
Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder
Treating Your Unrecognized Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder
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Have you ever wondered why:
- You have difficulty maintaining close, intimate, fulfilling relationships?
- You easily get angry at other people and blame them for how you feel?
- You tend to overreact to inconveniences and injustices?
- You often feel alone?
- You tend to avoid people?
- You sometimes use alcohol or drugs to "take the edge off" the tension you feel?
- You have a strong need to be "right" and win arguments or discussions?
- You have a temper?
- You are often mystified by the behavior of other people?
- You often have difficulty understanding why you feel as you do?
- People around you - spouse, lover, children, coworkers - seem to avoid you?
- Your reactions to situations seem out of proportion to the event itself?
- You use your intellect, physical appearance, wit, and money to get attention?
- You often feel hurt by what other people do to you? Or by what they fail to do for you?
- People around you seem intimidated or irritated when you interact with them?
If you are like roughly 98 percent of us, your answer to two or more of these questions is "Yes", and you're confused about exactly why these conditions exist in your life. Anger, frustration, and loneliness are the most destructive diseases on the planet - by far - and we are not adequately addressing their causes and solutions.
Finally, in Real Love and Post-Childhood Stress Disorder, we can learn about why we're angry and lonely, along with the real reasons we have relationship problems, and we can learn to actually eliminate these conditions.
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Critic reviews
"Dr. Greg Baer gave me what I'd been missing in 25 years as a therapist. He explained the powerful and lasting effects of childhood wounds, and now I give every client and couple who comes into my office a copy of one of his books. You do not want to miss out on these principles that will transform your life no matter what happened in your past." (Liz Hale PhD)
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- TB
- 08-13-20
Life Transforming
I've read many books to learn how to achieve one thing or another, but never understood why I prevented myself from moving forward. This book taught me how I didn't love myself enough to succeed, and how I didn't love others enough to draw in the necessary support.
It is read by the author in an easy-going story teller approach from many case studies. This helps to cement the concepts in your mind so that you can share the stories with others that need the same unconditional love that we all crave.
Everyone, and I truly mean EVERYONE needs to read this book!
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- Anonymous User
- 02-27-24
Best of the best
This book makes most other self help books irrelevant. This book has the answers and solutions that just can't be found elsewhere.
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- Dinkau
- 03-04-20
Such an important and awesome book!
This book is life-changing. It is full of truth and wisdom that will change your perceptions,
your relationships and your life!
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- Tina M. Aguilar, CMT
- 12-31-20
Very eye opening! 🙂
Most insightful! Learned quite a bit about the "why" of what we do and tools to start to make changes.
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- Anonymous User
- 01-08-23
What a revelation!
This book is super helpful and full of practical advice for what we all need and need to understand... Real love.
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- Amazon Customer
- 05-24-19
RELEIVED .... There is NOTHING wrong with me!
If I could click 10 starts, I would!
I've now followed and implemented the Real Love principles for 5 years. Listening to Real Love and PCSD helped me understand more clearly the root of my wounds, and the healing power of unconditional love.
Everyone of us need to read it to create at last peace within, peace in our families and peace on Earth. It's actually a fun journey!
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- Juliana daley
- 12-03-23
Amazing book!!!
I learned so much about real love and how we all need it! This book has opened my eyes to a lot of needed change. Thank you Greg Baer!!!
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- Ryan
- 09-16-20
Game Changing
This is the fourth book in the Real Love series I have been through and I think the most impactful. I have always believed we all bring some damage out of childhood if from nothing more than children's inability to correctly interpret the world around them. This book applies to us all. Whether you feel you have trauma to overcome or look to be on the healing end of someone else's this is what you want to hear.
Narrated by the author, he gives you insight as he emphasizes the parts he feels important. There is so much thinking to be done as he narrates that his performance isn't as important. He's a good storyteller, and there are stories, but he's not magical. It's a great listen from the information side and not performance. He delivers the information earnestly and it is captivating.
This book is life-changing if you let it.
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- Maria P.
- 07-23-20
LEARN -- WE ALL HAVE IT!! AND NEED REAL LOVE
We Must all become aware of the principles of REAL LOVE and recognize when we AND others are suffering from Post Traumatic Stress-Disorder. or Post CHILDHOOD Traumatic Stress-Disorder- come to learn, we all suffer from it to some degree!! My wish is that the awareness, the principles, and self discipline needed to exercise RealLove (unconditional Love) become world knowledge. I am grateful for this awareness. I share it forward!
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- Judy LeGrand
- 08-09-22
Eye Opening
Reading/listening to this plus using my healing techniques to eliminate the triggers is life changing! Thank you so much!!! 💚
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