• #42 Progress Over Perfection: How to Kickstart 2025 - with Life Coach Kim Stokes
    Jan 2 2025
    How would you like your 2025 to look? What small steps could you take to make progress? And what are the key areas you would like to focus on? It's the start of a new year and the time when people reflect on the past year and look ahead to future plans and progressing in life. In this episode, Elizabeth and Julia are joined by life coach Kim Stokes who gives some of her tips on how to set small, achievable goals for the new year ahead. By using the 'Wheel of Life' tool, she breaks down how to help identify parts of your life which you may like to improve and help put in place some manageable steps to achieve them. You can download and print Kim's Wheel of Life to complete and her micro moment tracker too. In this episode you will: Learn how to create your 'Wheel of Life' to help identity key areas to focus on The importance of making progress over perfection Find out how to create 'micro moments' in your life to reduce overwhelm Learn how to deal with potential challenges which could prevent you from taking steps forward How to track and build emotional resilience You can discover more about Kim, her strategies and what she can offer on her website, Kindness for Success and follow her on Instagram and LinkedIn. She has a complimentary 60min ‘Kindness Kickstarter’ you can book with her. Kim is also offering listeners 15% off a coaching package (bundle of 3 or 6) if you reference 'On A Good Day'. ____ In this episode we spoke about the live show we recorded at the Irwin Mitchell brain injury conference about finding independence after brain injury. You can also learn more about positive risk taking in the episode with occupational therapist Roisin Hyde. _______ On A Good Day Thank you for listening to On A Good Day! Please go back and catch up on any missed episodes. For a full recap of Elizabeth and Julia's stories, listen to episode #1: How Brain Injury Came Into Our Lives - And Changed Them Forever. Please share this podcast with others it will benefit and subscribe, rate and review to help make it more visible! We'd be so grateful! Connect with Us On Instagram @onagood.day and X @onagood_day And you can join our Facebook community too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    59 mins
  • #41 Vulnerability, identity and The Traitors - with Traitors star Andrew Jenkins
    Nov 21 2024
    He was one of the most popular contestants on BBC series The Traitors but Andrew Jenkins reveals he hated himself for a long time after a life-changing car accident left him changed physically and he sustained a brain injury. In this episode, he talks to Elizabeth and Julia about how the impact of the crash, his recovery and how the physical scars may have healed but mentally he felt lost and impacted much of his life. He felt he lost his identity and had to put on a "mask" on for many years of his life until he started to find himself again, and not only help himself, but others as well. With honesty and emotion he talks to Elizabeth and Julia about all aspects of his life from family, his past relationships and how meeting the man who saved his life changed the trajectory of his life. It encouraged him to speak to his parents for the first time about the accident as well as his brothers and son. Andrew he then went on The Traitors, using it as a platform to help others who may be struggling with their mental health and challenges life can bring. When this was recorded, Andrew was about to set off on his Big Trek, walking 1,200 miles across four nations to raise money for the UK charity Headway which supports brain injury survivors and their families. You can support Andrew's challenge and the charity by making a donation. Andrew also mentions taking part in a documentary called Sound Lad with his son. _______ If you enjoyed this episode, you will also enjoy listening to former stuntman Joe Watts and Joe Borges who says he feels his stroke was a blessing. Plus, Elizabeth and Julia's husbands Paul and Hector on the progress they have made in the last year. _______ On A Good Day Thank you for listening to On A Good Day! Please go back and catch up on any missed episodes. For a full recap of Elizabeth and Julia's stories, listen to episode #1: How Brain Injury Came Into Our Lives - And Changed Them Forever. Please share this podcast with others it will benefit and subscribe, rate and review to help make it more visible! We'd be so grateful! Connect with Us On Instagram @onagood.day and X @onagood_day And you can join our Facebook community too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • #40 The Former Stuntman Rewriting His Story After Brain Injury - with Joe Watts
    Aug 15 2024
    Joe Watts was a successful stuntman working on films such as Mission Impossible and the Star Wars franchises when it abruptly ended after a stunt went horribly wrong. Joe fell 25ft onto concrete and was left with a severe brain injury, ending the career he so loved. In this episode, Joe opens up to Elizabeth and Julia about what happened on the day of his accident and the impact it has had on him and those around him. Having made a remarkable recovery, he tells Elizabeth and Julia how he is rebuilding his life using a concept he has developed called the Mountain Method. His goal now is to help others using this method and sharing his story through public speaking. Joe also speaks honestly about the anger he has felt following his brain injury and how art has helped him channel his negative energy into something positive and purposeful. He shares his outlook for the