Episodes

  • Mismatched Drives #1 (Quickie)

    Mismatched Drives #1 (Quickie)
    Oct 16 2024

    This week's quickie is from Bonny Logsdon Burns about things to consider when you and your spouse have mismatched sex drives. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 mins
  • Sex Post-Vasectomy, Competing with His Phone, Plus-Size Lovemaking & Lube Tips (Listener Questions)

    Sex Post-Vasectomy, Competing with His Phone, Plus-Size Lovemaking & Lube Tips (Listener Questions)
    Oct 10 2024

    Chris and J answer listener questions about sex after a vasectomy, competing with his phone for attention, plus-sized lovemaking, and how to use lube without losing the mood.

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    From the Bible

    Let the wise hear and increase in learning, and the one who understands obtain guidance. Proverbs 1:5 (ESV)

    Resources

    • What's So Great about "Shooting Blanks"? - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Get Off Your Screen & Have Sex with Your Wife - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • The Higher Desire Wife: Understanding and Help for Christian Women Navigating Mismatched Sex Drives (Available for preorder now!)
    • Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 1 - Honeycomb & Spice
    • Enjoy a Plus-Size Sex Life, Part 2 - Honeycomb & Spice
    • Episode 111: Accepting Your Body
    • Liberator Wedge Sex Pillow Positioning Aid – Married Dance
    • Full Chart of Over 300 Different Sex Positions (christianfriendlysexpositions.com)
    • Q&A with J: A Guide to Using Personal Lubricant - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • Ask Us a Question
    • KHS (Knowing Her Sexually) Ministry

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

    Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

    Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
    Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
    Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    23 mins
  • Have Sex (Quickie)

    Have Sex (Quickie)
    Oct 2 2024

    This week's quickie is from J Parker about the importance of prioritizing sexual intimacy in your marriage. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 mins
  • Talking to Kids About Sex, with Karissa Curtis

    Talking to Kids About Sex, with Karissa Curtis
    Sep 24 2024
    We welcome Christian sex therapist Karissa Curtis to discuss talking to kids—our own and others in our church—about sex. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance for sponsoring this episode. From the Bible I have given them your word and the world has hated them, for they are not of the world any more than I am of the world. My prayer is not that you take them out of the world but that you protect them from the evil one. They are not of the world, even as I am not of it. Sanctify them by the truth; your word is truth. As you sent me into the world, I have sent them into the world. John 17:14–18 So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them. Genesis 1:27 Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength. These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts. Impress them on your children. Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up. Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates. Deuteronomy 6:5–9 Resources Karissa Curtis's website, Freedom CounselingTalking to Your Kids about Sex: No More One & Done - Hot, Holy & HumorousHealing the Wounded Heart: The Heartache of Sexual Abuse and the Hope of Transformation by Dan B. AllenderAuthentic Intimacy - Juli Slattery's siteTeach Your Kids the Correct Words for Body Parts - Hot, Holy & HumorousHow to Talk to a Teen about Sex - Hot, Holy & HumorousTop 10 Things To Teach Teens About Sex - Hot, Holy & HumorousEpisode 181: Your Sexual Story, with Dr. Carol TanksleyCreating an Intimacy Timeline - Hot, Holy & HumorousBefore The Sex Talk: A Theology of the Body Approach for Parents and Mentors by Linda Noble and Linda Stewart5 Times You Teach Holy and Healthy Sex to Your Kids - Hot, Holy & HumorousParent Resources Recommended by Karissa Curtis (downloadable PDF) Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    44 mins
  • Autumn Fun (Quickie)

    Autumn Fun (Quickie)
    Sep 18 2024

    This week's quickie is from Chris Taylor about adding fun to your marriage using items commonly found in autumn. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    1 min
  • Explaining Women's Sexual Response

    Explaining Women's Sexual Response
    Sep 10 2024

    We discuss how a wife's sexual response differs from her husband's, and how she can explain her female sexuality to him.

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    From the Bible

    You made all the delicate, inner parts of my body
    and knit me together in my mother’s womb.
    Thank you for making me so wonderfully complex!
    Your workmanship is marvelous—how well I know it.
    Psalm 139:13–14 (NLT)

    Resources

    • Understanding Your Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • Understanding Her Sex Drive - Webinar Replay - Sex Chat for Christian Wives
    • 2019 Webinar Series - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (includes two above + foreplay)
    • 2019-2020 Webinar Bundle - Sex Chat for Christian Wives (all of our current webinars)
    • Episode 133: How to Talk to Your Husband About Sex
    • Man vs. Woman: The Differences - Hot, Holy & Humorous
    • “The Female Sexual Response: A Different Model,” Journal of Sex & Marital Therapy, Rosemary Basson
    • Rosemary Basson's circular response cycle diagram
    • Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com)
    • Webinars - Knowing Her Sexually (khsministry.com)
    • High-Drive Wives Are Not Crockpots - Hot, Holy & Humorous

    Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show.

    Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well:

    Strong Wives - Bonny Burns
    Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor
    Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    28 mins
  • Creative Timing (Quickie)

    Creative Timing (Quickie)
    Sep 4 2024

    This week's quickie is from J Parker about using creative timing to maintain or increase your sexual frequency. Follow-up with our webinars and/or stay tuned for more full episodes and quick tips about sex in marriage!
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    2 mins
  • Making the Most of Your Five Senses

    Making the Most of Your Five Senses
    Aug 28 2024
    Let's talk about the five senses—touch, sight, hearing, smell, and taste—and how to make the most of them to increase your sexual interest and enhance your lovemaking experience. Sponsor Thanks to Married Dance, a Christian sex toy & marital aid store. From the Bible For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb. I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well. Psalm 139:13–14 My dove in the clefts of the rock, in the hiding places on the mountainside, show me your face, let me hear your voice; for your voice is sweet, and your face is lovely. Song of Songs 2:14 Resources Episode 179: Light Hearts & LingerieIntroduction to Sensate FocusDona Massage Lotion - Married DanceIntimate Organics Energizing Massage Oil - Married DanceFuzu Massage Candle - Married DanceRed Lightbulbs - AmazonEpisode 74: Getting Comfortable with Your BodyEpisode 111: Accepting Your BodyExperience Deeper Intimacy During Sex | The Forgiven Wife (eye contact)Sensual Music Archives • Bonny's Oysterbed7Copulatory Vocalization (aka, Sex Sounds) | The Forgiven WifeScented Aromatherapy Candles - AmazonEpisode 184: The Power of a Shower (Quickie)Bergamot Linen Spray - AmazonLet Me Touch You Scented Massage Oil Gift Set - Married DanceScented Lotion - AmazonUse Scent to Enhance Your Sex Life | The Forgiven WifeEssential Oils for Sex and Intimacy - 5 Things to Know (calmhealthysexy.com)Lip Smacker flavored lip gloss - AmazonFood and Sex | The Forgiven WifeEpisode 34: Food and SexJO H2O Flavored Lubricant - Married Dance Donate to the Ministry by clicking HERE. Thanks for joining us at the virtual kitchen table for another great chat! If you could, we’d appreciate you leaving a rating and/or review so that others can find the show. Please be sure to check out our website and webinars at forchristianwives.com. And visit our individual ministry pages for more resources as well: Strong Wives - Bonny Burns Honeycomb & Spice - Chris Taylor Hot, Holy & Humorous - J. Parker
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    29 mins