• Ep 2 - Gay Fathers, Gay Dads, Gay Parents - Sharing our coming out journey Complexity & Intimacy
    Jan 14 2025

    In this episode, Brian and John discuss the challenges faced by gay men during the holidays, the complexities of intimacy beyond sexual encounters, and the importance of caution in online dating. They delve into the dangers of sharing personal information on dating apps, explore new social media platforms like Blue Sky, and reflect on the impact of political climates on mental health within the LGBTQ community. The conversation also touches on feelings of loneliness, the struggles of coming out, and the rejection faced by individuals from their religious communities. Finally, they highlight resources available for the LGBTQ community, including a new transgender suicide hotline - (877) 565-8860

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, gay parent, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey.

    Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #gayparent #comingout #project369 #realestate #realtor

    Keywords: gay community, online dating, coming out, LGBTQ loneliness, gay parent

    Takeaways: Intimacy can be expressed in many forms beyond sex. Online dating apps can be risky; caution is essential. Sharing personal information can lead to dangerous situations. New social media platforms may not be what they seem. Political climates can significantly impact mental health in the LGBTQ community. Loneliness is a common feeling among those in the LGBTQ community. Coming out can lead to rejection from religious organizations. It's important to seek acceptance in more inclusive spaces. Resources like suicide hotlines are crucial for support. Manifesting positivity can help combat feelings of loneliness.

    Show more Show less
    41 mins
  • Kicking Off Season Two: Gay Father, Gay Parent, Gay Men - A New Beginning. Coming Out of the Closet
    Jan 7 2025

    In this episode, Brian and John kick off Season Two of their podcast with reflections on their journey, family interactions during the holidays, and the importance of coming out conversations. They discuss personal growth, navigating relationships, and the exploration of polyamory. The episode culminates in a humorous recounting of a 'Naked Game Night' experience, emphasizing themes of self-acceptance and openness. Transgender Suicide Hotline (877) 565-8860

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #project369 #realestate #realtor #funny #nudist

    Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, relationships, family, holidays, polyamory, self-love, podcast, gay men, personal growth

    Takeaways This was a miniature vacation. We served each other our divorce papers. I think that is so good. We are a vessel for that. You navigate it the way you want. I want to be an open book. I was naked in front of a group of people. I think it's a one and done. I love that song. I kept covering myself with my napkin.

    Show more Show less
    39 mins
  • Ep. #35 - Gay Fathers, Reflections on 2024. Navigating the Journey of Gay Self-Acceptance
    Dec 31 2024

    In this final episode of 2024, hosts John Duerler and Brian Janes reflect on their podcasting journey, discuss personal growth and New Year's resolutions, and navigate the complexities of coming out and relationships. They share insights on loss, acceptance, and the importance of authenticity while also addressing the challenges faced by LGBTQ individuals. The conversation emphasizes the significance of self-kindness, connection, and the power of positive thinking. Agapelive.com / 369project.com

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads.

    Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #agapelive #agape #project369 #happynewyear

    Keywords: podcast, LGBTQ, coming out, personal growth, New Year's resolutions, spirituality, relationships, self-acceptance, gay men, mental health, project369

    Takeaways: This is our final episode of 2024. We have had 36 episodes and 21,000 downloads. New Year's resolutions can focus on self-kindness and awareness. Coming out can lead to feelings of loss and change. It's important to adapt to new family dynamics after coming out. Married men often seek connections outside their marriages. Karma plays a role in relationships with married individuals. Seeking genuine connections is more fulfilling than casual hookups. Books on personal development can provide valuable insights. Authenticity is crucial for mental health and well-being.

    Show more Show less
    42 mins
  • Ep. #34 - Gay Fathers - Christmas Reflections. Coming Out Stories and Listener Support
    Dec 24 2024

    In this engaging conversation, Brian and John reflect on their favorite Christmas memories, share personal stories about coming out and navigating relationships, and discuss their experiences in the real estate market. They also address listener letters, offer support for friends going through transitions, and announce their participation in a charity podcast. The episode concludes with heartfelt holiday wishes and encouragement for listeners to reach out to loved ones during the festive season. HOW-support.org

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads.

    Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout #gaychristmas #christmas #support #realtor #realestate

    Keywords: Christmas, memories, real estate, coming out, support, charity, relationships, community, podcast, LGBTQ

    Takeaways: Christmas memories evoke feelings of nostalgia and joy. Coming out can happen organically in social settings. Support from friends is crucial during transitions. Real estate can be a challenging yet rewarding field. Community engagement through charity is important. Personal stories can resonate deeply with listeners. It's essential to maintain boundaries in relationships. Being wanted can boost confidence and self-esteem. Open relationships are common but not for everyone. The holiday season can be tough; reaching out is vital.

    Show more Show less
    42 mins
  • Ep. #33 - Gay Fathers, Finding Light in the Darkness: A Journey of Self-Discovery LGBTQ +
    Dec 17 2024

    In this episode, Brian and John discuss various themes surrounding the LGBTQ+ community, including the importance of support and connection, the power of affirmations, personal struggles in real estate, and the significance of intimacy in relationships. They also touch on mental health, particularly during the holiday season, and the journey of emerging from dark times to find purpose and empathy for others.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey.

    Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords: LGBTQ+, community support, affirmations, personal growth, intimacy, mental health, real estate, loneliness, holiday spirit, empowerment

    Takeaways: Community support is vital for LGBTQ+ individuals. Affirmations can help combat negative thoughts. Personal growth often comes from struggles. Intimacy is essential in relationships, not just physical connection. Emerging from dark times can lead to personal transformation. Empathy for others can stem from our own struggles. It's important to manage finances and know your numbers. Loneliness can affect anyone, especially during the holidays. Finding purpose can come from sharing experiences with others. We can help each other through shared stories and support.

    Show more Show less
    42 mins
  • Ep.#32 -Gay Fathers; Thanksgiving Reflection: Acceptance, Family Dynamic, Embracing Change & Freedom
    Dec 10 2024

    In this conversation, Brian and John reflect on their Thanksgiving experiences, discussing themes of family acceptance, the journey of coming out, and the complexities of relationships. They share personal anecdotes about their families, the challenges of maintaining friendships post-coming out, and the importance of self-acceptance. The discussion also touches on the dynamics of community, sexuality, and the evolving nature of relationships as they navigate their identities.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey.

    Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity! Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords - Thanksgiving, family, acceptance, coming out, relationships, self-acceptance, community, sexuality, identity, friendship

    Takeaways: Thanksgiving can be a time of acceptance and freedom. Family dynamics can change positively with acceptance. Coming out is a continuous journey that affects relationships. Friendships may be tested after coming out, but they can also strengthen. Self-acceptance is crucial for personal growth and happiness. Community support is vital for LGBTQ+ individuals. Navigating sexuality can be complex and multifaceted. Relationships evolve as individuals embrace their true selves. It's important to allow others time to process changes in relationships. The journey of coming out is unique for everyone and requires patience.

    Show more Show less
    41 mins
  • Ep. #31 - Gay Fathers - Coming Out: A Journey of Healing. Breaking Myths: The Truth About Being Gay
    Dec 3 2024

    In this episode, Brian and John engage in a candid conversation about their experiences as gay men, touching on themes of personal trauma, the importance of coming out, and the misconceptions surrounding the LGBTQ community. They share personal stories of abuse and healing, discuss generational differences in attitudes towards sexuality, and debunk common myths about being gay. The conversation also highlights the significance of representation in sports and media, and the use of humor as a coping mechanism. The episode concludes with trivia and light-hearted banter, emphasizing the importance of community and support.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave. Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers. In each episode,

    Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads.

    Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords: LGBTQ, coming out, personal stories, healing, myths, representation, sports, humor, sexuality, generational perspectives

    Takeaways: Personal stories of trauma can help others feel less alone. Coming out can be a freeing experience for many individuals. There are many myths about being gay that need to be addressed. Representation in sports and media is crucial for LGBTQ visibility. Humor can be an effective coping mechanism for dealing with trauma. Engaging in open conversations about sexuality can normalize it for others. The importance of community support for those coming out. Trivia can be a fun way to engage with LGBTQ culture.

    Show more Show less
    34 mins
  • Ep. #30 - Gay Father, Gay Parent, Gay Men - A New Beginning. Coming Out of the Closet. LGBTQ
    Nov 26 2024

    In this engaging conversation, Brian and John explore various themes surrounding family dynamics, acceptance, and personal growth within the LGBTQ community. They share personal stories about their relationships with their children, the importance of self-expression, and the challenges of navigating divorce. The discussion also touches on health and safety in sexual encounters, community engagement, and the significance of compassion during the holiday season. Through humor and heartfelt reflections, they emphasize the importance of love, acceptance, and understanding in all aspects of life.

    Coming Inside OUT is a safe space where listeners can find solidarity, inspiration, and the courage to embrace their true selves. Whether you're a gay father, a person exploring your identity, or an ally seeking to understand the experiences of the LGBTQ community, this podcast is for you. Tune in for heartfelt conversations, insightful advice, and the sense of belonging that we all crave.

    Join your hosts, Brian and John, as they candidly share their own journeys out of the closet while navigating the joys and challenges of parenthood as openly gay fathers.

    In each episode, Brian and John connect with fellow gay dads, sharing their inspiring stories, victories, and struggles. They delve into the complexities of grappling with sexuality, discussing their experiences as teens, husbands, and dads. Together, they aim to foster a supportive community for those still in the closet, reassuring them that they are not alone in their journey. Join us on this journey of love, acceptance, and authenticity!

    MOVEMBER donations links: How do I donate? 1. Copy the link for your preferred currency 2. Choose the amount you want to donate 3. Select the black “Donate to Team” button 4. Follow the instructions and pay; you can request a receipt (and maybe claim a tax deduction if allowed in your country). Links below:

    Australian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-australia?mc=1 US Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-usa?mc=1

    Canadian Dollars. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-canada?mc=1 European Euros. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-europe?mc=1

    UK Pounds. Link here: https://movember.com/t/gay-fathers-worldwide-uk?mc=1

    Contact us at cominginsideout@gmail.com

    #gay #lgbtqpodcast #lgbtq #pride #pride2024 #palmsprings #gaymen #loveislove #gayfathers #gaydad #comingout

    Keywords: LGBTQ, family, acceptance, relationships, health, divorce, community, spirituality, holidays, personal growth

    Takeaways: Family connections are vital for emotional well-being. Acceptance of one's identity is crucial for happiness. Quality time with loved ones can heal past wounds. Community involvement enriches personal growth. Health and safety in sexual encounters should be prioritized. Divorce can lead to personal growth and new beginnings. Spirituality can provide comfort and guidance during tough times. Compassion towards others is essential in a diverse society. Holidays can be challenging for those without family support. Open communication fosters stronger relationships.

    Show more Show less
    41 mins