future and why he is glad to be the person he is now, rather than the one he was before. Connect with Joe on instagram @Joewattsart, check out his linktree page and download Joe's Mountain Method worksheet If you enjoyed this episode, you will also enjoy listening to Charlie Well's story of managing his mindset after brain injury as well as Satinder Sanghera in episode 2 who went on to complete her medical studies after her stroke. Plus, Elizabeth and Julia's husbands Paul and Hector on the progress they have made in the last year. There's also Joy and Ross's honest story of stroke, love and overcoming negativity towards disability in episode 12. _______ On A Good Day Thank you for listening to On A Good Day! Please go back and catch up on any missed episodes. For a full recap of Elizabeth and Julia's stories, listen to episode #1: How Brain Injury Came Into Our Lives - And Changed Them Forever. Please share this podcast with others it will benefit and subscribe, rate and review to help make it more visible! We'd be so grateful! Connect with Us On Instagram @onagood.day and X @onagood_day And you can join our Facebook community too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    49 mins
  • #39 The Changing World of Loving Someone After Acquired Brain Injury - Elizabeth Callaghan, Julia Ajayi and Able To Care podcast host Andy Baker
    Jul 22 2024
    Brain injury changes lives in an instant and not only for the survivor but those closest to them. In this episode of On A Good Day, Elizabeth and Julia share an episode from the Able To Care podcast which they were invited on to talk about their experiences as a carers. Hosted by Andy Baker, they talk to him about their personal journeys and how they navigate the challenges of being with someone who has a brain injury. Elizabeth and Julia explain how they connected and set up On A Good Day and the importance of being about to speak and hear from others who have been in similar situations. Listeners will gain insights into the complexities of brain injuries, the emotional and practical adjustments and the invaluable support networks available. Get ready for a heartfelt conversation filled with resilience, understanding, and the importance of community support. ____ Find out more about Andy Baker and Able Training. Listen and subscribe to the Able To Care podcast on Apple podcasts, Spotify and watch on YouTube: _______ On A Good Day Thank you for listening to On A Good Day! Please go back and catch up on any missed episodes. For a full recap of Elizabeth and Julia's stories, listen to episode #1: How Brain Injury Came Into Our Lives - And Changed Them Forever. Please share this podcast with others it will benefit and subscribe, rate and review to help make it more visible! We'd be so grateful! Connect with Us On Instagram @onagood.day and X @onagood_day And you can join our Facebook community too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    53 mins
  • #38 How Can Independence Be Achieved After Brain Injury? - with Special Guests From Independence Day Brain Injury Conference Hosted By Irwin Mitchell
    Jul 9 2024
    Becoming independent is one of the most important things brain injury survivors strive for - but how can independence be achieved? In this special episode, Elizabeth and Julia go on the road to a Brain Injury Conference and speak to some of the speakers and those in attendance about how they are helping support brain injury survivors and some of the key issues. Hosted by Irwin Mitchell, a law firm which specialises in brain injury claims, the theme of the conference was independence, on Independence Day (and also polling day in the UK). The event bought together experts and those with lived experience of brain injury to discuss the elements of rehab and post brain injury support that have helped survivors regain their independence. Some of the issues discussed include: How important family support is in helping brain injury survivors to recover What charities are doing to help ABI survivors and their families Why sexual relationships need to be talked about after brain injury Key health issues which the new government could address Why tapping into an individual's interests can boost recovery How you can get help after a brain injury when on holiday or working abroad Some of the episodes discussed in this one include, Living With Locked In Syndrome and Claiming Compensation After Brain Injury. _______ On A Good Day Thank you for listening to On A Good Day! Please go back and catch up on any missed episodes. For a full recap of Elizabeth and Julia's stories, listen to episode #1: How Brain Injury Came Into Our Lives - And Changed Them Forever. Please share this podcast with others it will benefit and subscribe, rate and review to help make it more visible! We'd be so grateful! Connect with Us On Instagram @onagood.day and X @onagood_day And you can join our Facebook community too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    32 mins
  • #37 Brain Injury Progress In One Year - With Survivors Paul Callaghan and Hector Ajayi
    Jun 20 2024
