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Breaking Your Addiction to an Ex Love
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Jennifer Jill Araya
About this listen
Severing a cherished relationship is one of the most painful experiences in life - and cutting those emotional ties to a loved one can feel almost like ending an addiction. Up till now, people recovering from other problems were able to get real help - like AA and rehab - while those struggling in the aftermath of traumatic breaks dealt with platitudes and friends insisting they should "get over it already". But now Exaholics Anonymous treats getting over an ex like kicking a chemical habit.
Written by counselor and therapist Dr. Lisa Bobby, Exaholics offers meaningful support and advice to anyone trapped in the obsessive pain of a broken, or dying, attachment. She helps the brokenhearted heal, showing them, on a deep level, how to develop a conceptual framework for their experience, understand the emotional processes at work inside themselves, find the path to recovery, and free themselves of shame, injured ego, and remorse. In-depth case studies of others' journeys will illuminate the way to future happiness.
©2015 Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby, LMFT, BCC (P)2019 TantorListeners also enjoyed...
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- Length: 11 hrs and 5 mins
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If you are going through a painful breakup or divorce, you may feel like the life you once knew is crashing down around you. You need help to gather the pieces and "rebuild" yourself from the ground up. Rebuilding features Bruce Fisher's "divorce process rebuilding blocks", a proven-effective 19-step process for putting one's life back together after divorce.
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Amazing!
- By Sam Brothers on 10-11-17
By: Bruce Fisher EdD, and others
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Addiction to Love
- Overcoming Obsession and Dependency in Relationships
- By: Susan Peabody
- Narrated by: Randye Kaye
- Length: 5 hrs and 14 mins
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In Addiction to Love, recovering love addict Susan Peabody explains the variety of ways this disorder plays out, from the obsessively doting love addict to the addict who can't disentangle from an unfulfilling, dead-end relationship. Peabody provides an in-depth and easy-to-follow recovery program for those suffering from this unhealthy and often dangerous addiction and explains how to create a loving, safe, and fulfilling relationship.
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Fantastic Book for Love Addicts
- By Hanieh Sigari on 07-25-20
By: Susan Peabody
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30 Days to Overcome a Breakup
- A Mindfulness Program with a Touch of Humor
- By: Logan Tindell, Harper Daniels, Corin Devaso
- Narrated by: Virtual Voice
- Length: 1 hr and 1 min
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Are you struggling to move on after a breakup? Do you find yourself constantly dwelling on the past and feeling stuck in a cycle of negative thoughts and emotions? It's time to take control of your healing process with 30 Days to Overcome a Breakup. This comprehensive mindfulness workbook offers a unique approach to help you navigate the challenges of a breakup and start the journey towards healing and self-discovery. Over the course of 30 days, you'll engage in daily mindfulness exercises, guided meditations, and reflective journaling prompts designed to help you move on, release the past,...
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day 16
- By Anonymous User on 12-05-24
By: Logan Tindell, and others
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The Art of Letting Go
- By: Rania Naim, Skyla Child, Marisa Bagnato, and others
- Narrated by: Tanya Eby
- Length: 1 hr and 36 mins
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We often struggle to let some people go, especially when they made that decision. We question the universe, we question ourselves, and we question everyone around us but we never truly get our answers. Letting someone go takes time, patience, and commitment to actively stop ourselves from relapsing and thinking about that person again. The Art of Letting Go helps you understand why, how, and when you should let someone go so you can move on and never look back.
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Robotic voice-painful
- By Jessica Heizman on 01-14-21
By: Rania Naim, and others
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Men Who Can't Love
- How to Recognize a Commitmentphobic Man Before He Breaks Your Heart
- By: Julia Sokol, Steven Carter
- Narrated by: Kevin Young
- Length: 8 hrs and 26 mins
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Featured on Oprah and Sally Jesse Raphael, this definitive look at the dynamics of male-female communication gets to the heart of the all-too-common phenomenon: women who are ready and willing to commit, and men who back off just as the relationship moves toward the next level. This book can help you recognize early warning signs of the commitmentphobic man and avoid unnecessary stress and heartache.
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A good read for women, but ....
- By Jay Leonard on 09-20-17
By: Julia Sokol, and others
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Facing Love Addiction
- Giving Yourself the Power to Change the Way You Love
- By: Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller, Keith J. Miller
- Narrated by: Nathan McMillan
- Length: 5 hrs and 35 mins
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Through 12-step work, exercises, and journal-keeping, Facing Love Addiction compassionately and realistically outlines the recovery process for love addicts. Mellody’s fresh perspective and clear methods work to comfort and motivate all those looking to establish and maintain healthy, happy relationships.
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The only book you will ever need on love addiction!
- By Becky on 07-12-20
By: Pia Mellody, and others
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- Meg
- 01-07-21
You might just NEED this.
I was struggling with a really bad breakup — for six months. No signs of me emerging. I usually roll my eyes at self-help things like this, but all I can say is the stories that resonated and way she breaks down everything that heartbroken people feel and experience was a great journey. It is short. It’s worth it. It really helped me. Finally able to get out of a really bad phase.
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- Katie E.
- 08-23-20
AMAZING
I have had immense past struggles! I listened to this book in 2 days while still being able to complete tasks around the house during areas that didn’t apply to me. The areas that did, life changing! Highly recommend.
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- Michael Oldham
- 12-09-22
Extremely Helpful
I don’t have the words to even describe how this book has helped me in my journey. The emotions I didn’t have the words to describe were so elegantly used in this book. I am very grateful for all the time and effort spent to write this book by all involved.
From the bottom of my heart, Thank you!
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- J. Wilkinson
- 02-06-23
Best Book
This is the best and most helpful book I have ever read! The information in this book helped tremendously through the hardest time of my life.
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- Holly Mowery
- 12-22-24
Amazing
Amazing, very honest insight into a problem that I have struggled with my entire adult life. The scientific way a breakup is explained appealed to me immensely. I cannot overstate how life changing the content of this book is.
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- Gezzy
- 11-12-19
More helpful than I knew I needed!
This book tackled some hard to deal with ups and downs associated with getting over an Ex Love. I reached rock bottom and thought about ending it all, then I found this book. It helped knowing that I was not alone in feelings of deep hurt, shame and guilt for struggling to move past an Ex Love.
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- Volixen
- 03-08-23
Validation & A Plan
Love that this book doesn’t just validate how one feels, and why, it also has a full plan of steps on how to heal and move forward as your interdependent best self.
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- Jill
- 09-20-20
Highly recommend
This book is a MUST if you have ever gone through a breakup or been on either side of an unfaithful relationship.
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- INAFIT
- 02-08-21
Wow...did this book hit home. Excellent!
This is an excellent book. I couldn’t believe how much it mirrored things in my life. I’d recommended it to anyone having a hard time getting over an ex. I’ve listened to it twice! I use the tips offered to help get thru the hard times and they seem to help a lot. Great audible!
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- Ana Mendez
- 04-29-22
Obsessed with my Ex, wasn't normal, found this
If you are divided, having a fight in your brain, between leaving or getting back your EX, listen to this, this book framed exactly what I was going through, now that I have a label, and identified the issue and the source of my obsession, I can solve it now, and be able to move on.
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