On this episode of Girl Stop Playin’. I had the absolute pleasure of sitting down with Dr. Pam, who’s done some serious work on a topic that many of us can relate to, whether we want to admit it or not—the “mother wound.” Now listen, I’ve shared bits of my own journey with my momma, and let me tell you, this conversation hit different. Dr. Pam breaks down how the dynamics between mothers and daughters can shape us in ways we may not even realize until we grow up and start navigating life on our own.

Dr. Pam’s seen it all—from women in prison who experienced deep, severe trauma introduced by their mothers, to high-powered professionals who dealt with more subtle forms of emotional neglect. It’s wild how this mother-daughter thing shows up in so many different ways, but the impact? It's real, and it can stick with us for a long time. She even wrote a whole book about it called Surviving Mama—and trust me, this conversation is a must-listen.

We got into how, as daughters, we don’t always start seeing our moms as the flawed, complicated women they are until we grow up, get married, or become moms ourselves. That’s when the real work begins. And y’all already know I don’t hold back, so I shared how my own mom used to say, “I love you, but I don’t like you”—which was a LOT to handle growing up. But now, as an adult, I’ve gained perspective and realized just how deep those scars can go.

Dr. Pam dropped so much wisdom about the healing process, and how it’s not about blaming our moms, but about understanding the cycles of emotional immaturity and dysfunction we’ve normalized. She also shed light on how unresolved issues with our moms can bleed into sibling relationships—something I know all too well.

The biggest takeaway? Healing is possible, but it starts with awareness and giving ourselves grace. We’ve gotta face these wounds, process them, and move forward with intention. This conversation was a reminder that we are not alone in these struggles, and we have the power to heal. So sis, if you’re dealing with your own mother wounds, know that you don’t have to carry that weight forever.

Today, I have the pleasure of chatting with the incredible Dana Frank! Dana is the general managing partner of her family’s company, Frank Family Properties, and has spent the last 25 years expanding their real estate investments across Washington state and Arizona. Under her leadership, the company has been featured in the Seattle Times and celebrated for its achievements in property management.

In this episode, Dana and I dive deep into the dynamics of running a family business, the importance of creating generational wealth, and how to navigate the ups and downs of working with family. Dana shares valuable lessons on instilling a strong work ethic in your children and how to ensure they understand the value of hard work without feeling entitled.

We also touch on the current economic climate and Dana’s expert advice on investing in real estate. Plus, we discuss the changes that come with menopause and Dana’s personal journey through it, including practical tips for managing symptoms.

Tune in for an enlightening conversation filled with wisdom, practical advice, and inspiring stories that will help you navigate your personal and professional life with confidence.

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On this episode of Girl Stop Playin, you get to meet the resilient and inspiring Kristin Biggs. Kristin shares her heart-wrenching journey of overcoming unimaginable losses, including the murders of her husband and son. Despite these tragedies, Kristin has channeled her grief into a powerful mission to help others through her book, "Release & Unleash Grief," and her nonprofit organization. She discusses the importance of self-love, resilience, and finding purpose amid pain.

This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the transformative power of faith and community. Join us for an authentic and hopeful conversation that will encourage you to stop playing and start living with purpose and intention.

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On this episode of Girl Stop Playin’, I got to sit down with the beautiful Crystal Shae Raw, and let me tell y’all, it was a whole vibe! We’re diving into something a little different today—how what you put into your body directly impacts your life, your energy, and the work you do. I know we always talk about chasing those coins, but sis, you can't show up as your best self if you’re not fueling your body the right way!

Crystal came through with all the gems on health, wellness, and how taking care of yourself from the inside out sets you up for success in every area of your life. It’s not just about the grind—it’s about making sure you have the energy, clarity, and strength to show up for it. I’m telling you, this episode will make you think twice about what you’re feeding your body and your mind. Crystal’s holistic approach to wellness is something we can all take notes from!

So if you're ready to start treating your body like the temple it is, tune in and let Crystal Shea break it all the way down!

In this episode of Girl Stop Playin', I’m sitting down with my girl, Nurse Coach Ashley Smith, to have a real, raw conversation about what it truly means to take control of our health and wellness. Ashley’s been a nurse for over 15 years, but she’s not your average nurse—she’s all about that holistic lifestyle and empowering Black women to live their best, healthiest lives outside of the traditional medical system.

