In this episode of Kizmet, host Kiz Harvey speaks with author and columnist Kerri Sackville about life after divorce and the powerful path of self-discovery. Together, they unpack the emotional rollercoaster of ending a marriage, the realities of parenting solo, and the evolving nature of friendships post-divorce. Kerry shares her honest reflections on dating in midlife, why emotional safety is non-negotiable in relationships, and how learning to embrace aloneness became a gateway to personal growth.

Whether you're navigating divorce, rediscovering yourself, or curious about midlife dating, this conversation offers real talk, hard-won wisdom, and hope for what comes next.

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Key Takeaways

• Why it’s healthier to be alone than in the wrong relationship
• How divorce can feel like a chaotic reset—and what comes after
• The challenges and rewards of solo parenting
• Why self-acceptance and comfort with aloneness are essential before dating again
• How friendship dynamics shift after a breakup
• The role of emotional safety in building new relationships
• That you don’t need an excuse to say no in dating or life

Chapter Breakdown:
00:00 — Navigating Post-Divorce Life
02:30 — Reflections on Marriage Breakdown
09:23 — The Role of New Partners
11:27 — Dating in Midlife: The Journey Begins
16:09 — The Importance of Being Alone
22:30 — Friendship Dynamics After Divorce
25:17 — The Value of Aloneness
30:28 — Finding Emotional Safety in Relationships

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In this episode of the Kizmet podcast, host Kiz Harvey sits down with Alice to explore the emotional complexities of infidelity shattering Alice’s once-thriving expat lifestyle, leading to a powerful journey of personal growth, self-discovery, and healing. Alice shares the subtle signs of betrayal, and the overwhelming emotional recovery required to rebuild after separation. This heartfelt conversation highlights the role of resilience in navigating relationships post-divorce, the loneliness often experienced in expat life, and the ongoing process of reclaiming one's identity.

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Key Takeaways:

• Infidelity often reveals itself in subtle yet deeply impactful ways.
• Honest confrontation is essential for addressing relationship breakdowns.
• The emotional aftermath of betrayal can feel overwhelming and disorienting.
• Children are highly perceptive of shifting family dynamics.
• Trust is the cornerstone of any strong relationship.
• Rebuilding after divorce demands deep self-reflection and growth.
• Forgiveness is a key part of emotional healing.
• Self-discovery is a lifelong journey, especially after significant life changes.

Episode Chapters:
00:00 Navigating Life After Divorce

01:38 The Expat Experience and Its Challenges

03:06 The Unraveling of a Marriage

10:14 Confrontation and Realizations

19:06 The Aftermath of Betrayal

29:49 Finding Identity and Healing

37:12 Moving Forward and Embracing Change

40:14 Reflections on Love and Forgiveness

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In this episode of the Kizmet Podcast, host Kiz Harvey has a candid and thought-provoking conversation with Dan about the complexities surrounding his parents' divorce after 50 years of marriage. They delve into the often-overlooked ripple effects of such a life-changing event, particularly how it impacts families and relationships.

Kiz and Dan discuss the emotional shock of witnessing a long-lasting marriage come to an end, the crucial role of empathy in understanding everyone’s perspective, and the difficulties of navigating family dynamics in the aftermath of divorce. Through personal reflections, Dan shares the challenges of supporting children and grandchildren while still trying to maintain healthy relationships as the family adjusts to the changes.

Emphasising the importance of open communication, understanding, and compassion, Dan offers valuable insights into how families can weather the emotional storm of a late-in-life divorce and find ways to heal together. This episode is a heartfelt exploration of the complexities of family and the resilience needed to thrive in the face of unexpected change.

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🔖 divorce, family dynamics, grief, empathy, relationships, post-divorce, parenting, communication, resilience, personal growth

Key Takeaways

• Divorce impacts not just the couple but the entire family unit.
• Children are resilient but need support and understanding during transitions.
• It's important to protect children from the negative aspects of adult relationships.
• Grief is a personal and unique experience that everyone processes differently.
• Maintaining boundaries is essential for healthy family interactions post-divorce.
• Open doors for communication help children express their feelings and concerns.
• Understanding the reasons behind relationship breakdowns can foster empathy.
• Personal growth often comes from navigating difficult family situations.

Chapters

00:00 Navigating Divorce and Its Ripple Effects

07:41 The Shock of Separation and Family Dynamics

19:01 Understanding Grief and Moving Forward

22:42 The Importance of Empathy and Non-Judgment

30:38 Key Takeaways for Families in Transition

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