
OCPD: Square Peg in a Round Hole
OCPDRescue.com Series, Book 1
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Narrated by:
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Nathan McMillan
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By:
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J.J. Stone
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J.B. Snow
About this listen
If you are reading this, it is likely that you or someone you know is suffering from a lifelong condition called OCPD, or obsessive-compulsive personality disorder. You may think that OCPD sounds like OCD, but the two are very different disorders.
A person with OCD can also have OCPD. The two disorders are separate, but they can exist in the same person. OCD is an obsessive-compulsive disorder, where a person does something repetitively which causes them distress but is used to relieve some kind of anxiety. For example, a person who has a phobia of bugs, germs, or skin mites might excessively wash their hands until they bleed. The person suffering from OCD would be distressed that they are washing their hands compulsively to the point of causing themselves pain and/or bleeding. However, their phobia of germs would cause them to continue the behavior that is not socially acceptable by their peers because their fear of germs outweighs their concern for their social image or their own comfort.
Conversely, OCPD is a lifestyle. The person does not realize that they have the rigidity of OCPD. The person is unhappy, and the people around them are unhappy, but they cannot pinpoint why they are unhappy. OCPD is a personality disorder in that the disorder is deeply engrained within the person’s personality.
A person can have OCPD from many different things:
- Born with OCPD
- Acquires OCPD from parents, coaches, mentors, teachers, bosses
- Learns OCPD to cope with their fear of failure
- Acquires OCPD as a result of experiencing sustained feelings of helplessness (PTSD-related)
- Acquires OCPD through their culture
- Joins an organization that instills OCPD in them
- Suffers an illness or head injury that triggers OCPD
- Acquires OCPD from being with a partner, family member, housemate with OCPD
- Suffers OCPD as a result of brain damage or learning disabilities
- Suffers OCPD from excitotoxicity of the brain (similar to brain damage)
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