    How much progress can brain injury survivors make over time? It has been six years since Paul had his brain injury, and nearly 15 years for Hector, and despite that, they both identify things that they feel have improved for them over the last year. In this episode, they join Elizabeth and Julia (their wife's) to talk about the progress they have made in the last year, some of their continuing challenges and also the impact of some major life events. Some of the topics discussed in this episode include. Acceptance of brain injury how life has changed The importance of continuing to try new things Neurofatigue Volunteering Grief after a parent has died Epilepsy and driving after epilepsy Future planning including travel _____ On A Good Day Thank you for listening to On A Good Day! Please go back and catch up on any missed episodes. For a full recap of Elizabeth and Julia's stories, listen to episode #1: How Brain Injury Came Into Our Lives - And Changed Them Forever. Please share this podcast with others it will benefit and subscribe, rate and review to help make it more visible! We'd be so grateful! Connect with Us On Instagram @onagood.day and X @onagood_day And you can join our Facebook community too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    37 mins
  • #36 What Benefits Could You Be Entitled To After Brain Injury? - Benefits Advisor Alice Hamilton, Citizens Advice
    Jun 6 2024
    What benefits could you claim after you've had brain injury or are a carer? The system in England and Wales can be mind-boggling, especially if it's your first experience of applying for benefits. In this episode, Elizabeth and Julia speak to Alice Hamilton from Citizens Advice to get her insight into what financial help the government can provide. They quiz her on some of the financial issues which may arise following a brain injury and what benefits are available both in the short term and long term. Alice is based in Cambridge and can talk about the system in England and Wales but the system in Scotland can vary. In this episode, you will learn: What financial help you can get from the government in a moment of crisis and longer term, including housing costs Advice on filling out forms for Personal Independent Payment (PIP). How to appeal a decision from the Department from Work and Pension and why it can be worth doing. Why it is important to focus on the negatives when undergoing a health assessment and what you can no longer do The links to the benefits calculators Alice mentioned in the podcast are below. Benefits Calculator - entitledto - independent | accurate | reliable Turn2us Benefits Calculator The information in this episode is specific to the United Kingdom in particular but we hope that for those living outside of the UK they still find it a useful and thought provoking episode. Citizens Advice started in 1939 and is supported by a small number of paid staff and over 14,000 volunteers. It can give advice on a range of other issues but this conversation focused on what can be claimed following brain injury. _____ On A Good Day Thank you for listening to On A Good Day! Please go back and catch up on any missed episodes. For a full recap of Elizabeth and Julia's stories, listen to episode #1: How Brain Injury Came Into Our Lives - And Changed Them Forever. Please share this podcast with others it will benefit and subscribe, rate and review to help make it more visible! We'd be so grateful! Connect with Us On Instagram @onagood.day and X @onagood_day And you can join our Facebook community too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    40 mins
  • #35 Living With Locked In Syndrome, a Daughter's Story - Georgie Tyler-Collings
    May 23 2024
    What is locked-in syndrome? How does it affect someone? Locked-in syndrome might be a condition you have heard of - but may not know much about. This episode will help you understand more about locked-in syndrome and what it is like to live with or support a family member with the condition. To shed a light on the topic, Georgie Tyler-Collings joins Elizabeth and Julia to tell them about her inspiring dad, David Collings. He was left with locked-in syndrome after suffering an ischemic brain stem stroke aged 59 while on holiday in France. Although paralysed, David is fully cognitive and communicates using his eyes. Alongside her wider family, Georgie talks about what happened, how they got him home to Sheffield from France and the impact it has had on her and other family members. She says: "It's tough, but if my family can do it, then you can too". Before his stroke, David would take part in various cycling and swimming challenges - and his motivation for a challenge has not waned. In 2018, he used a special motorised bike to cycle two hours a day for 80 days from his care home and, using the same method, he is currently clocking up the miles to get to New Zealand. This is a story of a family coming together in crisis for a special man, the ups and downs, the impact and loss. But it is also a story of plenty of laughs and support to help David live a happy life with locked-in syndrome. Do leave a comment if this episode resonated and subscribe to ensure you don't miss future episodes. ___ You can read a bit more about the family's fight to get David home from France when it covered by BBC news. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-south-yorkshire-38557886 And more about his first cycling challenge post stroke in 2018. https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-south-yorkshire-44288944 On A Good Day Thank you for listening to On A Good Day! Please go back and catch up on any missed episodes. For a full recap of Elizabeth and Julia's stories, listen to episode #1: How Brain Injury Came Into Our Lives - And Changed Them Forever. Please share this podcast with others it will benefit and subscribe, rate and review to help make it more visible! We'd be so grateful! Connect with Us On Instagram @onagood.day and X @onagood_day And you can join our Facebook community too! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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    1 hr and 2 mins