Redeeming Heartache
How Past Suffering Reveals Our True Calling
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Candace Kirkpatrick
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Bill Russell
About this listen
Find freedom and healing from painful memories and relational struggles and learn how your past has uniquely prepared you to experience more joy.
Tragedy and pain inevitably touch our lives in some way. We long to feel whole, but more often than not, the way we've learned to deal with our wounds pushes us away from the very restoration we need most. Renowned psychologist Dr. Dan Allender and counselor and teacher Cathy Loerzel present a life-changing process of true connection and healing with ourselves, God, and others.
With a clear, biblically trustworthy method, Allender and Loerzel walk you through a journey of profound inner transformation - from the shame and hurt of old emotional wounds to true freedom and healing. Drawn from modern research and their pioneering work at the Allender Center, they will help you identify your core trauma in one of the three outcast archetypes - the widow, orphan, or stranger - and chart your path of growth into the God-given roles of priest, prophet, or leader. This book will help you learn:
- What to do about feeling out-of-place and directionless
- How your coping mechanisms create a false sense of health
- How to embrace your divine calling and find lasting reconciliation
- How your heart wounds are your unique invitation to true strength and purpose
Your past pain does not dictate your life. Answer the call to healing and discover your life's beautiful story and a future of hope and freedom.
Application questions are available in the audiobook companion PDF download.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2021 Dan B. Allender, PLLC and Cathy Loerzel (P)2021 ZondervanRelated to this topic
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Dan Allender's lyrical book about the Sabbath expels the myriad myths about this "day of rest," starting with the one that paints the Sabbath as a day of forced quiet, spiritual exercises, and religious devotion and attendance. This, he says, is at odds with the ancient tradition of Sabbath as a day of delight for both body and soul. Instead, the only way we can make use of the Sabbath is to see God's original intent for the day with new eyes. In Sabbath, Allender builds a case for delight by looking at this day as a festival that celebrates God's re-creative, redemptive love.
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JOY!
- By Kim on 02-13-23
By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, and others
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The Connected Life
- The Art and Science of Relational Spirituality
- By: Todd W. Hall, Curt Thompson - foreword
- Narrated by: Timothy Andrés Pabon
- Length: 6 hrs and 55 mins
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The pandemic has only exacerbated what was already a startling trend: loneliness and disconnection have been on the rise for a long time in our society. We long for a deep sense of meaning to make sense of our lives, but we don't know how to find it. Even worse, we often search for it in unhealthy ways that hinder the very thing we're desperate for: genuine relational connection.
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Our Early Attachments Affect Our Relationships
- By Elias Rademacher on 12-29-22
By: Todd W. Hall, and others
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The Deepest Place
- Suffering and the Formation of Hope
- By: Curt Thompson MD
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 6 hrs and 57 mins
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A unique and intimate exploration of how suffering, spiritual formation, and interpersonal neurobiology intersect, The Deepest Place by award-winning author Curt Thompson shows us how it's not through the absence of grief but in the presence of it that we discover the joy of vulnerable community and a deeper sense of God's abundant love.
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Reader needs interest and personality
- By Amazon Customer on 09-13-23
By: Curt Thompson MD
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The Soul of Desire
- Discovering the Neuroscience of Longing, Beauty, and Community
- By: Curt Thompson MD, Makoto Fujimura - foreword
- Narrated by: Kyle Tait
- Length: 9 hrs and 34 mins
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In The Soul of Desire, psychiatrist Curt Thompson suggests that underneath all our longings is the desire to be known - and what's more, that this fundamental yearning manifests itself in our deep need to make things of beauty, revealing who we are to others. Weaving together neuroscience and spiritual formation to open up new horizons for thinking not only about the nature of the mind but about what it means to be human, The Soul of Desire is a mature, creative work.
