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  • It's Not Okay

  • Turning Heartbreak into Happily Never After
  • By: Andi Dorfman
  • Narrated by: Andi Dorfman
  • Length: 9 hrs and 18 mins
  • 3.9 out of 5 stars (1,958 ratings)

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It's Not Okay

By: Andi Dorfman
Narrated by: Andi Dorfman
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Publisher's summary

Andi Dorfman, the beloved finalist of season 18 of The Bachelor who infamously rejected Juan Pablo and went on to star on season 10 of The Bachelorette, dishes about what it's like to live out a love story - and its collapse - in front of the cameras, offering hard-won advice for moving on after a break-up, public or not.

Andi Dorfman, star of The Bachelor and The Bachelorette, talks candidly about what it's like to be courted by 25 handsome single men in this juicy insider's peek at dating - and breaking up - on national TV. She shares entertaining and heartfelt stories about her fellow Bachelor alums - many of who are still close friends - comes clean about calling out bachelor number 18, Juan Pablo, for bad behavior, and reflects on her personal challenges and uplifting experiences in love that she hopes will help you get through your own break-ups with grace and style!

©2016 Andi Dorfman (P)2016 Random House Audio
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Her truth.

Would you recommend this audiobook to a friend? If so, why?

Yes, if they know who she is and want to know more of her story.

What did you like best about this story?

The vulnerability and laugh our loud moments because of her honest and raw speak.

What does Andi Dorfman bring to the story that you wouldn’t experience if you just read the book?

Emotion.

Was there a moment in the book that particularly moved you?

The crying in the closet moment. The moment where she knew. We have all been there at least once in our life.

Any additional comments?

I was eager to read this book because I am nosy and wanted to know the dets as to why the relationship broke down. I liked Andi since Juan Pablo's season and watched her entire season.

After finishing the book I admire Andi for being raw, honest and vulnerable for the world to see. Whilst I know that there are always three parts to a story - her truth, his truth and the real truth - this is a story of her truth. I admire her for being willing to let it all hang out, despite the judgement that some will pass on her. She is honest about the aftermath of a break up; I know I have been there and can completely identify. All of the feelings she speaks about - revenge, anger, dismay, hope etc. - are the truth behind any breakup.

Whilst the majority of people don't publish a book after a failed engagement- it is her truth nonetheless. Well done Andi. I look forward to what life has to bring you and wish you nothing but happiness.

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This was such great

Ok, so I have loved Andi Dorfman since I first saw her on The Bachelor and Bachelorette. This book was so raw, so honest, so sad in the sense of how much many of us women go thru what Andi went through. I got so upset in how #26 treated her and then some. She was so vulnerable to the world in what happened to her, the good, the bad, the ugly and at the end, her story, the real story. God Bless You Andi. This Audible was amazing, her voice was perfect, I get bored reading, so this was just perfect. I couldn't stop listening. I love you Andi and I'm so proud of you. Blessings from Miami, FL.🌞 Mary

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amazing

read this book every single night, was attached to it. would highly recommend! absolutely amazing

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Worst written book I've ever read.

The language (swearing) was trashy and over the top. I like hearing the story but it was filled with fluff- cliche's, repeated thoughts, and horrible writing.

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Loved it!!

Such an honest story of her bachelorette journey. I wish nothing but the best for her!

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It's ok.

While I have been a fan of Andi, this book was a little over the top. Her saying F**k every other word was a bit much too. I was interested in what she had to say half the time but also found myself wishing it would be over the other too. Wish her the best, but writing is probably not her thing.

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Solid Book

Some of the breakup advice is cliche that every girl in their 20s / 30s should know Andi's vulnerability is what makes the book worth the read. Although it's a 1 sided story I'm all for girl
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What I expected

I am a long-time Bachelor fan, and felt like Andy Dorfman was a very relatable girl while watching her seasons on Bachelor & Bachelorette. The book is about real-life experiences of searching for love, finding & losing it, healing from the break-up & being determined to start over. It's an enjoyable read, & it reinforced my initial
impression of "Number 26". I honestly felt like this could have been coming straight out of the mouth of one of my best friends!

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Loved it!

Great book! Loved that Andi read it! She made everything come to life and I felt like I was having a glass of wine talking to a girlfriend. I definitely recommend it.

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Entertaining read!

Always looked forward to listening to more. Andi is very authentic, funny and makes valid points.

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