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Mike Cooper
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Richard Templar
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A personal code for getting the best from everyone.
We all know someone who is a natural "people person." They seem to understand what people really want, what they really think and what they really mean. They can effortlessly get people onside, and keep them happy and motivated.
Is there something they know that the rest of us don't? Is it something we can all learn? The answer is a resounding yes. They know The Rules of People.
These Rules are the guiding principles that show you how to connect with strangers, build strong relationships with friends and colleagues, and even get the best out of difficult people. They will help you say the right thing, do the right thing, and know instinctively how to handle every situation. You'll have relaxed, easy relationships, and you'll be that person who gets on with everyone.
This edition includes a new bonus section, 10 Rules for Socializing, to help you enjoy a relaxed social life by doing it in ways that suit you.
You can be that natural "people person" that everyone else aspires to be.
©2017, 2022 Richard Templar (P)2023 Ascent AudioListeners also enjoyed...
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- Anonymous User
- 01-03-24
Expected more
Expected the same level as “The rules for work”. The rules for work really gave tips and secrets that revealed the unspoken rules at one’s workplace.
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- CLJ
- 08-09-24
Effective and efficient advice given.
Worth the listening time and worth the purchase. I am satisfied with both Author and Narrator.
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