently uncertain? Listen to the conversation as Zan and Jordan share how they embrace the power of myth.

We’d love to hear from you: how has presence, and viewing your life in the context of a larger narrative, helped you relate to women? Do you prefer to live in the moment, allowing things to unfold between you and her? Do you spend time thinking about where you came from and where you’re headed? Share your thoughts in the comments section.

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Episode 12 – Your Mental State: Hidden Communication with Women
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The way in which your ‘state’ is affected by a woman you’re attracted to is the tell-tale sign, signifying your chances of having her be attracted back to you or not.

Men who have abundance simply don’t get anxious, nervous or feel ashamed when they come across a girl they’re attracted to. In fact, a woman’s presence is likely to put them onto an even more easeful, accepting and gracious wavelength.

There is a work-around, though: if you can accept your anxiety and nerves (even your shame), you can find an eye of ease through the midst of your internal storm.

“That sounds great”, you might say to yourself… “but how do I get there?” In today’s episode, Jordan and Zan break down a guide of what you can observe within yourself, a map of self-mastery that can help you feel deeper waves of confidence and connection.

And when you’re in that space with her, just what exactly is possible? ‘Spooky action from a distance!’

So what goes on in your mind when you encounter a woman? What possibilities does today’s conversation on the ‘hidden effects’ of what you feel, think and do when she isn’t around, inspire in you? Share with us your personal experiences with these themes. And enjoy the discussion!
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