Episodes

  • 151: Transform Your Mindset for Smart Dating Success with Dr. Jenny Taitz

    151: Transform Your Mindset for Smart Dating Success with Dr. Jenny Taitz
    Dec 30 2024
    In this enlightening episode, I welcome the brilliant Dr. Jenny Taitz—a clinical psychologist, UCLA faculty member, and author of the transformative book Stress Reset. Together, we dive into actionable strategies for managing stress, staying grounded, and transforming your mindset for success in dating and beyond. She's also the author of one of my favorite books, "How to Be Single and Happy!" Whether you're navigating the emotional rollercoaster of modern relationships or looking to level up your personal growth, this episode is packed with wisdom and practical tools.


    We talked about:

    • How stress impacts your dating life and decision-making.
    • Simple yet powerful techniques to reset your mind in moments of overwhelm.
    • The science behind stress and why it’s not just “in your head.”
    • Why self-compassion and mindfulness are key to successful dating.
    • How Dr. Taitz's personal journey inspired Stress Reset.
    Tune into this episode if you want to feel more confident and centered in your dating life!

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    50 mins
  • 150: Dating and Thriving After Divorce: Expert Insights with Marilyn Chinitz

    150: Dating and Thriving After Divorce: Expert Insights with Marilyn Chinitz
    Dec 16 2024
    This week, I had the privilege of sitting down with the incredible Marilyn Chinitz—a powerhouse attorney with over 40 years of expertise in family law and divorce. Her wisdom, wit, and compassionate approach to navigating life’s trickiest transitions are unparalleled. Whether you're curious about protecting your assets, healing after heartbreak, or setting yourself up for a thriving relationship, this episode has golden nuggets just for you.

    We talked about:

    • The Art of Resilience: How Marilyn turned decades of challenging cases into a masterclass on thriving after setbacks.
    • Dating After Divorce: Tips for re-entering the dating world with confidence and clarity.
    • The Power of a Prenup: Why these agreements aren’t just for the wealthy—they’re tools for communication and trust.
    • Red Flags vs. Green Lights: Spotting the signs of a strong, healthy relationship.
    • Self-Care in Transitions: Marilyn’s personal strategies for staying vibrant, focused, and fabulous at any age.
    What steps are you taking to build resilience and confidence in your relationships? Remember, the road to love and fulfillment starts with understanding your worth and protecting your peace.



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    48 mins
  • 149: From Heartbreak to Happily Ever After: How Smart Dating Academy Transformed Teresa's Love Life

    149: From Heartbreak to Happily Ever After: How Smart Dating Academy Transformed Teresa's Love Life
    Dec 2 2024
    I’m so excited to share this week’s powerful story, featuring a journey of resilience, hope, and finding love again against the odds. In this heartfelt episode, we dive into the incredible experience of one of our listeners who, at 48, faced a life-changing loss: the sudden passing of her husband from a heart attack. Grieving and single for over a decade, she never imagined herself dating again, let alone getting remarried.

    But everything changed when a friend issued a life-altering challenge: give Match.com a shot for six months. Little did she know that this challenge would lead her on a transformative journey, one that would ultimately bring her to the doors of the Smart Dating Academy.

    We talked about:

    • Overcoming the Fear of Starting Over: Imagine not dating for over 32 years. How do you even begin to navigate the dating world again? We discuss the struggles and triumphs of re-entering the dating scene after loss.
    • The Power of Support and a Clear Process: Teresa opens up about how the guidance, tools, and support from the Smart Dating Academy helped her identify and attract the right type of partner.
    • Defining What You Want in a Partner: Why is knowing what you want so important, and how can you stay true to that vision? We explore the mindset shifts that made a difference.
    • Taking Things Slow and Building Friendship First: The magic of getting to know someone as a friend before diving into romance, and how this approach created a solid foundation for her current marriage.
    • Using the Marriage Map Tool: Learn about the impact of this tool and how it guided Teresa to determine if her partner, Curtis, was the right match.
    Teresa's story is a beautiful reminder that love can come back into your life when you least expect it, and that with the right approach and support, you can find a partner who complements your life perfectly.

    Ready to redefine your dating life or need guidance on your journey to love? Visit Smart Dating Academy to learn more about our transformative programs.



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    34 mins
  • 148: Uncovering the Secrets to Authentic Connection: Building Lasting Relationships

    148: Uncovering the Secrets to Authentic Connection: Building Lasting Relationships
    Nov 18 2024
    I’m thrilled to bring you a special guest this week, Coach and Conscious Relationship Teacher Veronika Amaya. Veronika is a relationship expert with a unique global perspective on dating and connection, and in this episode she will help us uncover the “missing pieces” that can keep us from forming genuine bonds. Veronika has a wealth of knowledge on the emotional nuances that make relationships thrive and offers down-to-earth tips for bridging those gaps to find and maintain meaningful connections.

