
Single, Gay, Christian
A Personal Journey of Faith and Sexual Identity
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Let's make a deal, you and me. Let's make promises to each other. I promise to tell you my story. The whole story. I'll tell you about a boy in love with Jesus, who, at the fateful onset of puberty, realized his sexual attractions were persistently and exclusively for other guys. I'll tell you how I lay on my bed in the middle of the night and whispered to myself the words I've whispered 1000 times since: "I'm gay." I'll show you the world through my eyes.
I'll tell you what it's like to belong nowhere. To know that much of my Christian family will forever consider me unnatural, dangerous, because of something that feels as involuntary as my eye color. And to know that much of the LGBTQ community that shares my experience as a sexual minority will disagree with the way I've chosen to interpret the call of Jesus, believing I've bought into a tragic, archaic ritual of self-hatred.
But I promise my story won't all be sadness and loneliness and struggle. I'll tell you good things, too, hopeful things, funny things, like the time I accidentally came out to my best friend during his bachelor party. I'll tell you what it felt like the first time someone looked me in the eyes and said, "You are not a mistake." I'll tell you that joy and sorrow are not opposites, that my life has never been more beautiful than when it was most brokenhearted.
If you'll listen, I promise I'll tell you everything, and you can decide for yourself what you want to believe about me.
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- Judith
- 09-14-23
Beautiful
I’m thankful to the author for having the courage to share his story. Beautiful, thoughtful, and inspiring.
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- Hannah Mann
- 08-30-22
A must read!
I listened to this book because I became acquainted with Greg Coles and figured that if he was such a wonderful human, maybe his book would be wonderful, too. I didn't listen to this because the topic was one I particularly felt the need to study personally, though I do have a couple people in my life who are walking a similar road to Greg. What surprised me is that, despite the enormous differences in my life and in my personal struggles, this book has been an amazing encouragement to me as I walk through my own season of darkness and wrestling with my faith.
This book is of course incredibly helpful in every way if you want to better understand at least one person's experience as a gay Christian. But it's also valuable simply as an encouragement to believers to never stop seeking truth, to keep eyes fixed on Jesus even when faith is costly, and to remain expectant that God's way is always best.
I highly recommend this, both as a resource on the topic of sexuality, but also simply as a resource on the topic of faith. Greg is raw and relatable and funny, and the book never lost my attention from start to finish.
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- Mario
- 01-26-22
Must read
This book is a primer for understanding the struggle that Christians who profess to hold to biblical norms of sexual behavior struggle with being gay. Greg is a master of telling his own story without being judgmental or compromising of the faith. Anyone who wants to support someone in the gay community with the potential of leading them to a deeper walk with Christ needs to read this book.
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- Kindle Customer
- 08-23-24
Profound and Enlightening with a unique blend of humor!
A brave story that I could relate to... Really found encouragement to know that there's more people who loves Jesus, but who are gay and trying to find our place in life (although each with their own unique story). I loved how the author's humor brought such burst of laughter in the seriousness of the moment as he explained his experience. The author addresses so many complicated matters regarding gay and Christian in a profound, yet simple way. The audience is not just for gay Christians.
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- Stephen
- 01-22-18
entertaining yet challenging story
kept me on the edge of my seat. great for a Christian unfamiliar with the struggles of gay Christians. yes, Cole is a great model of what it means to be gay AND Christian.
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- Andy Stager
- 10-01-19
Stands apart from the rest of the genre
Unflinchingly honest. Sincerely Christian. Very funny. Inspiring and emboldening. Easy to recommend to anyone at all.
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- Cody Mudrack
- 05-09-22
View changing
I've been on the fence for a while about where I stand, as a Christian, with the issue of homosexuality. I'm disgusted with the way the church has treated homosexuals and I think the church has done great harm to the LGBTQ community, and this the community at large.
Even so, I've wrestled with whether or not it's a sin for a while now. this book has helped me clarify my views and has given me a lot to think about
I definitely recommend all Christians read this book.
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- Jacqueline Shrewsbury
- 07-02-22
Incredible Author
This book illustrates bravery, honesty, and a strong passion for God. Extraordinary message, and I loved it.
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- Joe
- 07-09-22
Great!
Great book that breeds empathy and perspective! Recommend to anyone interested in the topic
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- Debbie
- 08-03-22
Best book I’ve read this year!
Such great insight into a gay Christian man’s thoughts. But more than just that. It is thought provoking and life affirming and leaves me with a greater desire to truly exercise unconditional love to all people as Christ calls us to.
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