• Why You and Your Partner Can’t Stop Fighting (and How to Stop the Cycle)
    Dec 20 2024

    Tired of endless arguments in your marriage? In today's episode, I break down 4 common communication mistakes I’ve seen couples make in my 25+ years as a marriage coach—and share real, actionable tips to fix each one. Listen now and start turning conflict into connection!

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    Learn more about my "Becoming One" weekly coaching program here:

    https://www.matttownsend.com/becomingonesm

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    17 mins
  • 5 Steps to a Happier Holiday Season
    Dec 12 2024

    For many of us, the holiday season brings a whirlwind of unmet expectations, family drama, financial strain, and burnout. But it doesn’t have to be that way!

    In this episode, we’ll explore five practical steps to help you create an enjoyable, stress-free season. You’ll learn how to:

    • Set realistic expectations to avoid disappointment and conflict.
    • Focus on what truly matters—like love, connection, and joy.
    • Reframe past challenges and rewrite your holiday story.
    • Handle negativity with grace using simple yet powerful techniques.
    • Prioritize your basic needs to stay happy, healthy, and present.

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    Learn more about my "Becoming One" weekly coaching program here:

    https://www.matttownsend.com/becomingonesm

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    39 mins
  • 3 Keys to Resolve Marriage Conflict Fast
    Dec 4 2024

    Are conflicts creating distance in your marriage? In this episode, we dive into 3 Principles to Resolve Marriage Conflict Fast. Whether you're dealing with recurring arguments or an unexpected blow-up, these principles will help you elevate your ability to "dance" with conflict. Learn how to defuse tension, communicate effectively, and rebuild connection—without letting conflict linger or escalate. Tune in for actionable insights that can transform the way you and your partner handle challenges, bringing you one step closer to Becoming One.

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    Learn more about my "Becoming One" coaching program here:

    https://www.matttownsend.com/becomingonesm

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    38 mins
  • These 4 Simple Questions Transform Relationships
    Oct 3 2024

    In today's episode, Matt discusses 4 questions we should ask ourselves, to make sure we're bringing our very best self to our most important relationships.

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    Learn more about my "Becoming One" program here:

    https://www.matttownsend.com/becomingonesm

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    34 mins
  • 5 Beliefs That Are Killing Your Relationship
    Sep 16 2024

    In this episode, I share 5 beliefs that are killing your relationship, that I've gathered from 25 years of coaching thousands of couples.

    Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/Dh_Jtp1anXQ

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    Learn more about my "Becoming One" program here:

    https://www.coachwithmatt.com/becomingonesm

    Find my book: STARVED Stuff: Feeding the 7 Basic Needs of Healthy Relationships

    https://www.amazon.com/Starved-Stuff-Feeding-Healthy-Relationships/dp/0615351700

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    30 mins
  • My #1 Piece of Marriage Advice For Every Stage
    Sep 4 2024

    In this episode of "The Becoming One Podcast", I share my best piece of advice for every stage of marriage, that I've gathered from 25 years of coaching thousands of couples.

    Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/qEMGFPPLWKQ

    Learn more about my "Becoming One" program here: https://www.coachwithmatt.com/becomingonesm

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    40 mins