    We talked about:

    • How to recognize what’s truly missing in modern relationships and why it matters
    • Simple, practical steps for building deeper connections in a fast-paced world
    • The art of vulnerability, and why it’s often the key to authentic intimacy
    • How cultural perspectives shape our connections and understanding
    • Ways to identify and shift patterns that may be keeping you from feeling seen and understood
    Veronika is a treasure trove of insights for anyone who feels that their connections could use a little more depth or clarity. She invites us to look within, encouraging a fresh perspective that feels both reassuring and actionable.

    Website: https://www.veronika-amaya.com/



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    36 mins
  • 147: Heather's Journey to Self-Love and Self Discovery - What I Learned at Smart Dating Academy

    147: Heather's Journey to Self-Love and Self Discovery - What I Learned at Smart Dating Academy
    Nov 4 2024
    Heather's Journey to Self-Love and Self Discovery - What I Learned at Smart Dating Academy

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    48 mins
  • 146: I Was Married to the "Wolf of Wall Street" - Breaking Trauma Bonds and Thriving with Dr. Nadine Macaluso

    146: I Was Married to the "Wolf of Wall Street" - Breaking Trauma Bonds and Thriving with Dr. Nadine Macaluso
    Oct 21 2024
    I’m beyond thrilled to have Dr. Nadine Macaluso (Dr. Nae, as I call her!). on today’s episode! Dr. Nae’s story is nothing short of jaw-dropping — she was married to The Wolf of Wall Street himself, Jordan Belfort. But this conversation isn’t just about her past; it’s about her incredible journey of survival, healing, and growth. Dr. Nae has taken what she’s learned from that chapter of her life and is using it to help others break free from toxic relationships and trauma bonds (she went back to school and got her doctorate as part of her journey to help herself and others).

    We had such an amazing chat, and I know you’re going to love it! Dr. Nae has been through it all, and she’s come out the other side stronger, wiser, and ready to share her insights on how to stop repeating old patterns and start thriving in healthier relationships.

    We talked about:

    Her experience with trauma bonds and why we keep picking the same type of partner
    How to break free from unhealthy patterns and build a stronger sense of self
    What it really takes to heal after trauma and thrive in love again
    Why choosing healthier partners isn’t just about avoiding red flags, but learning to trust yourself
    The power of resilience and how to bounce back from hardship
    I can’t wait for you to hear this episode! Dr. Nae’s story is powerful, and her advice is game-changing if you’ve ever struggled with toxic relationships.

    If you love the episode, please subscribe, rate, and share it so we can keep bringing you these incredible conversations!

    Website: Drnae.com

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    54 mins
  • 145: Love Story! How Attorney Tara Found True Love after Divorce

    145: Love Story! How Attorney Tara Found True Love after Divorce
    Oct 7 2024
    In this heartwarming love story episode, I sit down with our beloved client Tara, an accomplished attorney from Chicago, who shares her incredible journey of love and self-discovery. Tara's story begins in a traditional household, where arranged marriages were the norm, and she herself entered one that didn't quite work out. However, through her resilience, career-focused mindset, and our Smart Dating work together, Tara redefined what love meant for her, and found a relationship that truly aligned with her heart.

    We dive deep into the challenges she faced, the lessons learned, and how she overcame cultural expectations to create her own love story.

    We talk about:

    • The emotional and mental complexities of arranged marriages and why they may or may not work for everyone
    • The importance of being open to growth and self-awareness when navigating relationships
    • How a career-driven woman can balance love, self-worth, and ambition without compromising on any
    • Strategies Tara used to stay resilient and open to love after her marriage didn’t work out
    • How mindset and support can help you attract the right relationship
    Whether you've had an arranged marriage experience, are navigating modern dating, or just love a good love story, Tara's journey will leave you feeling inspired, hopeful, and ready to take control of your own relationship destiny.

    Ready to rewrite your love story? Tune in to this episode and learn how you can find your own version of love, no matter where you start. Don’t forget to subscribe, share, and leave us a review if you enjoyed Tara’s inspiring journey!



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    33 mins
  • 144: Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for TODAY with Dr. John Gray

    144: Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for TODAY with Dr. John Gray
    Sep 23 2024

    Title: Beyond Mars and Venus: Relationship Skills for TODAY with Dr. John Gray


    I couldn't be more excited to have Dr. John Gray, who wrote one of the most well-known and trusted relationship books of all time: Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus (the #1 bestselling book of its decade). We had such a good chat that you're going to love; John lost his loving partner of decades and has found love AGAIN! We talked about love, loss, new love, and getting the BEST out of your partner - whether your relationship is brand new or decades old. He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People.
    We talked about:
    • How he got over his wife of 34 years' passing and how he found love again
    • What the biggest change in relationships is since he wrote his first book
    • What the difference is in what men need and women need in a relationship
    • Enlightened sexuality and what it means
    • Why men need to reconnect with their masculine side and women with their feminine side
    • How to have a happy relationship

    Can't wait for you to listen to and LOVE this episode! If you love it, please subscribe to our podcast, and feel free to give it the top rating so we can keep it going for you! For more free tips and up to date information, click here to register for the Smart Dating Academy free newsletter! https://www.smartdatingacademy.com/contact

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    1 hr and 1 min