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Smart Tactics for Overcoming the Problem People in Your Life
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Gill Hasson
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Don't let problem people get to you!
Whether it's a manager who keeps moving the goal posts, an uncooperative colleague, negative friend, or critical family member, some people are just plain hard to get along with.
Often, your immediate response is to shrink or sulk, become defensive or attack. But there are smarter moves to make when dealing with difficult people. This book explains how to cope with a range of situations with difficult people and to focus on what you can change.
This book will help you to:
- Understand what makes difficult people tick and how best to handle them
- Learn ways to confidently stand up to others and resist the urge to attack back
- Develop strategies to calmly navigate emotionally-charged situations
- Deal with all kinds of difficult people - hostile, manipulative and the impossible
- Know when to choose your battles, and when to walk away
Why let someone else's bad attitude ruin your day? How to Deal with Difficult People arms you with all the tools and tactics you need to handle all kinds of people - to make your life less stressful and a great deal easier.
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Whether the confrontations are taking place at home, at work or online, the emotional toll of dealing with an angry person day-in day-out can be huge. As we often can't cut ourselves off from these angry people (although terminating the relationship is an option that’s explored), this audiobook draws on the author's years of research and clinical practice to help listeners manage potentially explosive situations for the best possible outcomes. This audiobook reveals the psychological factors that underpin an angry personality, offers ten key strategies for dealing with angry people.
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People Can't Drive You Crazy If You Don't Give Them the Keys
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You don't have to be controlled by difficult people! Strange as it may seem, other people are not nearly as committed to our happiness as we are. In fact, sometimes it seems like they’re on a mission to make us miserable! There’s always that one person. The one who hijacks our emotions. The one who seems to thrive on drama. If we could just “fix” that person, everything would be better. But we can’t fix other people. We can only make choices about ourselves.
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Riddles With Religious Overtones
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Becoming Bulletproof
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Becoming Bulletproof means transforming yourself into a stronger, more confident, and more powerful person. Evy Poumpouras - former Secret Service agent to three presidents and one of only five women to receive the Medal of Valor - demonstrates how we can overcome our everyday fears, have difficult conversations, know who to trust and who might not have our best interests at heart, influence situations, and prepare for the unexpected. When you have become bulletproof, you are your best, most courageous, and most powerful version of you.
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Verbal Judo, Updated Edition
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When you react, the event controls you. When you respond, you’re in control. Verbal Judo is the classic guide to the martial art of the mind and mouth that can help you defuse confrontations and generate cooperation, whether you're talking to a boss, a spouse, or even a teenager. For more than a generation, Dr. George J. Thompson's essential handbook has taught people how to communicate more confidently and persuasively in any situation.
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Are you too nice? If you find it hard to be assertive, directly ask for what you want, or say "no" to others, then you just might be suffering from too much niceness. In this controversial book, world-renowned confidence expert, Dr. Aziz Gazipura, takes an incisive look at the concept of nice. Through his typical style, Dr. Aziz uses engaging stories, humor, and disarming vulnerability to cut through the nice conditioning and liberate the most bold, expressive, authentic version of you.
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Changed my life forever
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- JP
- 07-16-24
Great examples
This was a nice, short listen chock full of examples that were easy to follow and easily adaptable for personal scenarios.
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- Ms Fit Queen
- 02-19-24
Awesome!
I really enjoyed this book! I will replay it over and over! I know it will help me with the difficult people in my life. But I'll replay to see if I'll help me deal with difficult employees.
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- MichaelA
- 05-10-24
Very Good Book
I plan a second listening as I’m not always an active listener. This book has many good tips for dealing with difficult people. Body language, listening actively, responding in the i narrative instead of the you are some examples. I would have liked to have had an expanded chapter on impossible people. I work with one who doesn’t confront most of the time, but constantly looks for faults and perceived mistakes and runs to the big boss to bitch and moan about everything under the sun. I really don’t know the complete number of people who have quit because of this indirect bullying. The sad part is the big boss goes along totally. I would have liked more input on dealing with drama queens who put every soap opera to shame. Little problems most people resolve with little thought become huge deals. I plan a second listen while dog walking. Right now the only resolution to my current situation is to walk away. Tolerating toxic and impossible people is why employers in the industry can’t recruit or retain. You can’t please an impossible person. Listen or read this book. It’s useful.
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- Shahram Younessian
- 02-09-25
Great Book
Loved it. had to play it few times. It was worth it. I am using the advise and hope I can now converse better.
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- SL
- 06-18-24
Delightfully helpful.
Only after the second chapter, and I’m already intrigued by the concepts provided in this book. I’m already drawn in and we’re only just at the start of the book.
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- Whistle 1
- 09-11-22
Excellent book!
This book was well worth listening to. I’m someone who has read (or listened to) probably about six books on the subjective communication and this was definitely one that I would recommend. I’ll probably listen to it another one to two times at least.
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- Nasir Shah
- 11-28-23
Best book o dealing with people
I read many books in similar subject in sociology and personal development but this book is the best one. it teaches you all you need to deal with difficult person. Many books just provide a story parallel to the subject and does not give you the right tools and techniques to solve the problem. This book clearly identifies the problem, difficult people and how to handles them. If you have same situation or you want or you just want to improve your social skills please read this book, you will love it. It will arm you with right tools to handle narcist and difficult people.
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