• 121: Think Like the 1% & Make Quantum Leaps in Life w/ Chris Patterson
    Jan 7 2025
    In today’s Harder Than Life podcast, I sit down with my good friend and powerhouse entrepreneur Chris Patterson, CEO and founder of Live Large Coaching and Interchanges. With over 20 years of experience helping businesses grow by billions, Chris shares the mindset, mastery, and practical strategies that have propelled NFL stars, top CEOs, and high achievers to the next level. 🚀 In this episode, we dive into: ✔️ The Power of Simplicity – How the "Top 5 Rule" can create unstoppable momentum in your life and business. ✔️ Quantum Leap Mindset – What separates the top 1% from everyone else and how you can reprogram your mind for success. ✔️ From Rock Bottom to Breakthrough – Chris shares his personal journey from struggles to transformation, including being mentored by the legendary Zig Ziglar. ✔️ The Terror Barrier – Why fear stops most people, and the mindset shift needed to push through and win. ✔️ Faith Over Fear – How to rewire your brain from scarcity to abundance and stop self-sabotaging your success. ✔️ The Power of Forgiveness – Letting go of the past to unlock true freedom and fulfillment. Chris and I also swap crazy Detroit & Windsor stories, dive into fitness, business, personal growth, and emotional intelligence, and reflect on the pivotal moments that define greatness. 🔥 Key Takeaways: ✔️ Success is built daily with consistent actions. ✔️ Fear is the gatekeeper to your next breakthrough. ✔️ Help others first, and everything you want in life will follow. ✔️ Your mindset controls your reality – change your thoughts, change your life. ✔️ The best investment you can make is in your own growth.
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    1 hr and 29 mins
  • 120: The Universe is Hiring w/ Anniston Blair Riekstins
    Dec 31 2024
    In this transformational episode of the Harder Than Life Podcast, host Kelly sits down with Anniston Blair Riekstins, a high-performance coach, spiritual teacher, motivational speaker, and the brilliant author of the new book The Universe is Hiring. This conversation dives deep into the themes of purpose, alignment, overcoming fear, and how to co-create with the universe to manifest your most fulfilling life. Anniston shares personal stories, actionable insights, and a glimpse into her spiritual journey, making this episode a must-listen as you step into a new year of possibilities.Pre-order your copy of The Universe is Hiring today! https://amzn.to/3PikiniKey Takeaways:Purpose Commitments: Define your purpose not by a title but by the actions that align with your gifts. Example: "I open hearts and minds with my words." Emotional Intelligence: Differentiate between nervousness and excitement. Shift your perception to embrace all emotions as part of your growth. Practical Manifestation: Combine intention with aligned action to bring your dreams to life. "You are here for a reason, with gifts only you can bring to the world." – Anniston Blair Riekstins Anniston Riekstins’s Links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annistonblairriekstins/?hl=en Podcast: https://www.inpoweruniversity.com/the-inpowered-life Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Shop HTL merch: https://harderthanlifeshop.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanlife.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71
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    1 hr and 22 mins
  • 119: Secrets to Entrepreneurial Success w/ Debbie Hart & Shawn Finnegan
    Dec 24 2024
    In this heartfelt and transformative episode of Harder Than Life, Kelly Siegel welcomes two extraordinary guests: Shawn Finnegan, a serial entrepreneur known as a “super connector,” and Debbie Hart, founder of Ignition Point, a platform empowering entrepreneurs across all stages. Together, they unpack stories of triumph, failure, and growth, demonstrating how challenges shape us into our best selves.Key Takeaways:Relationships Over Everything: Both Shawn and Debbie emphasize the importance of building and nurturing relationships in personal and professional life. Forgiveness Frees You: Shawn’s story of reconciliation highlights how letting go of grudges can lead to peace and renewed connection. The Power of Action: Debbie and Shawn share how taking imperfect action is better than waiting for the "perfect" moment to start. Leverage Knowledge: Entrepreneurs often miss out on opportunities like tax deductions due to lack of knowledge. Education is key to growth. Empowerment Through Events: Debbie’s Ignition Point events provide access to industry leaders in an intimate, actionable setting. "No one builds an empire alone. Success is always a team effort." – Shawn Finnegan "It’s not what happens to you, but what you choose to do with it that defines your future." – Debbie Hart Debbie & Shawn’s Links: Website: https://ignitionpointacademy.com/ Podcast: https://www.youtube.com/@IgnitionPointpodcastInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/_debbiehart/, https://www.instagram.com/finneganshawn/?hl=en Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Resilience and Innovation 01:32 - The Power of Relationships in Entrepreneurship 04:29 - Mindset Shifts: From Hardship to Ease 09:12 - Shawn's Journey: Overcoming Business Challenges 12:30 - Debbie's Transformation: From Stay-at-Home Mom to Entrepreneur 19:04 - Finding Strength in Vulnerability 23:58 - The Importance of Sharing Stories 29:52 - Lessons Learned and Moving Forward 33:51 - Taking Your Power Back 34:15 - The Depth of Character Development 35:14 - Finding Gratitude in Challenges 36:40 - Building the Future vs. Fighting the Past 37:31 - The Importance of Foxhole Friends 39:54 - Navigating Difficult Relationships 42:25 - The Healing Journey of Forgiveness 44:52 - The Power of Communication 46:40 - Listening as a Tool for Resolution 49:48 - Understanding Tax Implications for Entrepreneurs 54:29 - Role Models and Personal Growth 01:00:43 - Upcoming Events and Community Engagement Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Shop HTL merch: https://harderthanlifeshop.