• Breaking Up, Dealbreakers, and First Date Rejection
    Oct 17 2024

    Today, John and Shaun talk about Shaun’s first tattoo, getting rejected after one date, different types of breakups, and more “icks” in dating. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do you move on from a breakup that completely blindsided you, and how do you stop feeling unworthy after a breakup?


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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • Getting Over the Ick, First Tattoos, and Cheating (Again)
    Oct 10 2024

    Today, John and Shaun talk about their parents, post travel blues, overthinking your first tattoo, and upcoming creative projects. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: how do I reverse having "the ick" for someone I'm dating, and how long does it take for someone to get over infidelity?


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    1 hr and 3 mins
  • Exposing Cheaters, Commitment, and Weddings
    Oct 3 2024

    Today, Shaun and John talk about tattoos, MIGs (most inappropriate guests) at weddings, and not wanting to have kids. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: should I tell someone their partner is cheating on them, and the men I date don't want anything serious after a few months - is it personal?


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    58 mins
  • Consent, Sex Parties, and Jet Skis
    Sep 26 2024

    Today, Shaun and John discuss making romantic connections while traveling, feedback from listeners about consent, sex parties in Berlin, and skinny dipping. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: why does Shaun want to have a "super slutty hot girl summer" instead of a "f*ck boy summer," and is there a list of fool proof questions to ask someone to be more serious with you? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001


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    1 hr and 6 mins
  • Modern Dating, Nude Beaches, and Can I Kiss You?
    Sep 19 2024

    Today, John and Shaun talk about nudity, dating without relying on technology, verbal consent, and ghosting. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: will men lose interest in women if they want to be friends with benefits but without penetration, and how can people flirt without it turning into dirty talk? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001


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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • Who Pays On The First Date, Trusting Your Gut, and The Manosphere?
    Sep 12 2024

    Today, John and Shaun discuss travel, dropping into your body, who pays on the first date, and using dating apps to make friends. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to communicate interest in someone after the first date without scaring them off, and how do I check my male friend who's going down a toxic self improvement rabbit hole? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001


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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Dirty Talk, Molly, and Small Willies
    Sep 5 2024

    Today, John and Shaun talk about John's first time taking Molly, anal play, threesomes, and ethical porn. They also listen to a few dirty voicemails and give advice on two listeners' questions: why can't men be just as noisy as women in the bedroom, and how does one become more comfortable with dirty talk? Here are the links Shaun and John were talking about in today's episode! A Worksheet To Help You Talk To Partners About Sex

    How To Dirty Talk Ethical Porn: xconfessions.com (Erika Lust) & Makelovenotporn.tv (Cindy Gallop)


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    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Erectile Dysfunction, Bad Friends, and Men with Depression
    Aug 29 2024

    Today, John and Shaun discuss emotional safety in the bedroom, erectile dysfunction, and compromise in friendships. They also answer and give advice on two listeners' questions: what's the best way to be vulnerable with your partner so they don't use it against you, and am I wasting my time dating people who aren't looking for a serious relationship when I want one? You can leave a one minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001


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    1 hr and 8 mins