• 3 Essential Boundaries to Empower you in a Narcissistic Relationship

  • Mar 6 2025
  • Length: 12 mins
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3 Essential Boundaries to Empower you in a Narcissistic Relationship

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  • 3 Essential Boundaries to Empower You in a Narcissistic Relationship Key Takeaways: Boundaries are essential – Boundaries protect your energy, emotions, and peace. Without them, you might feel drained and controlled. What happens when you set boundaries with a narcissist – Narcissists push, test, and ignore boundaries, but you must set them anyway. 3 essential boundaries to set with a narcissist – Learn how to care without carrying their burden, stop over-explaining, and protect your time. What to do when boundaries backfire – Expect pushback, guilt trips, and blame, but don’t give in. The S.T.O.P. formula – Is a simple way to remember how to set and stick to your boundaries. Why Boundaries Matter Boundaries help you feel safe, respected, and in control of your own life.Without boundaries, narcissists may take advantage of your kindness and push you into doing things you don’t want to do.Setting boundaries isn’t about being mean—it’s about protecting yourself. 3 Boundaries You MUST Set with a Narcissist Care Without Carrying Their Burden Problem: Narcissists try to make you responsible for their emotions. Solution: Say, “I care about you, but I’m not responsible for your feelings.” You don’t have to fix their problems or feel guilty for saying no. Stop Defending Yourself – Your Boundaries Matter Problem: They might question or challenge your boundary. Solution: Keep it short—“I’m not available for that.” or “No.” You don’t need to explain yourself. The more you explain, the more a narcissist tries to break your boundary. Set Time Limits – Protect Your Energy Problem: They demand too much of your time and attention. Solution: “I’m only available to talk on [your terms].” If they ignore your limit, repeat it and reduce contact if needed. What to Expect When Setting Boundaries Pushback will happen! Here’s how narcissists react and what to do: They try to guilt you. Example: “I guess you don’t care about me anymore.” What to do: Stay firm. Recognize guilt as manipulation and don’t fall for it. They twist the story and blame you. Example: “You’re the problem! You’re making things difficult!” What to do: Don’t argue. Repeat your boundary and walk away. Narcissists ignore your boundary completely. Example: They keep calling or showing up unannounced. What to do: Enforce it again. If the narcissist continues, limit contact even more. S.T.O.P. – The Simple Way to Remember Boundaries S – Set Your Boundaries Clearly (No over-explaining)T – Take Back Your Time (Limit access, protect your energy) O – Own Your Decisions (Stand firm when they push back)P – Prepare for Pushback (Expect guilt, blame, or anger but don’t engage) Next time someone tests your boundaries, S.T.O.P. and hold your ground! 💪 Your Turn! 📢 What’s one boundary you need to set this week? Let me know in the comments! 🚪✨🎁 Free Resource: Want extra help? Download my 7-Day Setting Boundaries Challenge! Click 7-Day Challenge to get instant access! 🎧 Listen & Subscribe: Don’t miss future episodes! Subscribe to the podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or YouTube! 💜 Let’s Connect! Lessons for Life With Gramma Kate Follow me on:📌 Instagram: 📌 Facebook: 📌 Website: Children’s Books: Finding Lily’s Inner Magic: A Tale of Building Confidence Lily’s Journey to Forgiveness: Letting Go of Hurt and Anger Finding Jack’s Magic Within: A Lesson About Kindness Consistency is Key: Self-Care Tips with Lily & Zach DISCLAIMER The Lessons For Life With Gramma Kate Podcast and content posted by Cathy Barker are presented solely for general information, educational, and entertainment purposes. The use of information on this podcast or materials linked from this podcast or website is at the user’s own risk. It is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist, or other qualified professional, diagnosis, or treatment. Users should not disregard or delay in obtaining medical advice for any medical or mental health condition they may have. They should seek the assistance of their healthcare professional for any such conditions.
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