
31 Ways to Show Her What Love Is
One Month to a More Lifegiving Relationship
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John Behrens
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Jefferson Bethke
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In Jefferson Bethke's newly revised edition of 31 Ways to Show Her What Love Is, you will discover practical and inspiring tips for bringing more romance, joy, and vibrancy to your marriage.
In 31 Ways to Show Her What Love Is, Jefferson Bethke gives husbands thirty-one specific tips for strengthening and deepening their marriage relationship. Each day, you will find a new suggestion for encouraging and loving your wife. Topics include:
- Serving each other
- Offering forgiveness
- Laughing together
- Praying for one another
- Affirming each other through words
- And even making a favorite snack.
From serious to lighthearted, each tip challenges you to make your marriage a priority and reminds you of the importance of a healthy, vibrant relationship. Now with a new cover and revised content, these books will take you on a one-month journey to bring you closer to your wife than ever before.
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