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Beautiful work
- By Phoebe Barron on 04-07-22
By: Curt Thompson MD, and others
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God Loves Sex
- An Honest Conversation About Sexual Desire and Holiness
- By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, Tremper Longman III
- Narrated by: Mike Carnes
- Length: 6 hrs and 1 min
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God Loves Sex offers a truly liberating, godly view of holy sensuality by recovering the clear meaning of the Song of Songs as God-sanctioned eroticism. Then it uses that lens to answer questions posed by a fictional new Christian struggling with expectations of sexual purity. It asks provocative questions, such as What does it mean to be both holy and filled with rich sexual desire? and How can our sexual struggles take us deeper into the purposes of God?
By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, and others
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The Soul of Shame
- Retelling the Stories We Believe About Ourselves
- By: Curt Thompson
- Narrated by: Jim Seybert
- Length: 8 hrs and 2 mins
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We're all infected with a spiritual disease. Its name is shame. Whether we realize it or not, shame affects every aspect of our personal lives and vocational endeavors. It seeks to destroy our identity in Christ, replacing it with a damaged version of ourselves that results in unhealed pain and brokenness. But God is telling a different story for your life. Psychiatrist Curt Thompson unpacks the soul of shame, revealing its ubiquitous nature and neurobiological roots. He also provides the theological and practical tools necessary to dismantle shame.
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Best book I’ve read in years
- By Webb on 02-24-19
By: Curt Thompson
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Breathe In, Breathe Out
- Restore Your Health, Reset Your Mind and Find Happiness Through Breathwork
- By: Stuart Sandeman
- Narrated by: Stuart Sandeman
- Length: 11 hrs and 39 mins
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In Breathe In, Breathe Out, breath work expert Stuart Sandeman reveals the hidden power of breathing, and how by changing the way you breathe, you can transform the way you think and feel. Since tragic loss brought him to breath work, Stuart has changed the lives of thousands through his signature sessions. Now he wants the same for you.
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Missing pdf
- By devin on 01-12-23
By: Stuart Sandeman
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A Grace Disguised Revised and Expanded
- How the Soul Grows Through Loss
- By: Jerry L. Sittser
- Narrated by: Tom Parks
- Length: 7 hrs and 22 mins
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With vulnerability and honesty, Jerry Sittser walks through his own grief and loss to show that new life is possible - one marked by spiritual depth, joy, compassion, and a deeper appreciation of simple and ordinary gifts. This 25th anniversary edition features a new introduction and two additional chapters, one which provides help for pastors and counselors.
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Speaks to My Heart
- By Reader on 04-23-22
By: Jerry L. Sittser
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Anatomy of the Soul
- Surprising Connections Between Neuroscience and Spiritual Practices That Can Transform Your Life and Relationships
- By: Curt Thompson MD
- Narrated by: Sean Pratt
- Length: 12 hrs and 16 mins
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Do you want to improve your relationships and experience lasting personal change? Join Curt Thompson, MD, on an amazing journey to discover the surprising pathways for transformation hidden inside your own mind. Integrating new findings in neuroscience and attachment with Christian spirituality, Dr. Thompson reveals how it is possible to rewire your mind, altering your brain patterns and literally making you more like the person God intended you to be.
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Neuroscience and psychology and the spiritual life
- By Adam Shields on 05-30-18
By: Curt Thompson MD
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Finding Quiet
- My Story of Overcoming Anxiety and the Practices That Brought Peace
- By: J. P. Moreland
- Narrated by: Maurice England
- Length: 4 hrs and 36 mins
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In May 2003 prominent philosopher, author, and professor J. P. Moreland awoke in the middle of the night to a severe panic attack. Though often anxious by temperament and upbringing, Moreland had never experienced such an incident before. Thus began an extended battle with debilitating anxiety and depression. More than a decade later, Moreland continues to manage mental illness. Yet along the way he's moved from shame and despair to vulnerability and hope. In Finding Quiet Moreland comes alongside fellow sufferers with encouragement and practical, hard-won advice.
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Best Book on Anxiety I’ve read!
