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Graham Winton
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Frank Schaeffer
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Best-selling author Frank Schaeffer offers a passionate political, social, and lifestyle “blueprint” for changes millions of us know are needed to rebalance our work lives with thriving relationships: Fall in Love, Have Children, Stay Put, Save the Planet, Be Happy.
Even before everything was disrupted by COVID-19 (not to mention by Trump), millions of Americans were already questioning capitalism’s “values”. We were already challenging the idea that your job defines you. We already knew something was wrong. Loneliness, frustration, and alienation were already on the rise. Even the most successful of us felt too busy, too preoccupied, and too distracted to enjoy what we intuitively know are life’s greatest rewards: vibrant relationships, family life, connection to others, involvement in our community, and the thrilling experience of love.
Fall in Love... builds a well-researched and entertaining bridge to living happier lives and to a better future. It shows us that based on a better understanding of our evolutionary selves, we can thrive in family life and in our work life, too. But to do both joyfully - and at the same time - depends on rediscovering the priority of relationships, connections, community, and love.
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Like reading a history of my evangelical life
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- G. Tasman
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Timely, profound and a great read
Frank Schaeffer has captured the strengths and challenges of the world we live in at this moment. He supports his views with hard science without bogging down in data. Whatever stage of life the reader is in, they will find ideas to improve their quality of life and make positive contributions to family, community, and the planet we live on.
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