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanlife.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • 118: From Body Shame to Peak Performance w/ Justin Roethlingshoefer
    Dec 17 2024
    In this transformative episode of the Harder Than Life podcast, host Kelly sits down with Justin Roethlingshoefer, co-founder of the groundbreaking Own It Coaching and a trailblazer in the health and wellness space. With a background as a performance coach for NCAA and NHL athletes, a USA Today bestselling author, and host of The Own It Show, Justin has dedicated his life to helping leaders and high performers redefine health and live life on their terms. Justin shares his inspiring journey from being an overweight, body-shamed child to becoming a powerhouse in health optimization. Key Takeaways:What is Ownership? Ownership is the intersection of accountability and responsibility. It’s about taking charge of your health and life with intentionality and consistency. The Cellular Approach to Health: Justin emphasizes that true health begins at the cellular level, where 30 trillion cells must work synergistically. His team uses DNA, epigenetic, and cellular testing to craft hyper-personalized health plans. Why "Looking Healthy" Isn’t Enough: Justin’s journey revealed that even with a six-pack and elite athletic performance, internal health can tell a very different story. His wake-up call led him to focus on holistic, integrated health solutions. Sleep Apnea, Testosterone, and Statins – Debunking Myths: Justin shares a powerful client success story of overcoming health challenges like sleep apnea and low testosterone without lifelong dependence on medication or devices. Health Impacts Wealth: Justin and his team are working with entrepreneurs to track how improved health correlates with financial success. "The world has taught us to base our confidence on outcomes. True transformation comes from intentionality and consistency." -Justin Roethlingshoefer Justin Roethlingshoefer’s Links: Website: https://ownitcoaching.com/testing/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justinroeth/?hl=en LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-roethlingshoefer/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCDetLdQmF_t_sEM-6d4eFkQ Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Shop HTL merch: https://harderthanlifeshop.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanlife.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • 117: Balance Urgency & Importance w/ Matt Reynolds
    Dec 10 2024
    In this episode of Harder Than Life, host Kelly Siegel welcomes Matt Reynolds, founder of Barbell Logic and author of the upcoming book, Undoing Urgency. With over 25 years of experience in strength and fitness coaching, Matt dives into his philosophy of voluntary hardship, balancing urgency and importance, and redefining personal training with simplicity, effectiveness, and cutting-edge technology. Matt shares his journey from being a professional strongman and powerlifter to running a global fitness empire. Together, Kelly and Matt explore actionable advice for life, fitness, and business that listeners can implement today.Matt Reynolds is offering a special discount for the listeners of the Harder Than Life Podcast. They can enjoy 50% off their first month of coaching by using the discount code "HARDER" at checkout at barbell-logic.com/harder Key Takeaways:Voluntary Hardship: Choosing difficult, refining experiences prepares us for the inevitable involuntary hardships of life. Simplicity and Focus: Success in fitness and life comes from focusing on what’s important—simple, hard, and effective practices. Undoing Urgency: Matt's book emphasizes identifying core values and aligning actions to live a life that matters. Online Coaching Benefits: How Barbell Logic's innovative model provides freedom and accessibility for both clients and coaches.Actionable Productivity: Tips from Matt’s GAME Plan framework—Goals, Actions, Metrics, Execution."Simplicity, when paired with effort, is the most effective strategy in fitness and in life." – Matt ReynoldsMatt Reynolds’s Links: Website: https://ryanmattreynolds.com/, https://barbell-logic.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ReynoldsStrong/ X: https://x.com/ReynoldsStrongChapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Harder Than Life Podcast 02:05 - The Concept of Undoing Urgency 05:54 - Identifying Core Values 09:49 - The Importance of Focus and Efficiency 11:46 - Game Plan for Achieving Goals 16:05 - Voluntary vs. Involuntary Hardship 19:58 - The Philosophy of Voluntary Hardship 23:48 - The Benefits of Online Coaching 28:04 - Simplicity in Strength Training 33:44 - The Evolution of Strength Training 37:22 - AI in Coaching: Opportunities and Challenges 41:43 - The Shift to Online Coaching 48:54 - The Future of Coaching: Authenticity and Connection 53:57 - Lessons Learned in Coaching and Business Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Shop HTL merch: https://harderthanlifeshop.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanlife.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71