We’re breaking down the myths, exposing the truth, and getting into the six pillars of lifestyle medicine that every woman needs to know. From stress management to nutrition, sleep, and social connections, Ashley is dropping gems that will have you rethinking everything you thought you knew about your health.

This episode is for my sisters who are ready to stop playing with their potential, take back their power, and live a life full of wellness from the inside out. Don’t miss out on this one—your health will thank you!

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Today, we’re diving into a conversation that’s gonna get a little *canna-curious*! I’m joined by the incredible Dr. Demetria Bates, a nurse practitioner who’s making waves in the cannabis world.

If you’ve ever been curious about cannabis or felt like you’re stuck in the “canna-closet,” this episode is for you. Dr. Bates shares her journey from traditional medicine to becoming a certified cannabis educator. We’re talking all about how cannabis can be a natural alternative to those prescription meds that come with a laundry list of side effects. We’re also breaking down the myths, the stigma, and the science behind CBD, THC, and everything in between.

Whether you’re looking for ways to manage anxiety, pain, or even just curious about the benefits for kids and pets, we’re covering it all. Dr. Bates also spills the tea on the differences between natural cannabis and those synthetic Delta-8 products you see popping up everywhere.

So grab your notebook, your favorite drink, and get ready to take notes, because this episode is packed with gems that just might change the way you think about cannabis. And who knows? By the time this episode ends, I might just be ready to step out of my own canna-closet too!

Make sure you tune in, share this episode with your girls, and get ready to explore the world of cannabis with an open mind. Let’s get into it!

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Today, we have an incredible guest joining us, my girl Nia Renee! She’s not just a powerhouse; she’s the creator of “How to Love a Battered Woman,” a relationship coach, motivational speaker, author, and so much more.

Now, y’all already know I love to start things off by letting my guests properly introduce themselves, so we can make sure we’re putting some respect on her name! Nia opens up about her journey, sharing how she turned her pain into purpose. She talks about her traumatic childhood, growing up in a household where her mother was not just a parent, but also her first bully. This led her into a cycle of toxic and abusive relationships in adulthood because that chaos was all she knew.

We dive deep into the roots of her trauma, discussing how her upbringing affected her view on relationships and self-worth. Nia shares how she had to unlearn those toxic patterns and do the hard work to heal and grow. She gets real about how, for so many of us, the issues we face as adults are rooted in childhood experiences that we haven’t fully recognized or worked through.

Nia’s story is a powerful reminder that no matter what you’ve been through, you can heal, grow, and step into your power. She talks about the importance of developing a strong relationship with yourself, learning to trust your own instincts, and setting boundaries to protect your peace. Nia also highlights that healing is a journey, not a destination, and it’s okay if we slip up sometimes—as long as we keep moving forward.

This episode is all about breaking free from the cycles of abuse and trauma, and learning to love yourself first so that you can attract the love you truly deserve. Nia’s journey is a testament to the power of resilience, self-awareness, and the importance of doing the inner work to create the life and love you want. So, if you’re ready to stop playin’ and start workin’ on your healing, this is the episode for you!

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In this episode, Rosalee shares her journey from banking to becoming a professional nanny and doula. She explains how her passion for caregiving, stemming from her childhood and teenage motherhood, led her to this fulfilling career. Rosalee discusses the misconceptions about nannying and the significant impact a skilled nanny can have on a family's life.

We delve into the critical role of postpartum doulas and the difference they make for new mothers, especially in the African-American community where traditional support systems may be lacking. Rosalee emphasizes the importance of creating a supportive village, even if it means hiring help, and addresses the guilt and anxiety that often accompany the decision to seek external support.

Rosalee also talks about her business, Mothers Helping Hands Atlanta, which offers a range of services including nannying, postpartum care, and medical staffing. She highlights the importance of planning for postpartum needs and provides practical tips for new parents on how to utilize resources like FSA funds and meal trains.

Tune in to hear Rosalee's inspiring story, her tips for new mothers, and the invaluable services her company provides. This episode is packed with insightful advice, empowering messages, and a reminder that it's okay to ask for help and prioritize your well-being.

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