
Independence Over Codependency
A Survival Guide to End Toxic Relationships, Develop Radical Self-Love, Stop People Pleasing, and Learn How to Set Healthy Boundaries (Growth, Book 2)
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Rodney Tompkins
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Ready to break free from a toxic relationship once and for all? Do you want to find a way to live on your own terms and live your truth?
Codependency is a slippery slope you can slide down without realizing it. One day you wake up and genuinely don’t know who you are anymore, and that terrifies you. Sound familiar? Honestly, that’s okay. By stepping forward and speaking up for yourself internally, you’re taking the biggest, most important step of the journey. From here on in, you’ll be supported and guided in a truly personal and authentic way. That’s if only you had the right guide…but you can get it faster than you can believe if you invest just two minutes of your life reading to the button on this page. How do I know? I’ve already listened to that very same guide from cover to cover!
Independence Over Codependency is for anyone who wants to follow their true self and live a life that sets them free from the harm and grip of toxicity.
©2023 Robert J Charles (P)2023 Robert J CharlesListeners also enjoyed...
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- Marlon Carson
- 07-20-23
Prioritize well-being
The audiobook's emphasis on self-care is a powerful reminder that taking care of oneself is not selfish but necessary for healthy relationships. It encourages listeners to prioritize their own well-being.
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- Cain Barnett
- 07-19-23
Gives hope
It invites listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery and self-empowerment. It's a beacon of hope for those seeking positive change.
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- Darren Farrell
- 07-19-23
Gentle guide
The audiobook masterfully addresses the fear of abandonment that often underlies codependency, guiding listeners towards greater self-assurance and inner strength.
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- Louis Cote
- 07-18-23
Learning journey
It emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility in relationships. It teaches listeners to maintain their independence while fostering healthy connections.
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- Riley Orr
- 07-20-23
Step-by-step guide
It offers a step-by-step approach to breaking free from codependency, guiding listeners through practical exercises and insightful reflections. It's an empowering resource for personal change.
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- Jabari Steele
- 03-25-23
Well-explained
This is a thought-provoking audiobook that explores the dynamics of toxic relationships. The narrator's voice is engaging and easy to listen to, and the author's insights are valuable for anyone looking to overcome the trauma of a toxic relationship.
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- Cynthia Medina
- 07-18-23
Very empowering
The audiobook's emphasis on building a strong sense of self and identity is empowering. Independence Over Codependency inspires listeners to embrace their uniqueness.
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- Ana Porter
- 07-20-23
Connects with listeners
It's a relatable and heartfelt audiobook that resonates with listeners on a deep level. Very empowering.
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- Khaleesi Dale
- 03-27-23
Clear and easy to follow through
The narration is clear and easy to follow, making this audiobook a great resource for those who prefer audio over print. The author's approach to healing from codependency is compassionate and effective.
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- Ahmed Spears
- 03-25-23
Codependent no more
This is a classic audiobook on codependency that I highly recommend. The author's personal experiences make it relatable, and the advice is actionable and effective.
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