- By Kindle Customer on 05-19-21
By: J. P. Moreland
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Grace Revealed
- How God Redeems the Story of Your Life
- By: Jerry Sittser
- Narrated by: Maurice England
- Length: 7 hrs and 36 mins
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Twenty years ago, Jerry Sittser lost his daughter, wife, and mother in a car accident. He chronicled that tragic experience in A Grace Disguised, a book that has become a classic on the topic of grief and loss.
Now he asks: How do we live meaningfully, even fruitfully, in this world and at the same time long for heaven? How do we respond to the paradox of being a new creature in Christ even though we don’t always feel or act like one? How can we trust God is involved in our story when our circumstances seem to say he isn’t?
By: Jerry Sittser
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The Deep-Rooted Marriage
- Cultivating Intimacy, Healing, and Delight
- By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, Dr. Steve Call
- Narrated by: Dan Allender, Steve Call, Becky Allender, and others
- Length: 8 hrs and 20 mins
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With more than seventy years of therapeutic experience combined, Dan Allender and Steve Call demonstrate how God is inviting you and your partner to a wild faith journey with the hope of transformation. With personal stories, key psychological insights, and practical advice, The Deep-Rooted Marriage will help you.
By: Dr. Dan B. Allender, and others
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- Laura Aydelott
- 02-03-23
Lots to Learn
Had a lot of examples to help understand the guides being presented and the couple did a great job of sharing and helping us to understand those principles given!
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- Lisa Brown Sarver
- 12-22-23
Life-changing!
This is my first listen but third time through Dan and Cathy's profound work. I highly recommend it to all who are willing to engage their family of origin story in order to look ahead towards redemption and calling.
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- Leslie Golden
- 09-07-24
Totally new way of understanding some of our universal traumas, with a beautiful way to heal them
We have all experienced certain traumas just by living life- the abandonment of the orphan, the exclusion of the stranger, and the loss and isolation of the grieving widow/er. The answer lies in receiving solace in God, as nurturing priest to our orphaned souls; as courageous prophet proclaiming the truth of our belonging; and in all-powerful king in providing us with every need. As God helps us, we can then learn to see and help the orphans, the strangers, and the widow/ers among us.
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- SparkleLynn
- 04-25-22
loved it
I strongly connected to the content and will be recommending it to others to see their orphan stranger and widow and understanding how through God they lead into the kind of Priest, Prophet, King or Queen God is calling us into
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- MrsBfromWA
- 04-26-23
A very transformative Journey
This was suggested to me by my husband. He has a friend at work that is reading this. I picked it up to see why he thought it would be good for both of us. Let me tell you, I was not expecting the way this book opened up the old wounds and helped me realize why they were still being deployed for protection? Odd how we carry things for years and never really realize why. It was not comfortable to poke old wounds, but it relieved me from letting them control me anymore. It was very helpful for our marriage.
One criticism I have is that the chapters are mislabeled. The player is telling me it is Chapter 6, when in fact it is chapter 5 and so on.
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- Amazon Customer
- 07-27-22
incredible listen
This is a book you WILL want to listen to more than once‼️ It's incredible!
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- S
- 09-02-23
Great insight and understanding
I really enjoyed this book. Especially at a time in my life when it’s almost impossible to understand why myself and loved ones are struggling and how can I/we address it.
I will be looking into the Allender Center website.
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- April M Smith
- 03-13-23
Definitely rereading
I am definitely re-reading this with a notebook and pencil in hand, taking notes and wanting to share with a friend to do it together. Thank you for writing this book and making it audible for my drive to work and home.
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- Amanda Troelsen
- 10-27-22
Great book. Technical glitches.
Fantastic book. Good use of story telling.
Big technical glitch: Titles displayed do not match the section audio.
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- Cami
- 09-18-21
Listened in one day
I purchased the audio version this amazing book and now want to buy the hand copy to go through it at a slow pace to really take in the beauty and thoughtfulness of the authors thoughts and words. I agreed with much and have questioned several things to want to sit with the authors and ask more questions.
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