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    1 hr and 5 mins
  • 116: Summer Camps and Life Lessons w/ Rabbi Josh Bennett
    Dec 3 2024
    In this insightful episode of Harder Than Life, host Kelly Siegel sits down with Rabbi Josh Bennett, spiritual leader at Temple Israel in West Bloomfield, Michigan, and host of the Waking Up to Life podcast. Rabbi Josh shares his journey from a Midwest upbringing to becoming a rabbi and social action advocate. Together, Kelly and Rabbi Josh explore deep topics ranging from authenticity and spiritual leadership to charity work and bridging political and religious divides. Key Takeaways:Embracing Authenticity: Authenticity is about honoring your truth while respecting others. It requires self-awareness and balance, especially in roles of leadership and community service. The Power of Social Action: Social action is a core tenet of Reform Judaism and a way to create impactful change. Initiatives like Fresh Pantry demonstrate how helping neighbors in need fosters connection and understanding. Unity Through Understanding: Bridging divides, whether religious or political, starts with finding common ground and recognizing shared values. True progress comes from listening and collaboration. Gratitude and Presence: Practicing gratitude and living in the present are transformative for mental well-being. Slowing down and embracing stillness can help us refocus on what truly matters. Summer Camp as a Growth Catalyst: Summer camps provide a unique opportunity for children to develop independence, leadership, and lifelong friendships. It’s a chance to grow within a supportive community. The Duality of Life: Life is about balancing instincts and aspirations. Recognizing the “good” and “bad” inclinations allows for self-growth and alignment with personal values. The Importance of Community: Communities thrive when people step up to give back. Whether through charity, mentorship, or social action, collective efforts build stronger bonds and improve lives. The Role of Meditation: Regular meditation fosters mindfulness, reduces stress, and enhances clarity. Starting with even a few minutes a day can unlock new levels of self-awareness and peace. Building Bridges Across Faiths: Understanding and respect among different religions are essential. Leaders like Moses, Jesus, and Mohammed all share teachings of unity and morality, demonstrating the universality of compassion. Mistakes as Opportunities: Mistakes, while humbling, are vital learning experiences. They teach us the importance of preparation, presence, and being thoughtful in how we engage with others. "Gratitude and presence are the keys to unlocking happiness and peace." Rabbi Josh Bennett’s Links: Podcast: https://www.temple-israel.org/wakinguptolifepod Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rabbijoshbennett/ X: https://x.com/tirabbijosh Chapters: 00:00 - Introduction to Rabbi Josh Bennett 02:47 - The Journey to Spiritual Leadership 06:06 - Social Action and Community Engagement 09:00 - Interfaith Dialogue and Understanding 11:53 - The Role of Charity in Judaism 15:11 - Project Healthy Community and Its Impact 17:56 - Authenticity and Self-Discovery 20:49 - Living a Life of No Regrets 34:59 - The Value of Conversations and Regrets 36:57 - Understanding Duality: Good vs. Bad 40:48 - Finding Balance in Life Choices 46:08 - Parenting and Professional Life Balance 48:01 - The Impact of Summer Camp on Growth 51:51 - Generational Wealth and Breaking Cycles 54:11 - Creative Pursuits and Personal Growth 57:02 - The Role of Law and Justice in Society 59:55 - Dinner with Historical Figures: A Theological Discussion 01:01:50 - Meditation and the Importance of Quietude 01:06:02 - Finding Unity in a Fractured World Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Shop HTL merch: https://harderthanlifeshop.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanlife.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71
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    1 hr and 9 mins
  • 115: Overcoming Challenges & Building Community w/ Nikki Jacobs
    Nov 26 2024
