Episodes

  • Episode 280: Don't Feed the Big Bad Wolf

    Episode 280: Don't Feed the Big Bad Wolf
    Dec 22 2024
    Alli and Melisa address the Native American parable, the Tale of Two Wolves and how that weaves into life today. Feed the good wolf!
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    43 mins
  • Episode 278: Holiday Mental Prep

    Episode 278: Holiday Mental Prep
    Dec 8 2024
    The holidays are a tough time... and they haven't gotten any easier for us over the years. Alli and Melisa talk about how to prepare for the hard moments during the holidays -- and how to compromise with ex-husband and/or your partner on time spent with family.
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    36 mins
  • Episode 277: Meet Meredith/Baby Gays ATX

    Episode 277: Meet Meredith/Baby Gays ATX
    Dec 1 2024
    "You can't be the cause and the cure."
    Meredith (Baby Gays ATX) joins the show again to talk about how sex therapy and EMDR helped uncover her true sexuality, learning to sit in discomfort of coming out -- and what life has been like coming out to her family and co-parenting with her ex.

    Baby Gays ATX - Facebook group
    Baby Gays ATX - Instagram
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    48 mins
  • Episode 276: Full On Favreau/Baby Gays ATX

    Episode 276: Full On Favreau/Baby Gays ATX
    Nov 24 2024
    Melisa and Alli chat about how we're all a little weird when we're first coming out. We all have our own Answering Machine Meltdowns a la Jon Favreau in Swingers. And Meredith from Baby Gays ATX joins the show to talk about how she has created a late in life group in Austin, Texas.

    Baby Gays ATX - Facebook group
    Baby Gays ATX - Instagram
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    55 mins
  • Episode 275: Choosing People Who Don't Choose You

    Episode 275: Choosing People Who Don't Choose You
    Nov 17 2024
    Alli and Melisa deep dive on the Big vs. Aidan dynamic in Sex and the City (random, yes... but relevant) and how people often choose partners who aren't choosing them. Also a lesson on keeping the relationship with your ex-husband intact.
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    39 mins
  • Episode 274: Be Like Bex

    Episode 274: Be Like Bex
    Nov 10 2024
    Our friend Bex (known her killer karaoke skills) joins the show to share her coming out story -- her journey to find the perfect name, and how she built community following her move from Vermont to Atlanta!
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    54 mins
  • Episode 273: Meet Sue and Paige: It Could Happen to You

    Episode 273: Meet Sue and Paige: It Could Happen to You
    Nov 3 2024
    Sue and Paige share their stories of coming out later in life, finding love over 50, and how they make things work blending 5 kids!
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    55 mins
  • Episode 272: Relationship Hopping

    Episode 272: Relationship Hopping
    Oct 27 2024
    Do you truly know yourself? Or do you only know the version of yourself in a relationship? Alli and Melisa discuss "relationship hopping" and how it doesn't allow for time for you to know who you are alone.
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    35 mins