    In this vibrant episode of Harder Than Life, host Kelly Siegel sits down with the multifaceted Nikki Jacobs—a natural connector, actress, singer, dancer, and cannabis industry broker. Nikki shares her journey of self-discovery, resilience, and the art of building meaningful relationships. Whether navigating the cannabis business, her creative pursuits, or life’s challenges, Nikki's story is packed with wisdom and inspiration. Key Takeaways:The Power of Connection Being a connector means prioritizing relationships over transactions. Trust and honesty are the foundations of meaningful relationships. Resilience Through Change Major life shifts can lead to unexpected and fulfilling opportunities. Grieving requires both emotional space and active steps toward healing. The Importance of Self-Care A morning routine rooted in stillness and intention can set the tone for the day. Practices like journaling, movement, and meditation help cultivate inner peace. Eastern Philosophy and Personal Growth Martial arts emphasize surrender, discipline, and respect—principles that apply to daily life. Learning to let go of control can open doors to growth and connection. Authenticity and Vulnerability Showing up as your authentic self builds trust and deepens connections. Failure is not the end but a chance to pivot and learn. "Failure is feedback—an opportunity to pivot, learn, and keep moving forward." Nikki Jacobs’s Links: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nikkifayne/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/nikki.fayne/ Chapters: 00:00 - Intro 00:07 - Meet Nikki Jacobs 02:29 - The Art of Connection 04:50 - Journey into the Cannabis Industry 16:44 - Coping with Loss Through Movement Therapy 28:30 - Lessons from Martial Arts 38:03 - Nikki’s Morning Routine 45:05 - "All the World’s a Stage" 52:15 - Musical Inspiration and Jazz Hands 58:56 - Final Reflections 01:01:36 - Closing Thoughts & Call to Action Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Shop HTL merch: https://harderthanlifeshop.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanlife.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71
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    1 hr and 2 mins
  • 114: Awakening to Your Higher Self w/ Emily Andrews
    Nov 19 2024
    In this episode of Harder Than Life, host Kelly Siegel sits down with Emily Rivera Andrews, known as The Angel Coach. Emily has dedicated her life to guiding people toward clarity and purpose by connecting them with their higher selves and spiritual intuition. The conversation dives deep into personal transformation, spiritual awakening, and using one's gifts for greater impact. Emily shares powerful stories, including life-changing moments of divine intervention, her journey through immense personal loss, and how she helps clients transcend self-doubt and embody their true potential. Together, Kelly and Emily explore the importance of surrender, play, and embracing life's challenges as catalysts for growth and spiritual awakening. Key Takeaways: Embracing Divine Guidance: Emily shares her journey to becoming The Angel Coach and how listening to divine guidance has shaped her life and work. The Power of Surrender: Emily and Kelly discuss the transformative power of surrendering to grace and trusting in divine timing to help navigate life's challenges. The Importance of Play & Joy: Discover why play, joy, and laughter are essential components of personal and spiritual development. Awakening to Your Gifts: Emily emphasizes the significance of embracing your gifts and leaning into your anointing to create meaningful impact. Navigating Self-Doubt: Practical advice on identifying, listening to, and transcending self-doubt to step into your higher self. "If it’s been seeded, it’s been given. Your vision wasn’t meant to tease you. It’s meant to show you what’s already possible.” Emily Andrew’s Links: Website: https://theangelcoach.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theangelcoach Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/EmilyTheAngelCoach/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theangelcoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emily-rivera-49456130/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTtE1R0sBADQo0e46KrrOsg Chapters: [00:00] - Introduction: Self-Love and Spiritual Awakening [02:30] - Emily Rivera's Journey to Becoming The Angel Coach [04:50] - Exploring Intuition and Divine Guidance [09:00] - Beyond the Physical: Understanding Spiritual Realities [15:20] - Forgetting and Remembering: The Role of Grace [23:00] - Embracing Your Gifts and Overcoming Challenges [30:00] - The Power of Surrender and Change [40:00] - Navigating Self-Doubt and Identity Transformation [45:00] - Creating Joy and Play in Life’s Journey [53:00] - Practical Steps to Connect with Your Higher Self [1:00:00] - Kelly’s Personal Transformative Experiences [1:07:30] - The Importance of Shifting Environments for Growth [1:15:00] - Audience Q&A: Personal and Spiritual Insights [1:20:00] - Receiving Divine Guidance in Everyday Life [1:25:00] - Final Thoughts and Embracing Spiritual Growth Harder than Life Website: https://www.harderthanlife.com/Shop HTL merch: https://harderthanlifeshop.com/Buy the book: https://www.amazon.com/Harder-than-Life-Overcoming-Addiction/dp/1544539126/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2V9ID7MLAX3XX&keywords=harder+than+life+kelly+siegel&qid=1673314631&sprefix=harder+than+life%2Caps%2C98&sr=8-1Business Website: https://www.trustntm.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/harderthanlife.pod/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kelly.siegel.71LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kelly-siegel-0146a3YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCncVFeA5P2LrAovuofQQcDgTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kellysiegel71
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    1 hr and 8 mins